So that this part isn't lost -- let me address this first: "If their calendar is as full as they desire, with the quality of gentleman they desire to see and they are charging what the market obviously bears.... why the denigration?"
Let's look at your statement -- it posits a very interesting hypothetical that assumes a lot of facts not in evidence.
"IF their calendar is as full as they desire ..." This is hardly the case with many providers. Many are struggling, and have even posted that they are "hearing crickets" instead of the phone, or accepting older clients they had previously rejected, etc. No doubt SOME providers have a calendar as full as they desire, but this is far from generally applicable.
"... with the quality of gentleman they desire to see ..." This is of course very subjective as each woman's definition of what constitutes "quality of gentleman" will differ. Even so, quite a few women are clearly unsatisfied with the quality of at least some of the gentlemen they see; as can be objectively determined by looking at the National Blacklist, or the mere ubiquity of intra-provider verifications. Furthermore, if you look carefully on this board you will find dozens of providers posting under aliases describing how incredibly unattractive they find most of their patrons to be physically, intellectually and even morally. Some have even openly denigrated (although aliased) the basic human value of their patrons. Many describe mindsets of "just getting through" their appointments. Many state that their orgasms are fake just to make the men stop, etc. Maybe where you come from, providers have the quality of men they desire to see, but this is far from universal I fear.
"... and they are charging what the market obviously bears ..." Given the above two statements, it is not at all obvious that their rates are correct. They may be too low, they may be too high. I'm not going to analyze that because it is very individual. But what may be obvious to you would clearly be news to the providers who are having difficulty getting enough business. The problem might not even be rates -- it could be their location. But that's a subject for another day.
So I fundamentally disagree with the wide applicability of the core premises of your statement; and I believe there is enough objectively verifiable information to sustain that my refutation is correct.
Even so, I agree that I ought not *denigrate* people; and if anyone saw my thoughts as expressing denigration; I truly apologize. If I am being critical of an action or behavior; it should be understood that my criticism is of the action or behavior and NOT of the essential human value of the actor. When I say that someone's behavior is stupid (for example) I am not saying that the person is necessarily stupid. (Though they might be.) After all, many highly intelligent people do stupid things; and opinions of what constitutes stupid behavior vary. For example, my primary care physician categorically defines even KISSING any provider to be "stupid." Nevertheless, it's a simple expression of my opinion, annd ought never be seen as the diminishment of anyone's human value.
Your business analogies fail at two levels.
On the first level, the hobby deals with the problem of restricted supply due to structural inherency (laws) and attitudinal inherency (social mores). In essence it is a villified illegal enterprise. Comparisons to accepted legal enterprise fail because entry into those businesses doesn't usually carry risk of jail. Economically (though not morally) it would be more accurate to compare the hobby to sales of illegal drugs than to plumbing. Last time I checked, nobody was setting up a sting to entrap my plumber.
As an illegal enterprise, providers and agencies are not bound by a host of regulations. They can (and routinely DO) discriminate in dealing with customers on the basis of age, race, sex, sexual orientation, handicapped status and more. If I tried to run a legal enterprise that way my ass would be grass in about three seconds. And this doesn't even address the shenanigans many (though I am sure not all) providers play with taxes; under-reporting income in order to qualify for subsidized state programs, etc. So providing and engaging in legal enterprise are, to at least some extent, very different due to legal issues.
At the second level, while it is true that workmen such as mechanics, lawyers and plumbers seldom discount rates dramatically following the first hour; this is not the end of the analogy.
Providers routinely have a "no negotiating" rule; stating that any attempts to negotiate will be seen as demeaning and put the guy on their DNS list. Funny, but I negotiated with my plumber when I had him install a boiler; and when I last outsourced legal work I negotiated a flat price as well. In fact, I go beyond negotiating in some cases and even put projects out to bid and give the work to the lowest bidder who can do the job -- thereby deliberately forcing prices as low as I can get them while STILL demanding certain standards of quality and sometimes even requiring winning bidders to post a performance bond.
In addition, most dealings with high level sales entail the person selling the product to be wining and dining the potential purchaser. I routinely have salespeople fly in, stay overnight in a hotel, rent a car and all that jazz just for the *opportunity* to present their spiel. Not even a guarantee I'll buy anything.
Can you IMAGINE flying in from Denver, getting all dressed up and treating some guy to dinner and schmoozing the crap out of him in order to convince him to pay for some BCD time with you?
I have no doubt you'd be successful (assuming price negotiations were mutually favorable and you posted the performance bond), but nevertheless the very concept of a provider doing such a thing, though I'm sure there are exceptions, is so foreign to the hobby that the very idea makes me chuckle.
Here's another great one from business.
I was interested in purchasing a monitored server-based service. I convinced the saleslady to let me install the thing, get it up and running, and use it completely including all features for three months for FREE before committing to buy. I even had them invest a lot of up-front work in customizing.
So when is the last time a provider gave a previously unseen hobbyist freebies in anticipation he'd like them so well he'd commit to a monthly get together?
If ANY provider did that, even if her strategy WORKED; other providers would drum her out of the business!
So ... in exchange for flat pricing in your analogies, providers would also be subject to negotiation, bidding, flying all over to schmooze potential clients on speculation, and freebies.
So I disagree with the applicability of your business analogy.
The place where we agree is that the woman can basically do whatever she pleases with her rates. After all, it is her body and she has an undeniable right to set the terms; just as I can set terms for access to mine. It's a basic human right.
But just as exercises of the first and second amendment may also be rights; such exercises are not always wise or free from adverse repercussions.