In a earlier post someone mentioned middle of the night sex.  Sometimes I get the impression that many ladies post more what they think a guy wants to hear.

So tell me honestly ladies and men, If and when someone wakes you up for middle of the night sex, what is the best approach for you personally?


I am more of a morning to early evening lover.  Those are times I am most energetic and feel sexiest.  Night is Fine. Middle of night I've no prob with AFTER I actually wake up - I'm not really going to wake up and do handstands on the edge of the bed. More 'groggy but yours' sex. and I'm probably more into middle of the night 'horn dog' then getting all romanced.

What I would find sexiest and almost never have encountered is if I started waking up, feeling a stiff one against me and hearing some dirty talk,like maybe how much they had to f*ck me again.

Next best case might be the covers thrown off me and light fingers caressing the entirety of my body. LIke down my arms and legs and my back as well as my breast.. not just the nipples *twist twist* and the clit being rubbed.  *pinch pinch*

What usually happens are these scenarios.

I wake up with the odd and usually uncomfortable feeling of someone playing the banjo on my clit going 90 to nothing and maybe some heavy breathing.

or....

there is a creature latched on me like a lamprey, buried  underneath the covers and maybe a finger being jammed into my not yet wet c*nt.

Like I mentioned ...once I'm awake things go much better.  But as for the other techniques a guy might as well just tap me on the shoulder and say "hey, wake up.  Are you awake?" "Let's have sex now"  Probably be more of a turn on for me and it would involve less effort on his part.

I've always heard guys say how great it is to wake up with some lips on his c*ck or to wake up mid - deed (?)

Guys and Girls. I'd really truly like to know the best way to wake you up for sex middle of the night.  

I must admit, that waking up and having sex in the middle of the night is something I have done quite often. I have never had any pushback or complaints about my approach, but would love to hear your opinion whether it would be good or bad for you personally (and any others who might like to voice in).

Typically, I tend to wake up in the middle of the night with a raging erection that is begging for attention after having sex just before going to sleep, or after an evening of heightened sexual tension and titillation. I will be sure to have a condom on and lube it in anticipation before beginning to wake her. Usually my bed partner is laying on her side, facing away from me, purring in her sleep. If I'm not already tightly pressed against her in a spooning position, I will move into that position, pressing my chest against her back, my hips against her butt, wrapping my arm around her, cupping her breasts gently and caressing them with my fingertips.

The caressing of her breasts usually begins to waken her slowly and I keep it soft and sensual. I will run my fingertips up and down her body, thighs, legs, feeling her smooth flesh, which just gets me harder and harder. I might slip my erect cock into the triangle formed at the top of her thighs, gently moving it forward and backward. My shaft will be sliding against her pussy lips. Somewhere around this time I will be able to assess her receptivity, by body language, purring, etc. If she seems receptive, I will slip the head of my cock between her pussy lips and press gently until it pops in. This will give me more feedback about how she is feeling. Often, she might push back onto my cock herself or vocalize her desire. I always start slowly and sensually. Whether it continues slow and easy, or becomes a wild and frantic time, is always based on her reaction, where she guides it.

Ass!!!!  Talk about a wake up call!  That gets me soooo ready to either fuck him senseless, or punch his lights out!  Depends on my mood, and my hemorrhoids!

nothing overtly sexual is required. i'm usually a very light sleeper. if it is difficult to rouse me with just pressureure just a gentle light massage will do.

BTW waking me up in the middle of the night..... hasn't happened in a long time. when it has happened in the past... well... let's just say there is no surer way to throw inhibitions out the window.

I am not always oriented to the present time and moment.

It's called PTSD

I'm not a middle of the night guy anyway

My favorite times of the the day to make love are sunrise and sunset.....

Unfortunately, it's always been when I'm alone.

I have often fantasized what it would be like to wake up and realize that a gal is giving me mouth to cock resusitation.

I think it would be a wonderful experience, but I haven't yet experienced that.

If any of you gals that I see for overnights want to take notes, I won't mind one bit.

I love to take his soft member into my mouth while my lover is still dreaming...
rolling him around with my tongue...
feeling it slowly come to life in the warm moistness...

When he finally drifts up into consciousness, his body is already moving to a rhythm...

KK

Oddly enough, a thunderstorm worked best for me --

On vacation a few years ago at a now-defunct Club Med in Mexico and a new civvie sweetie and I were spending our second night together. After dinner and some extended foreplay in the cool waters of the Gulf of Mexico, we retired to the room and wore ourselves out in learning more about what each other liked. We then happily drifted off to sleep --

At 3 AM, a thunderstorm passed through the warm night air and there was a 10 degree drop with a cool breeze. I got up, opened the window and she joined me for a couple of minutes as we watched the show Mama Nature was providing for us.

The combo of naked skin, hot sex a few hours earlier and the (literally) charged atmosphere led us her giving me awesome head in the open window for a good ten minutes before we jumped back into bed and going at it for a hot 45 minutes.

We were a bit late for breakfast but what sappy grins we wore; the rest of our friends gave us sly looks but didn't say much -- guess they had an idea as to why we were a little worn around the edges.

Roll me over and put me in your mouth.

Next question please.

My favorite too!  I once knew a lady who often woke me up that way, sometimes I miss her.....

My LEAST FAVORITE way to wake up is to have the dog poke his cold nose into my armpit!

Almost any way you want. You could dump ice water on me and if you gave me a bbbj or was riding me cowgirl stile shortly there after, all would be good in my world. If I am getting sex, I'll be happy with almost anyway my date could think of to wake me up for it.

Can only answer in a civie way. But your right slow start, let them wake up and get revved up. But I have to say most I known prefer oral over most everything else. My last long term would want some breast play with maybe a thigh between her legs and then oral or even digital but not so much intercourse. Now my long ago wife; morning fucking was her 1st choice. I think it had something to do with how quick it was going to be.

Easy; BBBJ slow and to completion swallowing every drop. But please give me some access to your body as well.

hummm..I love being awaken in the middle of the night for sex...and I'm not saying this because I think guys what to hear it. Anyone who has ever done an overnight with me knows this statement to be true. Nothing like someone touching and kissing you in all the right places..I don't even bother to open my eyes.. I go with the flow..


or what is about to be flowing

Just make sure the covers are on me after your done!

as long as I don't wake up having to pee.