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This was a good experiment
JadeBlueAfterglow 1342 reads
posted
1 / 23

Soo...my question:
I've been concerned about posting on here do to some of the nasty blowback that occurs.  I keep my head down, do my best to offer an incredible experience, and quietly collect my reviews.

But I do have some things I want to post as threads.

Who can see through my alias on here and get to my real profile?

Thank you.

Jade
xoxo

justsauce16 4 Reviews 81 reads
posted
2 / 23

Your alias is private to end users. Admins can see exactly who you are, so if you're trying to use an alias to dog on them, well, they'll know.

IBDPhotography 53 reads
posted
3 / 23
NoGreenBorderedEnvelope 55 reads
posted
4 / 23

... be careful when posting.  Don't do the common "oops" where you start a thread with your alias and post later in the same thread with your handle, and it's obvious it's the same person.

HappyChanges 66 reads
posted
5 / 23
souls_harbor 63 reads
posted
6 / 23

It is not in TER's interest to expose aliases.  Talk about nuclear blowback if they did.

The greatest threat to revealing your alias/handle connection is to forget to change which one you are posting on when you respond.  I've done that a few times and quickly raced to edit the post.

JadeBlueAfterglow 60 reads
posted
7 / 23

OH no no.  Of course an admin knows.
No problem.
I'm concerned with mongers.

I know of some terrible stories from here concerning fake reviews with certain people targeting a provider, etc.  I just want to keep my head low on the discussion boards.

JadeBlueAfterglow 25 reads
posted
8 / 23

Thank you so much.
An yes, many MANY of you are wonderful. My experience is in real-life sessions.  I can honestly say that 99% of the mongers I've met had been fine.  Many have been great.

But here on discussions boards....all it takes is one troll monster....

JadeBlueAfterglow 61 reads
posted
9 / 23

AHHHHH!!!!!!

 
Oh!

Okay.  Whew!!  :-)

JadeBlueAfterglow 56 reads
posted
10 / 23

Yes, I can see that easily happening. Thank you!

JakeFromStateFarm 68 reads
posted
11 / 23

1) If you expose your alias you can change it.  You can change your alias every three months.
2) Don't worry about Admins abusing the fact that they know your alias and your handle. I've never seen that happen.
3) That said, if you abuse the system, Admin can "flip" your alias and expose it.  It rarely happens.

JadeBlueAfterglow 58 reads
posted
12 / 23

Thank you all!!  

Well.  That was easy.

And even kind!   Lol

Thank you so  much

Jade
xoxox

JadeBlueAfterglow 21 reads
posted
13 / 23
HappyChanges 51 reads
posted
14 / 23

our original thoughts as well. Just saying......

ToniLove See my TER Reviews 55 reads
posted
15 / 23

TER can  flip an alias too.  I don't use one. I have but I had the problem of outting myself lol back in the day, I'd say something and forget to switch back to my handle before posting again.  it just wasn't worth it to speak my mind, really.  There are times when an alias is needed but rare IMHO. If I have something to say, people already know it's me. Just food for thought  😚
XOXO  
TL

HappyChanges 62 reads
posted
16 / 23

I use my real handle and reviews to screen (my real handle is posted on 411). I don't need new hookers reading my post.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 68 reads
posted
17 / 23

using both the regular handle and the alias, they will usually flip the alias.

ToniLove See my TER Reviews 58 reads
posted
18 / 23

True! Sometimes an alias is needed lol I get that 😎
Oh wait, I already said that 😋
XOXO  
TL

NoGreenBorderedEnvelope 57 reads
posted
19 / 23

What "usually" happens is the second post gets removed, from what I've seen.  There can be a time out involved also for posting with a handle and alias in the same thread, but I don't think that happens much either based on what I've observed.  

Also it can take awhile for such a post to be reported... if ever.  In the meantime, the alias is exposed to whomever reads the thread.  

JadeBlueAfterglow 58 reads
posted
20 / 23
GaGambler 28 reads
posted
21 / 23

There are several Admins, but none of them are "volunteer mods" like we had in the old days, when someone like me could "see behind the curtain" Now only admin knows who you are and they already know everything  you supplied to TER when you signed up.  

 
In the "old days" volunteer mods were unpaid TER members and yes there were a few who abused their "status". Today every member of "admin" is a paid TER staffer and not a TER whore monger. Supposedly they are all in tulip land, but there are one or two who do strike me as being American.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 70 reads
posted
22 / 23

Aliases only get flipped  when someone abuses it. For example, posting on the same thread with their handle and alias and purposely acting as two different posters. Repeat offenders get moderated and/or put on time out. When people accidentally post on the same thread with their alias and handle, it "usually" gets missed. When it does get caught by admin, or reported by an observant member, or self reported, TER usually just removes the second post.  

Accidentally posting in the same thread with an alias and handle is the most common way aliases get outed.

-- Modified on 11/29/2017 7:53:38 AM

JakeFromStateFarm 67 reads
posted
23 / 23

If you post using your alias and also post using your handle, be sure to use a totally different writing style for each or people here will figure out whose alias it is.  I solve that problem simply by never posting using my handle, which is for reviewing only.  And since I've stopped reviewing (at least for now) , my handle is never seen here.  There have been a few times I've screwed up and mistakenly posted with it but I've quickly noticed it and pulled the post.  The only people who noticed already knew, so no harm done.

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