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hotplants 227 reads
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They just might tell a woman what she wants to know. Hell...who said only MEN get to participate?

Just sayin'

-- Modified on 9/23/2012 3:22:38 PM

Hi everyone! I posted on a regional discussion board as well, but I wanted to get a better sense of whether or not there is a community of female hobbyists on this site. I have been a female hobbyist for awhile and although I hope that my reviews will be useful to others (both men and women) I would like to gear my reviews towards the interests of other female hobbyists because I find that my particular gendered experiences are better recieved by those that can relate to me. That being said, I am new to this site so any information about review protocols, and what not, would be appreciated. Thanks!

...Not even sure that such reviews are allowed by TER but others can correct me.

I'm not necessarily against reviews by female hobbyists but you have to remember that TER was set up for MEN to be able to determine what kind of service providers supply to MEN.  Your reviews won't tell me if they lick my balls or do deep throat.

As another hobbyist once said: "Just sayin'"

hotplants228 reads

They just might tell a woman what she wants to know. Hell...who said only MEN get to participate?

Just sayin'

-- Modified on 9/23/2012 3:22:38 PM

saturnsky239 reads

I have yet to have my first female client. I highly doubt that TER would even consider a female review section...just not enough women that participate and as one guy already said...this is a dude board.

So exciting to have a woman here! And I have been wondering the same thing. I have been considering hiring my first female companion and was wondering if I could post a review too!

So thanks for asking. :)

But I suspect the others are right... Might be a guy-only space. :(

I did come across a review site where ladies review male companions, but not where we can review female companions.

Her name is webterrorist, but unfortunately she has no reviews posted.

I met her once at a meet and greet in Vegas and found her quite the interesting person.

She hasn't been around for a while but if she is lurking maybe she'll see this and contact you by PM and let you know what she has found that works.

Of course you'll both have to be VIP to get PMs.

I too wish there were more female patrons...d*ck gets boring after a while, and like guys we too want something different at times ha ha.

Did London just say, "Dicks get boring"??
Hope none of the guys think, pussy gets boring.
If so, stay the hell away from me......lol.

ps, i would love to watch two hot ladies go at it. :)

Posted By: AliciaN
Hi everyone! I posted on a regional discussion board as well, but I wanted to get a better sense of whether or not there is a community of female hobbyists on this site. I have been a female hobbyist for awhile and although I hope that my reviews will be useful to others (both men and women) I would like to gear my reviews towards the interests of other female hobbyists because I find that my particular gendered experiences are better recieved by those that can relate to me. That being said, I am new to this site so any information about review protocols, and what not, would be appreciated. Thanks!

excellent idea..i doubt if the powers that be will go for it..we already have a transexual board..all we have to do is eliminate the dicks and we are there..

Posted By: AliciaN
Hi everyone! I posted on a regional discussion board as well, but I wanted to get a better sense of whether or not there is a community of female hobbyists on this site. I have been a female hobbyist for awhile and although I hope that my reviews will be useful to others (both men and women) I would like to gear my reviews towards the interests of other female hobbyists because I find that my particular gendered experiences are better recieved by those that can relate to me. That being said, I am new to this site so any information about review protocols, and what not, would be appreciated. Thanks!
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hotplants257 reads

Ah…I’ve been on this board going on…5 -6, (more?)  years now. When I first arrived, I had no idea the level shit I was getting myself into. Early on I was regularly told that any women who ‘pays for sex’ must be flawed in some way. The only reason she would do so is because she had no other choice. She must be too----fat, ugly, fill in the blank, to even get a drunken mercy fuck in a bar.

Suffice to say, I’ve have had some battles on this board.

And, I have had quite a number of convos with women via PM, who had some interest, but were put-off/intimidated by the tenor of this board; and for whatever reason, declined to participate on any level.

Today? I’d have to say there is still no contingency of women ‘hobbyist’ around here.

And, quite honestly, I would have considerable difficulty describing myself as a “hobbyist”----for too many reasons to get into in this post.

All of that said, Welcome! I, for one, would LOVE to see a different perspective around here.


The general board is a full contact sport. Happy to see you were welcomed with at least some level of class...Don't expect that to last...

I think we would all love to see a few female reviews. That would give this a whole new flavor.

I would add though that if you are the first person to review a provider, once you answer the categories, they are damn near impossible to change. For instance, a female provider may do a session with you, but would not do a threesome...She may be into kissing you...but not a male client...and so on.

Having these categories filled out incorrectly, may cost them money, and or give them headaches during sessions that they don't need.

-- Modified on 9/24/2012 1:42:52 AM

hotplants219 reads

Puuleese. Albeit---there must be one out there.

But who cares? Me thinks this would not be much of a deterrent in a review-----well.....to anyone. In fact, quite possibly a positive.

And, why should this OP not have an expectation of a welcome lasting? She should have every expectation of being welcomed. Why should she not?

Just sayin the search categories...I see a provider regularly who first review was a fake from 2 years ago...many reviews since have indicated that there is no Greek on the menu, but it still lists her as Anal-yes... That has cause her some issues since...Saw a review recently, where the reviewer said yes to most categories after seeing a provider, but in the review that he "guessed" these other services would be available, but had no direct knowledge...

As to the gracious welcome not lasting...have you seen some of the things people say to each other here??? Although most of it is pretty funny, it's not for the faint of heart.

I hope they do treat her well...but I don't expect it...

Posted By: hotplants
Puuleese. Albeit---there must be one out there.

But who cares? Me thinks this would not be much of a deterrent in a review-----well.....to anyone. In fact, quite possibly a positive.

And, why should this OP not have an expectation of a welcome lasting? She should have every expectation of being welcomed. Why should she not?

That's how profiles get changed. If greek is not on the menu, file a problem report and say so! The provider can file a problem report herself to change things like that.

The provider can simply hit the damn "Report A Problem" tab from her profile, and make the changes needed to be made. Now, if a guy says she has baby fat and she is now smaller, she may have to prove it, but for most other things like services, they are usually no hassle to change.

Posted By: perfectstorm
That's how profiles get changed. If greek is not on the menu, file a problem report and say so! The provider can file a problem report herself to change things like that.

Thanks everyone for the comments. Almost everything that was said has given me a better sense of how I should be tailoring my reviews. I just want to make a couple shout outs.

@sethric56 - Thank you for the advice about protocol. The comment about the categories is very helpful because I am aware that working with women changes certain dynamics about the providers profiles and I would not want my experiences to effect their work.

@hotplants – Thanks for sharing your experience on this site, I will definitely keep that in mind and I am glad to see someone who is on a similar page as me. Not to mention that your comments were also hilarious :).

@Back_In_Black – Although I am not sure why, I definitely liked your comments and will be following you more on this site. And although I don’t think I should have to justify why I do this…not being attractive enough to get it otherwise (if that’s what you were implying about the hot question) its not one of them ;).  

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