I know when my buddies and I see an attractive woman, we think (and sometimes even say), I'd like to get some of that or how'd you like to bang that ? Just wondering, out loud, if women have the same thoughts when they see an attractive men.
It appears that men are a lot more willing to pay for it. I'm aware of gigolos ( ever seen the show on showtime),but they don't appear to anywhere near as prevalent as female providers. Do women just look at a man and think he's nice looking without thinking of having sex with him ?
Not trying to start big debate, just thinking out loud.

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of course women want to fuck what they consider to be a hot guy as much as we want to fuck a hot girl. Though most girls will not say it that way to there peers as they do not want to be perceived as sluts. If you do not believe me go out to a club and watch the girls go into attack mode LOL.

Yes women do that. Someone walks in and we can make comments ranging from "I just want to pinch that bottom" to "I would totally do him any way he wanted". At my old job we had the ability to create group chats online, the girls I worked with were pretty funny when both saying someone was cute as well as tearing apart someone they disliked (usually in sales because they were jerks).  

MOST women do not think like men, but most sluts do think just like a man, and I for one love them for it.

and yes, most sluts do have more guy friends than GF's but most of them seem ok with that. Just like an inordinate percentage of my friends are hookers, and I am just fine with that as well.

I believe on a natural level men and women share an opposing like minded view...

Once upon a time, calling a woman a slut, or even slutty was akin to calling her a "cunt" Today, dressing slutty is something that is taken positively about as often as it is negatively. Slutty just isn't something to be viewed as badly as it once was

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...not that there's anything wrong with it. lol

Who are you, the thought police?

I would certainly hope that would be the case

and they not I have refereed to another girl as be quote a "Slut". If you would take the time to pull little Vern out of a poor girls throat for a little convo sometime you might be surprised what you may learn my man LOL.

What drives otherwise fulfilled women into postpartum depression?

OTC of course, and I know their real names too. lol

What stupid question?

Thinking, feeling and desiring are interrelated, but not the same.

EOM

Psychology doesn't have good answers. Like behaviorism wants to quantify so as to gain cred as a real science. So it only focuses on what we do, not what we feel. In fact, behaviorists assert that emotions don't exist because they can't be measured. So a guy walks into a bar, starts talking to a knockout over a Wild Turkey sour, and they discover that they are both behaviorist shrinks. Having so much in common, the head for a motel, check out a room, and have one hell of a time. Afterwards, he says, "That was great for you! How was it for me?" They only accept what they observe.

Strangers I cross path with in an everyday setting. I often think to myself what is he carrying around  inside of those jeans? I have fantasized, what if I walked up to him and whispered in his ear " I want to feel your package and have my way with you."  I have yet to carry out that fantasy. Call me chicken or any other name you want, but until I fulfill it, it will forever be "Just a Fantasy"!!

Men can spread their seed as often as they want with as many ladies as they want to extend their genetic link with no consequences.

you just made my earlier point in very real terms. BTW, cool fantasy.

Than I talk sex with pros, especially when we are OnTC.

"My Secret Garden" by Nancy Friday. A collection of real women's fantasies and desires. Makes "Fifty Shades of Gray" look tame, tame, tame.  Men have NOTHING over women in terms of libido and desire.  

Should women damn the universe for their stake in it?

The author is unknown to me, but I am trying to dabble in literotica and my 1st chapter opens up in "The Garden" it's a sexual journey of a lady who is traveling on a personal adventure, she encounters many and unusual events that she never knew existed.  She is sometimes confined to a spot where she is not free, but able to roam an area set forth by her master..."The Garden" that is where her mind and body can escape. Another chapter, she is visiting a place wild and uninhibitied.

men who have lots of sexual partners get a high-five. Women who have lots of sexual partners are sluts.  

Have you ever seen a group of men head off to the bath room because one of them had to go?

Damn! Someone called again??

You rang GaG? lol  
Well from my perspective (a slut) I have been told that when it comes to sex I think like a man. I mean if I don't have a sexual release then I can be an asshole (bitch) I also get a hard on just like you it just doesn't look the same lol I also find myself looking at every set of tits and ass that walks by. I drive down the road and get horny. Some of us have sexual thoughts and are aroused several times a day and wake up in the middle of the night ready. So yes some women do think like men IMO  
Unlike most men though, I do prefer cock! lol (with some pussy on the side)
Hugs and kisses
TL

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I was at the beach yesterday & saw a super hot hunk with huge pecks, so I had to give him a thumbs up & told him he was looking good!  lol He smiled, and started to blush.  I am not the average woman.  I have always been very staight forward & I look at women too!