What would it be? I think everyone could benefit from this little exercise - you know makes us think and learn more...especially if we all try to adapt some of the ideas (worth a shot right?).

Nurse Marti

I think one more 'sweety' and I will simply jump off a cliff!

That I come out of it with no arrests, diseases, and assaults.

I kinka like Sweetie and Hon......

I would like to see all ladies have a website that shows their pics...hint..hint....

...is too lazy to try to remember my name for an hour, especially after she did everything but fingerprint me during the screening process.

Or it's just her way of keeping thing impersonal.  Either way, I'd rather she just say: "Hey you."

I would wish for an end to the draconian laws that makes sex between consenting adults a crime.

Now if I had a second wish, I would ask for the world best blow job.

... however, there is something very *hot* when the lady actually calls out your name in the heat of the moment.

Because it's so small she feels sorry for me. Only those of you who clicked even though I put '(eom)' will know I have a pinky-dick. Please don't tell anyone else. Let's keep this our secret.

Tip me well, and bring me gifts (small stuff, please).
I promise not to count the money in front of you either

the ones above. But now that I think about it it's their job. They don't have to know my name. They know who it is when I call or email. And I am lucky enough that since I spend so much time with them they know who they're with.

Besides, the most important name I want to hear is 'Oh God!' when I'm doing something right.

Know what I'm sayin'?!

another unpopular idealistic post.  But reality beats illusion everyday.

Ya,  I'd wish for a bottomless pit of hobby money!!!   So much pussy, so little cash!

get your butt back down this way!!!
xoxo

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While I understand that you frequently can't be honest (thank you), at least try to be believable, LOL

That at the end of each date we both would want another date with the other.

we could make it a real girlfriend experience and call you asshole

thats not always true. I talk like that all the time, even in my personal life. It usually just means that the woman is trying to be nice. You guys are so synical.

If you don't like it, tell her nicely at the beginning of the session

plus, what would you do if she accidently called out the wrong name. I did once, thank God the guy had a sense of humor

.. to form a unique nickname that he can say when he calls to scedule or request a reference etc... Unfortunately virtually NO ONE *read* that post..!! Ha... But yes- as someone who is dyslexic (ie I have a problem with rote memory and sequencing, BUT an uncanny memory for strange details...) I find this method to be VERY helpful and try to *remember* (Ha! Ha!) to employ it as much as possible...!!!

is a failure tp PRIORITISE!

This is an example where some suffer the actions of others.

I hold you to one?

clients and you have the audacity to call me an asshole? I am very thankful that I frequent ladies diff. than yourself. Did I call you a name?

Discount for you Cindy
Just don't tell anyone. I have a reputation to uphold.

Three way tie--Good health to be able to do this for ever, a money tree so $ is never a problem, and a job with more free time to be able to play.

that load of malarky,please stick to subject matter that doesn't sound like 'schmooze'.

... if you really don't want to "see them count the money," then turn away when they do *or* head to the bathroom.

It's really not that hard everyone.

I wish that the hobby would be decriminalized. Let the hobby out from under the rock of unjust persecution so that both sides can enjoy the pursuit in teh light of at least legal acceptance..

C_K

That and more sincerity on both sides of the fence.

sweetheart, it was a joke. I wasn't calling you an asshole. Loosen up a little and maybe you'll have some fun.


Oooopps, sorry for the sweetheart

If you're paying for a service, expect to have the service provider ensure you've paid the correct amount. It's not an insult, it's business (and it could prevent you from getting accused of ripping her off later, if you've mis-counted or misunderstood her rates).

That said, I agree that it *does* ruin the fantasy and looks tacky to have it done right in front of you. That is one way this business is different from others. Do it out of his view or don't do it at all! I count when I excuse myself to the bathroom. Plus I usually have to pee anyway. Multitasking ftw!

I vote for mrfisher's answer, since I am in my sixth decade and would like to participate for many more years.

If every provider would actually check the donation before every session it would stop a shitload of the ripoffs, shorting, insecurity (did he leave enough in the envelope going through her head all through the session), and "I fell in love with my provider" bullshit.

It is a business transaction with personal touching involved. If you can't handle the money end of it without losing your hard-on then stop going. You know why you are there, she knows why you are there, quit playing the pretend game of "I am not really paying you if you don't look".

All providers, please check the donations and weed out the insecure guys who can't handle the fact they are paying you.

b-

Well said SexyFlirtAmber! I agree 100%.

I couldn't care less how you 'guarantee' what is rightfully yours. I just don't want it done in front of me. It is very tacky.People are innocent until proven guilty. There are inherent risks on both sides of this coin.

I wish that the business would pick back up, the economy would get better and we could all spend our time fucking instead of blogging

is just lacking out there. SORRY!

And I hope the same for you!

After all, the baby boomers are getting older and there's gonna be a huge spike in the need for nursing care -- so you need to be ready to make that transition!

oh bummer, you wouldn't see me? What a huge disappointment. Anyways, I was talking about the economy as a whole. If you haven't noticed, it sucks out there. Unemployment is at an all time high and while people are making less money, the cost of living is going up. So, yes this industry is being effected, whether the ladies want to admit it or not. Plus I'm in Phoenix, it's dead here because of a huge bust a few months back.

I'm not sure what you're looking for as far as "motivation" is concerned, but if you can't find someone high enough for your standards on this board, move on.

what some gentlemen don't seem to understand is that even though, they themselves may be honest, not everyone is. I've know females who trusted the hobbiest, only to find out too late that they were ripped off. One girl didn't check the envelope and found cut up newspaper instead of money. Some guys short you by $20-$40. One woman I know was given $500 is fake bills. Staring over a mans shoulder when he's removing the money from his wallet is rude, counting the money from a transaction, is smart.