This has been around for a while but I just came across it -- a blog (anonymous) from an escort on Vice (appropriately)

Find a paying client attractive. Seeing that men submit to paying a fee to be with the lady. I don't believe women find submissive men to be attractive.

"... I have always felt contempt for men who want me to pretend to be turned on when I couldn't possibly be..."

Or how those questions are really relevant to the article.  To me, the article was about an escort who wanted to hire a male escort just to see what it's like.  She felt uncomfortable in the position of client and found herself constantly empathizing with him- so much that she didn't want to have sex with him.  Seems normal.  If I hired a male escort I'd probably just want to talk and compare notes too!  Sex would be too weird probably for the same reason doctors make bad patients?  IDK

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"I'm no Mentat but.."  

If wasn't for the envelope how many ladies would be having fat old guys climb on top of them?
 

IMHO the  majority of women get more tuned on by the thought of money than anything else.
Harvey Weinstein looks like Jabba the Hut but look at the women he gets.

I would not fuck any of my clients. Sorry but that is my truth. They pick me I don't get a choice...well that's what the money is for.  

There. Fixed it for you.

Not disputing that. I'm just saying I get the impression that a lot of girls enjoy the work.

On Topic: I can't say I wouldn't have done the same thing if I were in her position. sometimes the conversation is more intriguing than the thought of having sex with someone who may or may not be genuinely attracted to you. It's part of the reason I don't get lap dances at the strip club. I don't want my money to be the motivator.  

Not all love the sex but love other aspects.

I'd say that's 99% true. Women want a man who takes charge. We are just ATMs to them. It is what it is.

They love the money, the attention, the showering of gifts but I would say RARELY the sex. They are praying for a 2-pump chump 90% of the time. It's highly doubtful they enjoy the sex very often.

I don't have a horse in this race do it does me no harm to tell the truth. I do love the money honey!

I think escorting is the only job where wanting to be paid for our services somehow makes us disingenuous.  Don't you work for compensation too

making money. Maybe some hobbyists mistake that as genuine attraction.

so I guess it evens out.

on their website too.

Just to be clear, I don't see anything wrong at all about being paid for services. In fact, when you think about it we would NOT want it for free (there are other avenues for that) because it leaves open an obligation of sorts.

At least she said she was "no Mentat" because if she was on, I would hate to think you were interested in someone who over analyzes everything! lol!

You guys who insist you're all awful and only worth the money you're plopping down are missing the whole bit where you're breathing and of legal age. We can enjoy ourselves, you're the one who apparently can't. Stop discounting our words and our experience because you have a complex!