It should also be noted that 80%+ of all men lie to pollsters and to themselves...

The reason I bring this up, is...I recently figured out that 2 of my friends hobby, and I also picked up that one is a member here. (There's only so much verbal dancing someone can do before I can put it all together...)

My question is, how do you all act when you run into this?

I didn't want to out myself, so I kept the conversations where they needed to be...lol

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It is what it is... Welcome aboard !!!  I would love to share notes with my new hobby friends. All of them know that I support legalization of prostitution..

A better question would be how would they react if they discover that I see prostitutes..

Let me rephrase that.. How would their wives react...LOL.. The guys would be cool I suppose...

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Interesting topic to discuss but clearly the US is out of step with the rest of the world in many places other than the US its perfectly acceptable to have a woman other than your wife to please you make you happy and possibly do things at your wife wouldn't  in the US we all have to have this little secret I don't know but it is what it is like other gentleman said we all have to do with me I'll continue to enjoy the hobby enjoy the girls enjoyed my fun

And that is the reality. I happen to believe in all things Freud says.

And god bless money. Under $1 bill, everyone is equal. And for that reason we get access to the kind of life style we only dreamed about before getting in.

....to our detriment, in my opinion. My libertarian tendencies make me squirm when I realize exactly how restricted we are.

that time of the month that women face. I'm talking about the little dot on your keyboard that goes at the end of a sentence.
After you learn how to do that, there are a few other keys you need to learn, like "shift."

actually make a post that is relevant to the topic..

i think i get what you just said, but punctuation is key my man. like REALLY.

wives and/or girlfriends are a LOT more expensive than providers

I didn't even notice if the post was relevant.

Statistics like this mean nothing to me.  I don't spend time worrying about how other people are living their lives and I couldn't care less about other people hobbying.  I never talk about other than with the women that I am paying and here on this site.

HI PS,

The novelist, poet who, sometimes, didn't use punctuation in his poems!!  I found out about E.E.'s quirkiness from  Friday's  Final Jeopardy clue-

Category:20th Century American Writers

A publisher’s note on one of his books called him “The Terror of Typesetters” & “An enigma to book readers’.

The answer is  Who Is E.E. Cummings?

Not punctuation did a poet make

                               It was movement across a page



                 Like music to the eyes                                or in my case more like noise
         

                                            When harmony is broken.   This is the reason it's typesetter terror,

He punctuates with strong starts and stops.


My version of E.E. Commings Style  I never really liked it or got it.  This is God awful, but I'm not getting out a book.

Actually, it's e e cummings

I'm going to start English 101 for providers and hobbyists..

More men are involved in this "hobby" than most people think.  
Men from all walks of life are involved.  
But most of us lead a double life, and never let on to friends and family that we are "hobbyist".

Not only are wives and GFs more expensive, but my experience is that the sex provided by the SO is of lower quality, especially as time passes n a relationship. And while this may not account for the emotional connection in a LTR, I'd rather have a quality BBBJ from a hot provider, rather than the half-hearted, halting, "all you ready to cum YET" CBJ my wife delivers once or twice a year.

I might have friends who hobby, but if you think I am going to tell them that I do, you're simply crazy.

That's why I would never go to a M&G.  Just because I know that a provider fucks other guys doesn't mean I wanna meet them and share a drink with them while meeting other girls.

Plus, some providers have said that guys who go to these things are downright creepy.  

here's one of many links...

The brotherhood idea is crazy shit, but so is life.  When my single friends find a great  temp brothel they tell me.  We don't compare notes on the girls, but we lament the loss of the place when it's gone when we go out.  When one of us gets married, he clams up and we don't tell him about such places anymore unless he asks.

I'm talking about random TER guys getting bent outta shape when you refuse to say who someone is on the board.  As if you OWE them the information...

Agreed. I think we can all expect these numbers to gradually increase more and more in the future. Possibly even to the point where females paying for sex will be startling say ~50 years from now.