As a hobbyist have you ever walked out of an appointment after meeting the provider? If so, Why? And as a provider have you ever denied a client other than him being drunk or high? If so, why?

A new client flew me to his city to spend 2 days together.  Risky, I know, but his screening checked out, and I'd never had any problems doing this before.

1.  Bait and Switch - I have a pretty high tolerance for Photoshopping, but when it's clear there was an intent to deceive the customer, I walk out.  

She was quite overweight and 15 years older. She saw the look on my face and said "this isnt going to happen is it?"  To this day I occasionally see reviews where she gets 8s on looks.

There was one girl who was clearly on something, with whom I had already had enough headaches that nowadays I would've bailed 1,000 times over. But this was very early in my hobbying career, and I went through with it. There were hygiene problems to boot. But I actually ended up having a pleasurable experience, despite having to do all of the work myself. Plus, she was attractive.  

you would share with all these tell-tale signs of sex slavery.

I did a few times when working for agencies, but those agencies did not screen. In those cases, I got there and the guy seemed way unsafe and aggressive... or, tried to negotiate, or ask about 'services' or something.

that you didn't specifically request ahead of time.

...and I have P411 and TER to thank for that! 😎

Because she wanted to get paid upfront before we played. I got ripped off paying upfront before. Since then I never ever pay upfront. Even with my trusted regular providers. My regular providers know I'll pay them after we're done playing. Never had a problem paying after playtime is over.

she told me she'd been out late drinking the night before but she was good to go. I believed her, or should I say the "little head" believed her. I wasn't at her incall a minute when I realised that she was hung over. I stayed for a few minutes more. She started a bbbj, but it was ridiculous. So I got up and walked out.

You wondered if the guy was not the same guy those references had seen. That's a logical question. Did you contact those references after the appointment? Maybe with physical description, etc you could figure that out. I don't know for sure, but if you were saying stop and he persisted, I'd think p411 would want to know about it too.

When I get a B&S there is none of that "well I was there anyhow so I went ahead with the session" I will walk without saying a word if some fatass answers the door, and I have done so MANY times.

Since he had 50+ OK's and his recent references had spoken highly of him, I was a bit nervous to rock the boat, so to speak. I thought of emailing a few of the women I'd contacted, like "So... I had a very different experience with this guy, and am a bit concerned that someone may have shared his p411 account." However, what if she would then email him, to ask his side of the story, and it got ugly (I've heard of that happening)? And he decided upon some form of online retaliation?  

... I have walked. The reason was fake pics. Now I walk when I am left hanging in the lobby or on the corner. The longer I have to wait the more pissed off I am. Once I am pissed off I am not in the mood to part with good money to fuck an inconsiderate un-professional.

on my part that when I was a Newbie, I inadvertently patronized a couple of these places until I figured it out.  I still carry the guilt with me for not figuring it out the first time I went to one.  As we all know, when the blood rushes to your dick, sometimes your brain doesn't work right.  

She was not the girl in the pics by a long shot. Not cool. One was an agency girl.

Wow, that makes me sick to my stomach. Sounds awfully similar to rape

Had been in awe of a providers pics for a couple of weeks before I decided to take the plunge and go see her.  I forget all the minute details as it was roughly 8 years ago, but basically I drove 2 hours from San Diego to L.A. to see her and when I got there she opened the door and I could tell she was clearly not the woman I had been fantasizing about.  She wasn't unattractive by any stretch of the imagination, she just wasn't the girl in the pictures I had been looking at.  I asked about it, she denied that her profile was fake and still wanted the posted donation.  Clear B&S, so I walked out.  

an outcall? If I could have, I would have.

How does one go about reporting this? I transitioned from AMPs to kgirls and I've been to a place that at first, I was a newbie as well this was maybe the first or second place I had ever been to, seemed fine but I realized after a couple of trips was definitely suspect and fits a lot of the descriptions you mentioned. I think about what I saw from time to time and felt really bad for the women but aside from calling a police station, had no idea what I could do.

pay phones around, which are pretty anonymous.  Not sure how you would do it now unless you block your cell phone. Make sure you didn't stay for the session if you're going to report it.  Otherwise, you may have some splaining to do. They call it self-incrimination, I believe.

I'm pretty sure all police departments have some type of anonymous crime reporting infrastructure (just how anonymous might be a question but would give an initial layer of protection) and as mentioned blocking the number and there are a lot of cheap burner options that are pretty easy to setup.

I left a guy on a trip once as well. He was local to me and we had gotten together once before the trip and he seemed alright. Where do I start...at the airport desk he grabbed the phone from the employee, he was overly rude to light attendants, he got hammered on the flight, tried to grope me on the flight, got detained in Miami (we were heading to DR) because he was drunk and rude to TSA, once at the resort we repeatedly told hotel employees to "speak English" (he himself was an immigrant..???...and we were in a differing country...??????), he switched us from a suite to a room with one bed (not cool, I slept on the couch), I SWEAR I could here him trying to get in the bathroom while I was taking a shower. I left after one night and was supposed to be there three nights. It was an absolute nightmare. He had my ticket home downgraded from first to economy and then proceeded to threaten to sue me for months afterword.  

Otherwise you run the very real risk of getting a "consenting adult" arrested, jailed and her livelihood ruined just because you read things wrong.  

The problem was, I wasn't sure if I was going to be able to do it. This woman was a BEAST. lol  

I took (a big) one for the team today ... that is the most vile, disgusting human being that I’ve seen in a VERY LONG TIME.

Yes - lady who I seen twice; first time was pretty fantastic and second time was fun. Knew she had a history of drugs but both times she was not doing drugs. Fast forward at least 18 months - called her up as she was around the corner. Showed up to a lower end motel, she opened the door. Her was room was just trashed and she was hot mess. Look like she ages 10 years in 18 months. I turned around and left. Felt sorry for her truly.

I was lined up to see a provider that had great reviews and looked great. She canceled on me last minute but said her roommate would see me.  When I open the door I figured it must have been a house mom or something because the lady was probably close to 70 years old.  Once it was clear that she was who I was going to see I told her this would not work out and gave her 20 bucks and left.  She was absolutely repulsive and there's no way I would have fucked her even if she would've paid me.