My first experience was with a woman who uses all of your senses.  She brings a small CD player with all types of music to allow setting an comfortable mood for each person.  That combined with the candles and her made an incredible impression; I still see her whenever I can even though I have to be very careful with her due to my size.

She kind of made it tougher on others I see now.  I don't expect all providers to provide the same experience.  I always try to help set some mood with music or candles when staying in hotels and have been told my place is set up better than most incall locations.

I have gotten some rather nasty comments from posts where the surroundings are described and I say the music and candles were provided by me.  One got fairly mad and wanted to know how I could expect her to provide music and candles when she came to my hotel; it didn't go over very well when I said that I got that expectation from previous experiences.

DrX

I mostly provide incall at my cozy bungalo.  I utilize all senses by lighting scented candles, providing soft music such as Sade, Diana Kroll, and yes, even Billie Holliday.  I even have a vintage vacumn tube amplifier.  I wear scented lotion and depending on the situation, providing food items - fruit, chocolate syrup, whip cream, wine.  I combine these items with sensuality, warmth, a gentle touch and softness to create a delicious eroticism for both my client and myself.

Re:Music to my ears

Although it is very hard for me to bring my music and candles with me to the hotels here in Vegas...without carrying a suitcase with me...I do agree that music and lighting and scents can make a world of difference on a date.

When I tour I bring a player with cds of my favorite Celtic and Classical music. Altan, Rachmoninoff, Celtic Moods and even some Tony Bennet.

The beat of certain music can really set the pace of your intimate time and if programmed properly, the experience can be out of this world.

Dr.X is one of the few gents I have met that provides the lighting and music for our wonderful encounters. His taste in both is impeccable and it makes for a wonderful atmosphere.

I did have a gent one time burn a couple of cds for me with all kinds of different music on them. He said the songs reminded him of me...and then he pulled a couple of pictures off my site and made a cd labels.  

some guys are just too cool....


xoxox
Lass

and have often thought of bringing Blues CDs.  But the mood would be rather more earthy (maybe even raunchy) in comparison to the sophistication of the above named chanteuses.  

Would this be offensive to ladies?  I suppose I should ask first, and try to get a feel for how she truly feels about it.  Could be tough to get a completely honest response, though, since she may want the date and feel that listening to music that she actually doesn't like is a small price to pay for the business.

Wow, what a mood setter!
Had the pleasure of an overnight with a very special lady recently. We met at a great location and it was my turn to handle the details. I purchased a small portable cd player (the type you can take with you to work out) and a pair of small computer speakers. All this fits great in your suitcase BTW, and the sound quality was amazing. I specifically bought the type that plays MP3 files and burned some of my (and our) favorites. Pulled music off the Internet, and added a few complete albums from my own collection. Cool thing is you can put almost 15 hours of music on one disc. No need to ever stop what you’re doing to change discs. Started the tunes around 8pm and listened throughout the night.
The music was definitely ONE of the most memorable elements of the evening…

Got to put Nora on your list if she’s not already on it…

CI


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I'm not one who is necessarily knowledgable about all the artists...just know when I hear something whether or not I like it.  But a burned CD that a lady recently brought & left as a gift is a compilation of 19 songs by Chante Moore--I'd never heard of her before, but IMO she's fantastic!!

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When I was 22 YO I worked with this older but gorgeous married woman. One day she straight out asks me If I want to fuck, I of course say yes. This proceeded to a good couple of months. To this day, whenever I smell the perfume that I just have no idea what it was I get a raging hardon. After 6 years it still works, blows me away. -Joel

You might want to try some classical music some time. Scheherazade by Rimski Korsakov, Sleeping Beauty by Tchaikovsky, Ma Vlast by Smetena, Beethoven's Symphony #6 The Pastoral or any other Beethoven such as the Moonlight Serenade, Rachmaninov's variations on a theme by Paganini also Borodin, Brahms, Chopin, Ravel, Mahler and Debussy are good choices. Pick your music carefully to create the mood and atmosphere that you and your companion desire and your experience can definitely be enhanced.