As I've said before, ADD and ADHD are on the increase. And, those with ADD or ADHD typically do not like to read, or think they've read something, and gotten the content, but haven't. Others, including with those with ADD or ADHD, just like to do things their way, and on their terms. Really no help in asking why, just deal with each guy as they come, and restate what you've already stated.

.....that the hobby and illiteracy go hand and hand. :0  You will find this is something that isn't going to change. You will always get a call now and again that asks for info readily available on your site.  My advice, don't let it get to you, just one of those things.  Politly and patiently guide them to your site and the areas they need to read. Offer to email them the link if they don't seem quite ummmmm, smart enough to find it themselves lol.  

Calling a provider can be very nerve wracking for a gent. Be patient. They may have blanked out on all the info they just read. Every gent can be a possible future client. Don't be so quick to shut the door. That being said, no excuse for the explicite questions....IE: "Hi, how much for you to stick your tounge up my asshole?"  Those, you can kick to the curb. Patience in this line of work is a must.

And we always say...after we get up to find it for them...if they would just move something, they will find it.

I always get guys saying they can't find my donations in my site.
I know I have plenty to keep them busy in my site and it is a busy site. But in plain view on the menu on the right...under neath all the pic headers is the donation header.
It even has asterisks surrounding it.

I feel for ya.

But I don't see this as a trend. it is what it is.

But we love you guys.

You can't fix stupid. (Ron White) It is sad that the ladies have to deal with this kind of stupidity.

some gents are capable of little beyond conditioned behaviors.... they've learned their trade or content domain, the've fallen into pattern with wifey or whoever, and the only response that falls outside of the automatic, is drooling and saying "I want pussy" over and over and over in their minds.

It does not take an awful lot of effort to be thoughtful, to respect the time and intelligence of the lady they wish to contact.

Here's a key: the gent who reads your website and responds thoughtfully with screening info and without mindless questions is thinking of you as a person

the gent who fails to do these things probably is not.....

I just sweetly suggest they go back to my website if the questioning becomes annoying or bordering on "not cool", and re-read my website. If they call back with ducks in order, great..if not, great.

The reason I took the time to have a well written website is so I did not have to answer questions over the phone.

You are dealing with an all to common social malady known as being "just plain lazy. Men who skim through provider ads probably skim through lots of other stuff too. I honestly don't think the approach is limited to the way they hobby...

and some people writing comes across as rude.

In both cases I skip and don't call but others may skip and call to find out the information they need.

Secondly, people don't like to read, don't have time, or in place where they cannot hang for long time reading the book report.

Some of the sites are designed very artistically with all kinds of dazzle with incompatible technologies and developed goofy so they don't load fast, people don't like stick around very long so they write the  number down and call to get the info.

There another million+1 reasons.

Kind of like people actually reading the user manual before installing software oar assembling some gadget.

some intriguing websites have been really sparse in terms of written material but yet exhibited a taciturn cool wit that i found deliciously irresistable. i wasn't disappointed with the date either.

others are much more informative offering a multifaceted view of a complex and challenging woman. i have found those extremely appealing as well.

if you have a moderately informative website and the guy acts as though he hasn't read it there can be several reasons:

1) he's just a pump and dumper

2) he is (rare for a guy to do but not impossible) just playing dumb to get a feel for you through a more extended conversation. trying to get a feel for chemistry.

3) i once did a variant on 2). there was conflicting rate information on different ad sites. it was interesting and revelatory.

4) he has a problem processing visual information. there are a few folks who are quite intelligent but who have difficulties getting information into their brain through their eyes.

others....

i _really_ appreciate a 10-15 minute phone conversation so that the 1st session isn't just a cold start.

Because I am single, I have the comfront of doing my resarch but I think that some people just have to ask...I posted this before.  When I owned a resturant a sign said "SHIRTS AND SHOES IN THE DINING AREA" everyday someone ask "do we have to wear a shirt"  What gives

For the same reason that a lot of people stop at Starbucks and buy coffee on the way to work rather than make it at home for a fraction of the price.  It is called lazy.

It is easier to call or e-mail a question than research it for themselves.

I own a mail order company and spend about 1/2 my day answering emails from customers and prospective customers. I could pass it off to an employee, but I don't trust them not to get jaded over time costing business.

NOW... 9 out of 10 of their questions are clearly answered (with photos) on our website... yet I still sit and answer each and every one because I want their business.

SO... Only thing I can say is to suck it up and answer the questions with a smile on your face. Don't give attitude back by email even if it is clearly stated on your website and you've answered the same question a hundred time that day... or your customers will go shopping elsewhere.