Can DATY all day long but when roles are reversed, it's over in a matter of minutes...what to do, what to do???

I know a lot of girls that allow more than one pop... so why not pop and pop again the second one usually lasts longer. But when you are getting close have her back off , licks the boys or inner thighs till you calm done a bit.One thing to try is making the O more intense is have the lady when you feel that going to start to explode, have her let go of the boys press real firm just above the anus with the first three fingers, but without using her fingernails. Once she feel you starting to shoot, have her press that spot firm until you throb twice and only twice, more than that could cause pain. Then release the pressure right before she feel the third pulse and stand back cause its gonna blow and blow hard.

..its an excercise you do to strengthen the muscles that control ejaculation. With stronger muscles you can clamp down and halt that crazy rush that leads to the pop. Plus, concentrating on something else helps as well.

in a word... zoloft

De-Sentizing cream works fine for me. Put it on half an hour before. It does not work all the time the same, but don't know why. Good luck.

Cheers Shiela!...croc dundee speak....lol

Does it for me every time.  Delays the pop almost forever.

especially the ones... that luved to use those black tipped pointers.


"take that you bad boy"
Ouch!...I had my fair share of those.


Cheers!

... nothing is working --- Wait!

Send in the Nuns!

"tip of the hat to Mel Brooks"

where do you find de-sensitizing cream?  any recommendations?

Two pops is almost always the norm, especially with multi-hour appointments.  This is something that should be talked about as the foreplay begins.  Most ladies will ask, "are you a multi-pop guy?"

anywhere around--the laughing out loud attracts too much attention.  you guys slay me!

Nuns?  Mother-In-Laws don't work anymore?

back.  Works well for me everytime.  Even helps with the power and precision of my golf swing.  You can find many exercise routines which strengthen the targeted muscles, the ones that I use are simple floor exercises that require no equipment and can be done anyplace that has a soft surface.

them until I found that exercising the lower abdomen and back muscles regularly worked much better and provided other physical benefits.  Some regular drugstore also sold the creams and sprays when I used them.  You may feel less self-conscious about buying the desensitizers if you stop by the adult bookstore late at night instead of trying the drugstore route.
    One poster who use the desensitizers pointed out that he applies them about 30 minutes before.  This is what I did also, when I used them.  You want to make sure that you wash the stuff off before engaging a provider, especially if you are going to get a BBBJ.  The stuff can numb a person's mouth.  When I used them, Benzocaine was normally the active ingredient, but there may be some out there that contain ingredients that can make a person sick if swallowed, even in small amounts.

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encircle the head of your penis - if you're circumcised do so right at that point - and squeeze tightly.  Do this just before you cum.  Hold the tight squeeze until the urge to cum subsides, then let loose and resume activities. This can be done multiple times in a session to delay cumming.

Edited 7-18-04. Should have read forefinger instead of index finger. Sorry.

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In the movie "All of Me", Lily Tomlin's character thinks of dead kittens to create a buzzkill.

-Hoot.