This is kinda a dumb rant. But im in my 20's and I've been turned down my some ladies cause of my age. I respect their preferences and it's no big deal. But why don't they just post on their website that they prefer guys 35 or older or whatever they prefer? Kudos to the ladies that do post their preferences.
Why should I waste my time and read reviews and look at the website a few times then email a lady to just be turned down. Wouldn't it just be easier for both parties if the lady would just advertise that either they are willing to meet with all ages or just put what age of men they prefer to meet with. Plus a lady never wants to email a guy back and give him bad news.
Some ladies sites are very informative and well done and do state who they are willing to meet with. I understand that most of the guys here are probably 40 or older so they have nothing to worry about, but their are still a few of us younger fellows out there.
This is not about why the lady wont meet with a younger guy. I know all that- older guys are more mature, better lovers and bla bla bla. I understand that.
Just make it more clear who you are willing to meet with so a guy like me don't get his hopes up, just to be shot down.
sorry for the dumb rant and I know it doesn't effect most of you.
This is similar to my complaint. That if new hard to have references. Yet the process goes on far to long, despite saying upfront that newbie.
lot of wasted time reading review/websites/etc.
catch-22
trying to contact some new ladies is tough even if I have references.
that don't mind seeing a guy in his 20's preferably late 20's.I have no problem with it as long as he can pass screening is respectful and a gentleman.That being said I also enjoy the company of older gentleman as well.The ladies that do not see gentleman under 35 or 40 that is their personal preference might be frustrating,but you have to respect that.I agree if a lady has an age restriction it should be specified on her website so as to not her waste time or the gentleman's.
I have noted on my website newbie friendly and 21 too ageless. I find a lot of younger men enjoy the company of a mature women and treat us with respect. I get great pleasure from the exta added energy they bring to the bed.
Kisses Haley
for being too OLD!
Age has its privilages!
It is just more difficult for some mature providers to see young men ( for me ) who could hang out with my son. I have in the past dated someone much younger than me by 11 years, we never had a problem. As a matter of fact, some of his friends looked older than me. I do have an age policy on my site & I have made exceptions because they proved themselves to be mature, respectful, & gentlemen. This is my own opinion, for me it's not about the older guys having more experience. It is about a woman having her looks judged. My age is posted as is my age policy, which I'm beginning to think needs to be higher. I guess all I can offer is I have an age policy because I don't want to be scrutinized by and given a bad review because I don't look like the sorority girl next door who isn't even drinking age. I've already been her.
Of course that was almost in the days of the Pony Express. But really, when I was young I never had a problem. It was about 25 years ago and things have changed a lot with the internet.
But, I see women that post rates I would rather not pay and I just don't call them. I have plenty of women that fit what I am willng to pay with the looks and services I want. I just know that I can't have everything I want unless I am willing to play by their rules. But, as of now I can have my cake and eat it too.
This is all about fun. Enjoy what you can enjoy and don't let the other stuff get you down. By the way, I have found that in my 40's I have much better luck with civie girls in their 20's than I did when I was in my 20's. Maybe something to look forward to?
Mike"By the way, I have found that in my 40's I have much better luck with civie girls in their 20's than I did when I was in my 20's. Maybe something to look forward to? "
.Whats up with that? Unfortunately with me and civvies,its usually early twenties, and especially late teens 18.,19,hitting on me.I'm not into civvies under 25 at all for some weird reason.I won't go there.Can't help the way I am . The late twenties or 30s that I often desire, very rarely will express a interest on their own.. I'm hoping getting older, will increase my odds .
You're doing just fine!
You have kick-ass whitelists, and seen the cream of the crop already in Vegas.
Yeah, you're young. So fucking what? Everybody has to start out somewhere. Right?
Fuck! I wish I found this when I was 20-something.
Anyway, do what you're doing, and you'll be fine!
I will see younger guys, in fact I like them. I dont know what town you are in? Anyway the only thing that I can see holding back is that sometimes younger guys don't have the money that older ones do and want sessions to be cheap. That is where the issue can come in- as some younger guys want to be seen for less because they are younger and "so hot". The other issue is that more younger men are in a hurry to have the apt and the reference checking/verifying still needs to to take place. Thirdly if you look so young that you need to show id to make sure that we are not doing a minor -that is the last hurdle I can see. So if you want to pay the regular rates, and be verified and if need be age id checked I would see no problem. Hope this helps out.
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The main reason I see older men is. If they guy is 30 or under he's either on drug's or need's to be on drug's to much drama!! I hope me giving you my thought's does not offend you. I know everyone is different maybe you might get lucky and a Cougar like me will give you a chance LOL
any of the ladies I've seen. Maybe im just different than most younger guys. And i have good whitelists, so I cant be all that bad.
I personally don't mind, as long as your references are GREAT. I've had a few jerkoff younger clients, who ruin it for the rest of you ! It's sometimes nice to see someone closer to your age, it's like a special treat hehe.
i enjoy guys of all ages, races, etc... everyone needs TLC
licks
Since it seems that you frequent Vegas and have seen some of that area's best locals, I'm confused about why you even created this thread. Not a single Vegas provider that I have dealt with has asked for age. And with a rolodex like yours, almost any lady should be willing to see you.
With white listings from a number of Vegas' best. Still, if he is in his 20's, some ladies will turn him down regardless. Some of those ladies he has reviewed are no longer in their 20's, and it may be that the OP has a thing for ladies older than he is. If he visits Vegas regularly, or lives there, maybe he should concentrate his attention with them. Or, maybe, he should be aiming at ladies closer in age to himself....
First let the lady know up front what your age is. Nothing turns a legit provider off more than you not being straight forward. Second, use email if allowed and be curteous, the last thing you want the lady to think is that you are remotely a jerk. Third, curteously state that if the lady will not see you, can she suggest a provider who will see you. If she does not answer, move on. If she answers that she may see you, give the information that she asks and be curteous. If you do get an appointment, be curteous when you show up and don't rush things. The problem with young men, I was one when I started hobbying, is that they think of their orgasm first and don't realize how powerful focusing on giving a woman one or more orgasms is. I started hobbying at 28 and was not refused due to age once, even with my youthful tendency to get myself off and have the lady take care of herself. One saving grace is that I have always been curteous and gentle, that got me repeats.