I posted this topic on my local board last year and received a few responses. Recently,  I took a 2 day trip with a provider whom I am very close with. It was a bucket list item.  

I would like to hear from both hobbyists and providers on this topic.  

1. What type of hobbyist or provider would you consider taking a trip with?

2. For the providers are you willing to negotiate or come up with a package for a very good client?

3. What percentage of clients (hobbyists) actually follow through with an extended date like this?    

4. What destinations and activities do you like to do on trips?

I would like to get feedback regarding my questions because I am planning to do this again next year. I would also like to hear from hobbyists and providers regarding their experiences on trips together. Please feel free to PM me as well.

Redfox7

I have met people for the first time ever & created epic memories. I believe my vetting allows me the ability to do a chemistry check to see if we are compatible. I prefer taking trips with likeminded people who are respectful, caring and want to have lots of fun! 🤩 I have packages available on my website, but am always open to offer a value for phenomenal adventures. My percentage of these bookings are higher than most because I enjoy them. I don’t need my own room, nor do I need my own time. I like to do epic 💩.

🥰These questions should be answered by the provider your booking.

What type of hobbyist or provider would you consider taking a trip with?  

I have gone a couple of trips with a provider.  In my case it was someone who I saw several times before the trip. I have a good relationship with her.  

What destinations and activities do you like to do on trips?

On the two trips I took I picked two places that I wanted to see.  As for activities, apart from the obvious private activities you just do vacation things.  See the sights, go to restaurants etc.  

The trips I took were fun and I will probably take another trip with this provider in the future.  However, it is a good idea to discuss the trip before and lay out expectations.  As with so many things communication is key.

and generally with gals I knew quite well.

 
Sometimes there would be some craziness, and after one trip we got on each others' nerves so much we stopped seeing each other for quite a while, but finally made up.   It was a four day trip, which is probably a little too long.   We went to a vacation island.

 
I think the best, oddly enough, was with a Korean gal I met at an AMP.   She spoke very little English, and this was before Goggle Translate;, yet somehow we get along amazingly well.   We mostly went to museums and a little shopping.

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I have gone a couple trips with clients I have seen a couple times . One was to an adults only resort . I had fun but of course never done one again. I have been thinking about it since I did it too. It was nice to be in a place where everyone was naked and naughty! Def communication is key on trips to layout out expectations.

“I posted this topic on my local board last year and received a few responses. Recently,  I took a 2 day trip with a provider whom I am very close with. It was a bucket list item.  
I would like to hear from both hobbyists and providers on this topic.  
1. What type of hobbyist or provider would you consider taking a trip with?”

I really cannot have any set expectations whenever it comes to seeing anyone. Even more nonchalant relationships take time to build trust, vet compatibility for long term.

 Usually it takes about a year or so for either of us to get comfortable enough to spend more extended time together. Many of the trips I’ve taken with my closest clients had the intention of keeping a mutually beneficial agreement or a *paid* serious relationship.  

So whenever we start flying to the moon together, the other person sees themselves not going anywhere for a while…

Even though some don’t always last, I look back a recall having the best times of my life— I got to explore the world with someone who matched/exceeded my freaky sexual appetite.

 The initial mind, body, soul connection could feel intoxicating, but compatibility was also important for staying happy.

Most hobbyists know how to seduce a woman. I love that about getting together with a more experienced man. Hobby dating is exciting with someone who naturally pulls me out of my quiet, gentle state.

“2. For the providers are you willing to negotiate or come up with a package for a very good client?”

Of course. Not incessantly, though.

“3. What percentage of clients (hobbyists) actually follow through with an extended date like this?    “

Not many. I would say maybe 10-15% at any given time.  

“4. What destinations and activities do you like to do on trips?”

I have been daydreaming about making my rounds to Europe again… not sure whether it’s a good idea currently. It seemed much easier for more of my European/English clients to go on trips.

Typical:
- dining, theater, concerts, museums, jazz, tub soaking, couples massage, flying together, shopping, room service, sightseeing, gambling is my favorite  

“I would like to get feedback regarding my questions because I am planning to do this again next year. I would also like to hear from hobbyists and providers regarding their experiences on trips together. Please feel free to PM me as well.”

Time will always tell. It feels so nice to be cared for, even if the relationship itself has its limitations.

I've traveled with six providers and two sugarbabies over the last 30 years.   The second sugarbaby experience was a big mistake -- hadn't seen her before, didn't really know her.  I will exclude her from further discussion.  With the others,  I'd  not only seen them before but spent the night with them.  As to "type," I'll say all were very smart and verbal but didn't necessarily have college degrees.  They ranged from a 45-year old mother of three to a burlesque dancer to a woman who went on to become a porn performer.  With two of the providers, I had long-term ongoing relationships.  The key was knowing we'd be compatible beforehand.    

FWIW, in all cases the monetary arrangements were customized.  Where I had long-term relationships, they got allowances and trips were part of the deal.   My guess answer for your number 2 is that the providers I traveled with were all eager to travel, and very willing to cut deals.

4.  (a) Went to the American Bar Association meeting in Hawaii one year and stayed over to go to Maui; (b) Went to the Texas State Fair with the legendary Emma Bond; (c) nothing like a few days in San Francisco; (d) Seattle was always a good destination, a little under-the-radar and quirky, which made it really nice; (e) London and Paris.  

Bon voyage!

First of all.. I can't sleep in the same bed with another individual.. Tremendous amount of anxiety.  I have tried it but no luck.  I keep staring at the ceiling.  If some SB I am boning comes over and stays, she sleeps in the guest room.  Kinda defeats the purpose of vacationing if you are going to be sleeping separately.  

 

Another thing is that I love having conversations with people, but the max limit is 1 hr.  Beyond that, I don't want to have anything to do with you.  Want to have a nice friendly chat.... Meet me for coffee, or breakfast or drinks.  That's my ceiling though.  Beyond that I am insufferable and very easily irritable.  

 
I don't think I am mentally built for that kind of companionship.  

 
Hence I travel alone and do 90% of things alone.

To each his own, buddy.....  

Maybe when you're by yourself and old and drooling....the future kids of TER board mongers can come wipe the drool off your face in the Medicaid nursing home...  

RELAX.....I'm just poking you....
well, uh....yeah....you just need to relax and chill....

Just reading a few of your >10000 posts on here, I can't see how you aren't the very life of the party! lol

Future kids as only bitches..  And those bitches be hot as fuck...  

 
BTW, i am a firm believer in physician assisted suicide..  If I can't wipe my own drool then It's been time to go already.. LoL.. So don't even worry  about it..

I can be but they have to be followed, on both sides, by long durations of alone time....  

 
I DO NOT enjoy constant socializing. It drains the fuck out of me.

I have been all over the world with clients!! In the US I have gone on trips to NYC, Nashville, Palm Springs, Las Vegas,  Chicago multiple times, Milwaukee multiple times, twin cities for concerts, Montana, South Dakota and New Orleans. I have also been on lots of fun camping trips!! Outside of the US trips would include Mexico, Dominican Republic, Ireland, France, Czech Republic, Slovakia, Germany, Austria, and Iceland.  
I have and would only go on trips with long time clients that I know really well and that I get along with really well.  
When I go on a trip with a client they pay for the room, travel, food, any tickets for anything we do or see, and they also pay for my pet sitter. I ask for a small daily payment for my time, usually between $200 and $400, depending on the length of the trip.  I love to go to zoos, art museums, botanical gardens, and outdoor concerts. I have flown first class and also packed in the back with the riff raff, I am OK with either. I have also gone on trips with clients where we drove. I have stayed at very high end hotels, but I have also stayed at mom and pop roadside motels. Also OK with either.  
I was obviously much more motivated to go on trips and see the world so I never viewed trips with clients as a money maker. Other providers may have a very different outlook and want you to pay their regular rates and pay for their time. Make sure you are going with someone you know very well and are comfortable with! Have fun and looking forward to hearing about your adventures!!!

Domestically, I went to various places in the US for long weekends etc.
I used to do quite a few trips back to the UK with gents that wanted to go native as it were. These were always fun trips for me and I think the guys enjoyed seeing me interact with my people lol.
I never travelled with anyone I didn’t have a pre/existing good relationship with - bad chemistry makes a shitty trip for all. The furthest I went was to Australia. A client I met in Boston was from there. We did a test run of a few days together in NYC first to see how being together 24/7 was. A few months later I flew to Oz. Amazing trip but a bloody long way!

"Now Boarding" For FMTY!

Early  in  my  Courtesan  Career,  I  was  blessed  to  experience  many  FMTY  
sojourns,  via  exclusive  Clientele  which I  procured.  

 
My  initial  business  was  solely  based  on  "word-of-mouth"  from  said  Clientele,  
due  to  our  appearances  at  very  public  venues  for dining,  sporting  events  and  
 "Industry"  soirees.

 
Various  friends  of  my  Clients  would  inquire  as  to  who  I am,  thus  a  discrete
acquaintance  was  solidified  without  the  "traditional"  verification  of  references.  

( I  would  otherwise  be  fearful  to  sojourn  to  a  complete  stranger's  destination;
  that's  just  the  circumspection  in  me,  as  my  life  is  more  important  than  any  $$. )

 
This  led  to  flights  often  2  to  4  times  a  week.
Thank  goodness  most  were  private  flights  enabling  solo  time,  for  beauty  sleep,  
fine  cuisine  and  the  savoring  of  the  journey  en route.

 
Currently,  my  FMTY  excursions   must  be  well-planned,  without  much  spontaneity,
and  ultimately  most  remunerative.

 
Most  sought-after  are  lengthy  FMTY  opportunities  or  luxury  vacations  preferably
to warm tropical destinations  due  to  the  numerous  personal  commitments  I  must  
attend  to  at  home;  family,  pets,  and  a  "civvie"  career.

 
Whereas  early-on,  I'd  accept  numerous  short  trips  which  were  usually  spontaneous  
financially  lucrative  and  too  exciting  to  ever  decline.