I have found that I enjoy pasting a Tiger Balm patch on my perineum right behind my balls.  It doesn't burn...it feels more like being scratched with fingernails.

Would this work on a lady, or would this be more likely to burn feminine skin?  I'm wondering about  trying this with a provider, but not if it would hurt.

I don't know that it would be so much the feminine skin as it would the mucous membrane.  

I have, in the past, used tiger balm, and on occassion not washed my hands well enough before using the facilities...let's just say it creates a cool burn...not painful...exactly...actually an interesting feeling, but I don't know about prolonged contact like would happen with a patch.

I don't know how large the Tiger Balm patches are, but if they are about the same size as the other patches I have seen, you're gonna have part of it over a tender opening, and that might not be so good.

When you compare the sensation to scratching, it does not sound that pleasurable.  Then again it could depend on what part of the kitty you would like to stroke it on, as we all know the outer surface of the ??? is very sensitive.  Hopefully it will not burn her or she maybe licking her wound for the rest of the day.  Not a good thing

Scratching wasn't a good word.  I meant more like tickling with fingernails.  Also, I wasn't think of the whole patch, just maybe a postage stamp sized piece.  Not actually touching any mucous membranes, but in the "taint" area in between.

I've had the menthol based products used on me, and I have to say that I find the experience very uncomfortable... guess it is just a matter of preference...   and scratching in that area with sharp fingernails!  argh....   even my green superskin cringes at the thought!!!