Here's one for the books ---

Planned a visit to a neutral city with a 'fave' (one of my favorite providers), months in advance - many emails (though she said only a couple got through?!?) and phone calls.  This included setting up a threesome with a local lady through several emails and calls.

Big day arrives - call the 'fave' that morning while traveling -she picks up and everything's 'OK'.  Call again when I arrive, no call backs on 3 calls.  She no-shows.  Missed that evening's fun.  

Next morning she calls - turns out she had a personal problem and apologized.  She mentioned the need for a favor so I spend the afternoon running her around the town.  At one point, called the 'local lady' to confirm that evening's threesome - connected and all was set for early evening.  Dropped 'fave' at her hotel an hour before blast-off for her to get ready and come to my room.  

I go back, get ready, champaign-on-ice - the works.  Both are supposed to arrive at 6PM.  At 6:30, no ladies so I call each, figuring maybe they PM'd each other to meet for drinks.  Neither answers their phones.  Tried calling each at 7:15.  At 8PM, I say f*^# it and go to dinner in the hotel.  Oh yes, and the 'fave' was going to join me for dinner at an up-scale restaurant after the threesome!

Net is:

- Local lady 'no-shows' after confirming within 90 minutes of appointment
- 'Fave' no-shows twice - and once after I spend 5 hours ferrying her around a new town for rush errand (no, not another appointment, I assure you)!  She's now a Formerly Favorite...

What did I miss?  Both generally get 8's to 10's.  Both show as "Really BI" and one even advertises to work w/couples.  

I know there are legitimate reasons why people need to change plans, but really...  Regardless of who needs to cancel, a courtesy phone call can't be THAT big a request, can it?  

What's up with this behavior?  If I acted this way in my business, I'd be broke and definitely not a hobbist!  I'm 'lol' now but I sure wasn't that evening.

And I even showered!!!

So, gang, what gives?  I've heard of YMMV but this is ridiculous.

WR-out

les bi

and left you Hi and dry Dolllinng

you made them too eager for each other Dolllinng

that wasn't each other's homemade soup they were slurpin on

unfortunately no soup for you Dolllinng

Ooowee!

did you make the decision to front any $$$... or were you asked.   If so, I would say you were just scammed.  If not, I suspect something was going on that had very little to do with you.  Either way, ATF or not, move on.  Burn me once, shame on you... burn me twice... shame on me.

As the saying goes "There's a sucker born every minute"...or is it every second? Whatever the case, it sounds like you got jacked, buddy. I don't care what could've come up, she would've called if she wanted to. She probably hooked up with friends or other clients---whatever the case, her plans didn't include you. One important element that you didn't highlight was your appearance. Is there anything about you she may have been turned off by (you joked about showering---or was that really a joke)?

and never do biz with them for sure. All you can do is alert the rest of us to this behavior and move on. Sad but true.

It has nothing to do with love/or care or anything else. To them its a biz..and to you its a sex outlet. Nothing more, nothing less. IF something does happen after that...its iceing on the cake and be happy.

Post your story on the local board...names/dates/times alert all others to the problem and forget it.

oz

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Did you miss something?  The fact that she reall could care less about you.

I rather like the idea of your contacting her and beign all forgiving and setting up another date with no third party involved.  Something special again, different.  It sounds like you like fine dining etc. How about having her meet you in the restaurant, ordering cocktails and the meal, excusing yourself to go the the mens room and just never returning to the table?

I did this exact thing once with a provider who thought she was real special.  She didn't mind taking but sure wasn't of a mind to give anything.  I never found out how or if she paid the dinner bill.

Some clarifications:

- No up-front monies paid - not something I'd do on general principle.
- RE: showering - that was a joke - I've never had any complaints regarding my appearance, style, nor technique!
- "Really BI" - maybe each is quilty of marketing hype!?!

Also, I've decided not to post names/locations but PM me if you are legit (aka - you have an email handle that corresponds to a reviewer handle for additional insights.
WR

I have had a negative experience with a well respected agency that many people just love.

I think everyone should be courteous to the other.  Often times, great time (not to mention expense) goes into setting up a date.  I have traveled great distances (driven 3 - 4 hours on numerous occasions) and it would be very disappointing to be stood up.

Its paramount that you post reviews so that others won't be treated the same way or will atleast have fair warning. Unfortunately this probably happened to someone else and they just never posted. But you can help end this cycle.

Maybe "Really Bi" means really bi-polar.