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Top vs bottom
Dirk33 8 Reviews 5599 reads
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I'm a beginner, so pardon my ignorance, but what's the difference between a "top" and a "bottom?  Thanks.

John.Galt 4717 reads
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riker 7 Reviews 4411 reads
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MistressM 5694 reads
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Dirk33 8 Reviews 6014 reads
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Naw...I got it.  Cookie Monster is a top and Big Bird is a bottom.  Thanks for the clarification.

SexyCurvesDC 2841 reads
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On what context you are using the words.
In the BDSM world, top=dominant (ie: doing things TO someone), bottom=submissive (having things DONE to them).

In the homosexual world, top = guy who is on top, ie.. pitching? ie: penetrating... bottom = guy who is on the bottom, ie... catching, ie: being penetrated.

Hope that helps!
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Nicole

zorro 21 Reviews 4957 reads
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those are terms most often used by gay men.  Pretty self explanatory, actually.  If you are the recepient of the cock, then you are the bottom...if you are the giver of the cock, then you are the top...if you are versatile, then you do both...I guess some are entirely bottoms and some are entirely tops, but I guess there are still BJ's given for the bottom's satisfaction.

John.Galt 5099 reads
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I am glad I HAD no idea what he was talking about.

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