1.  Why bring attention to a bad review?  A thread like this only makes everyone go look.

2.  Since when do other escorts develop a body of reviews and get WhiteListed by reputable providers?

3. Since you made me look it looks like someone's real opinion, not another provider "belittling" herself by writing a fake review of you.
His reviews have a very obvious trend - young, very fit women.  Maybe he looked at your pictures quickly without reading your reviews and assumed you were something you are not.  It sucks to get hit on the back end by someone who could have avoided you with better research but it happens sometimes.

Its a bad review.  No big deal.  
Happens to the majority of reviewed providers at one time or another.   There is no reason to blame it on another provider.

please don't try to sell us this crap that it's another provider posing as a hobbyist, that won't sell ;as the reviewer is credible, he has multiple reviews in several cities and is white listed by two providers that both live in different cities, so HE is definitely not a "rival" provider.

So, what's the motivation for this "bogus" review? I don't see one. You have several pages of positive reviews, I agree with the previous poster that this particular hobbyist likes young twenty something hard bodies, and while others find you attractive, you are definitely not a "twenty something year old hard body"

My advice is to get over it and move on, one bad review is not the end of the world, coming onto this board and making a federal case out of it can do a lot more damage than the review itself,  as many a provider who have shown their true colors as a bitch have found out the hard way.

In the future I would also advise you contest any bad reviews you receive on your regional board,  normally I would move the post, but I am a bit bored and interested to see what kind of train wreck may develop. lol

7 reviews and two white lists. So much for him being another provider.

Lets address Charisma. Some of your photos are at least 5 years old, probably older. I know this as a matter of fact.
You TER profile says 36-40. We also know that is not true.

Hate to tell you, but his review looks like the most honest one on your last page.

Anything else you would care to add, or will you be smart and just quit while you're behind???

I suggest you contact the reviewer directly and ask him to confirm that it was indeed you that he saw.

I once got a review that was less than flattering, but the details were off by miles from how I typically dress and act when seeing a gentleman. He wrote that I greeted him in shorts and a tank top (which I would never, ever wear to greet someone), and that he met me at my hotel (I have a regular incall, not a hotel room). I was honestly baffled. I reported it to TER as a fake, and also contacted the reviewer. As it turned out, there was a visiting provider who also went by Stacy, and the review was attributed to me incorrectly. The reviewer then contacted TER and advised them of the mistake, and the review was then credited to her.

Given the number of reviews the reviewer has, as well as the fact that he also has whitelists, I would say it is highly unlikely the reviewer is a fake name created by another escort to discredit you. And gents, give the lady a break, women have in fact done that, and it will undoubtedly happen again. But, the reviewer also mentions his intent to "TOFTT" by seeing you, and his description of you vastly differs from the description given by other reviewers. All of which leads me to wonder if the review itself isn't possibly true, but credited to the wrong lady. Its worth looking into at any rate.

Just my two pennies

whats the meaning of why some escorts have to belittle themselves in writing a bad review about another escort ,whats the point ? Actually It makes my phone ring even more since hobbyist can compare a real review to the fake reviews .

,Im not angry actually its made my emails stronger and my phone ring more because  a few of my reg hobby frnds from ter realized it was a fake review and contacted me .
If  I go to the new england area/rhode island  its only to see my  regular friends ,I have enough regulars I do not need to make new friends there  ,The last review came from new england lmao  I didnt go  had to cancel  at the last mintue due to 2 wisdom teeth pulled ,I stayed on the long island /nyc area longer then expected .


P.S.  A FAKE BOGUS REVIEW

Seems to me that the reviewer (I doubt another provider is masquerading as a guy to specifically post a bad review..IMHO) was not diligent in his homework on what to expect.  And I would also assume that he was expecting something during the performance that you did not want to deliver on (and it could be that he didn't read your prior reviews and was expecting something you don't offer).

But to bring it to everyone's attention is not (at least I believe) in your best interest.  Quite frankly, if I was interested in you at some point (and I am not in NY...so no real issue here), you would have sucessfully quenched any interest in seeing you with highlighting what I could very easily have figured out.  Too much drama for me to want to spend one second on a lady that is compelled to make an issue out of something that, at least for those of us who do our homework, would not normally be a problem.

But your argument doesn't hold water.

1. You have plenty of 5,6 and 7s with previous reviews with a few 4s in the mix.

2. Even your reviews from almost 10 years ago mentioned that you looked older than your pics.

3. As a previous poster mentioned, the reviewer has multiple reviews and is whitelisted making it highly unlikely it is another provider.

4. Why would another provider feel the need to write a bad review about you?

If you sold yourself as a young hottie and you aren't then he has every right to be pissed. Now I don't expect providers to look like they just walked out of a Victoria Secret photo shoot in real life. But they should look pretty close to their pictures.

Oh and attitude makes a huge difference. If you are a 7 in looks and have a fantastic demeanor, you will be more attractive (i.e. score a 8/9) and of course the reverse is true as well.

Personally, I would have walked away if I felt you grossly misrepresented yourself.

ChgoCPA, you must be educated? I can tell by your responses! Good, we need more educated responses on this site (not to say others responses aren't intelligent ). Good, thoughful responses make the hobby better for all of us. Our safety and our enjoyment of the sport benefit!  Thanks!!!

im not ranting the fact that what ever the person felt after our date wasnt what he expected I cant please all no one can ,  The point Im getting at is  ,I never showed up in new england the fake review is not from ny its from a state I wasnt even in as i was healing from major oral surgery how does anyone right a review about any escort if in fact they werent even in that state or city .Now you see what im saying .

You should have said that in your op. Telling us you weren't in  the state at the time is important and apparently a fact. Facts are important. You started  with assumptions about another provider, and fake review, etc. The information you imparted was all over the place. It seems to me it's possible that you are changing the story.

I have to agree that taking it to TER admin and not posting about it here would have been the best action to take. That's based on it being fake because you weren't there. If that is indeed what happened.

Im not going to sit here and waste hrs explaining my point of view ,if you just cant get it ,I dont care if someones a vice pres of a company,white listed  to a blue collar hard worker we are all people ,  but at least tell the truth  .why waste the time in writing a rev at all ,The person who wrote the rev says I was in the new england area Liar ! I was on long Island .Case closed.

Vibrant Cheetah,

Personally, I think you just read the review and acted upon emotion and immediately reacted on the message board. If you go back through and read through your "story", it goes from a childish accusation to a weird story that grammatically is very difficult to follow. Now please don't take this advice the wrong way but this business is all about reputation (as I am learning, three months in..NEWBIE lol) and no matter what someone says about you it's all in how you conduct yourself. I used to run a different business and there were times when I stuck my foot in my mouth and reacted like a child and nothing good comes from it. You attract more bees with honey. I am still not clear on what has occurred, what is real and what is false. However, through reading your posts I think you almost made it worse. Just like the second comment made by "Gambler" (oops, sorry if I got it wrong), now you have drawn more negative attention to yourself and now more people are going to see that review and your actions that followed. What's done is done, no going back now unfortunately. I am sure you are a great girl and have a ton to offer. What matters is how you view yourself, this business is hard because we are viewed and reviewed and picked a part. Who cares if you are not "Joe's" cup of tea, "John" might be ready to drink a pitcher. Fuck their reviews of who you are, I am sure I will get a bad review at some point because I am not always going to be everyone's 10/10, but I am my fucking 10/10 and I know I give 100%. Yes, it is frustrating dealing with rejection but that's life. Now grow a backbone, go tell yourself "I Love You" in the mirror and move on from the petty bullshit. You have more to offer this world and your business. "If you can see your obstacles, you have taken your eyes off your goal"
xoxo
Eyva Ferrari

-- Modified on 6/26/2011 7:22:51 PM

Excellent advice. Very astute and an excellent summation of what the thread says.

I don't see where you got that idea from. However, he does say "giving up on back page". Seems like a weird comment given that your TER profile has links to your website and cityvibe ads. Do you even advertise on Backpage? If not, I think SinsOfTheFlesh is right here. You may have mistakenly got credit for that review.

and the hobbyist's last several reviews are NY. He has none for NE.

Like I said, his review is spot on.

As i said earlier she should have just STFU, nothing beneficial is going to come out of this for her,.Now for the NY hobbyists, i think this post is quite revealing,

She should have just quit when she was behind. lol

It's hard to fool TER members, except of course for the poor saps who want to be fooled.

I also noticed in a quick glance of her reviews that she has multiple reviews that only give her a 6 in appearance going back as far as 2002. So for a guy looking for a young hardbody 9 years later, a two is not out of the question. and if she were 36-40 nine years ago "in hooker years" her being north of fifty today seems extremely likely IMO.

I wonder how much deeper she would like to dig this hole?