I've often wondered about the benefit of bringing toys on my dates.

I hear of some ladies that make use of them regularly and obviously their clients enjoy that they do.

Not being a personal toy aficionado, I'm left wondering which toys a gent looks forward to a lady bringing along with her.

Or does it even matter?

~Bella

Personally, I dislike toys.

Why play with something plastic, when the real thing is so much more satisfying?

I need to feel it's warmth (if you know what i mean).

I am a total toy whore!  LOVE them! Sometimes I have a hard time initiating using them with new guys not knowing if they will be game, but so far, they have always been a welcome addition to the date when I have pulled them out.

I also like having them on hand for myself (especially after one hour appts) ... we have ALL had dates leave and thought ... shit, I'm just not done screwing yet! Thank god for toys!!!    

For guys I have not seen, I usually hide the bigger and crazier ones out of site and if the guy seems open minded and kinky, I can pull them out, but I always have an average size dildo and/or a vibrator on the dresser in arms reach and plain site and often find guys will reach for them and use them on me. I usually have a strap-on in the closet incase, and also some toys I'd only pull out if I am 100% comfortable with someone ... from blindfolds to whips ... but for me, toys are like shoes, I hate to wish I 'em and have left them at home!

I've got a whole bunch!  Along with the wall of pain and suffering...  but Bellad I think you may have me beat in the dildoe department!  Holy Smoke!

PS - I don't need the strap ons...

Giggle,
TS Jamie  

There is nothing better than being with a woman when she cums!!!  Just don't hog them.  A vibrating butt-plug with a lovely lady sucking your cock is very nice (don't knock till you try it)!!!!

from Mattel.  Lead poisoning should not be an STD.

I'm glad you posted this. I don't use toys and the few times gents have asked me to bring some I was at a total loss. What did they want me to bring? Toys for them, toys for me? Am I supposed to go out and buy something I know nothing about?

I have a few toys I use with girls, but I can't imagine a gent wanting me to bring a double ended dildo. Maybe I'm wrong...

It really depends on what is being brought out, and what you're expecting to do with it.  If you're wanting to bring out the Magic Wand, hey, that's fine with me; if instead you want to whip out the 18-inch thigh-mounted strap-on and tear up my ass, I'm not so good with that.  In general, I'd say you should probably not bring along anything besides a discreet vibrator until you're comfortable discussing prospective activities with your date, which ought to limit it to mostly repeat customers.

I did see a lady once who advertised on her site "Greek available with prior notice", which also meant she would bring along a powerful vibe to help herself relax into it and get off.

I'm pretty openminded, so I am perfectly ok with using toys on dates. If a lady enjoys using toys during a date, I think that adds to the session, so I'm all for it!

seeing my cock buried in a woman’s ass than a piece of plastic.

...offers you the opportunity to bury your cock in her ass alongside the wiggling piece of plastic?

wow, what a fun time you must have at airport security!! I bet all the guys at tsa will remember you!!!

If it helps get her off, or waiting for Wally to come back to life..  it's all good.

I think I just found my new love!!! Can't wait until my next trip to the West Coast to meet and play with you , along with your toy chest!!
JJ