Now, I hate to be a whistle blower but ALL MEMBERS of TER are NOT allowed to post anything that is simply being mean, uses foul language, or that gives out sensitive information about someone. These posts will be deleted. As well, most likely they will moderated for 30-60 days or be banned if the message contains bullying and provoking negativity to another member.

Those that are unmoderated in the Providers and/or Reviewers Board can say certain things about certain people but when it comes to crossing the lines into regular Discussion Boards, that's when the lines have been seriously crossed. Those who hide behind their alias's use their NASTINESS against members of TER with out accord. These types of people need to be moderated and/or taken off TER. The last thing we want is those who think they are GOD. Like their world is the only world for them. Just like the bully's in schools well guess what, all the bully's LOVE to hurt others and make awful statements that eventually get to the recipient. Is TER becoming a school where ADULT MEN not only REVIEW us women in awful, negative, hurtful ways but now they DEPLORE us through sending threads that undermine the women that they supposedly like. What's going with so many men judging, hating and deploring women in general details. I hope and pray that TER finds those men that hurt this website and get them OFF TER immediately. They are dangerous and they are sick.  This arena is supposed to be a place that is assisting and coming together for all us all yet the GOSSIP has to STOP. Enough NEGATIVITY. Love is ALL THERE IS.

Actually sweet cakes, you are the Bully here on TER.
You Bully hobyyist on your reviews. If you don't get your 9 or 10.......you Bully them relentlessly, you burry thrm in emails & PM's w/ your threats.

That was a fact that I posted....now knock it off, let your reviews fall as they may.

Crying Wolf & being a Drama Queen is quite unbecoming.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=14378&boardID=42&page=1#14378

How about the fact that I get horribly judged not only on the Reviewers Board but now I am getting harassed by TER members on the Discussion Boards referred to the Meet and Greet Board! Check out RichardHeadIII's lovely rendition of bullying me on the board in plain sight. Nice.

LMAO, bigturd is Laffy's bitch!

See P & R board for his lame posts....lives in his parents basement & eats pizza all day.

stay the sexy lady that you are, just pure sexiness w/ no drama.

Then I'd report this post and ask to have it removed too. But that's what I'd do & whatever your decision, it's up to you.

Take care.

Agreed. Not everyone can get away with being dramatic and bitchy lol. Chloe, Meet and Greets as far as I know, are not allowed on the General Board, but I could be wrong. I thought I saw a thread about them, but can't find it now. You have to have a thick skin to play here, and guys do on purpose to try and get a rise out of you. That's not bullying...it's the nature of the beast. Bullying would be to follow you around and basically stalk your every post...is that happening?

Ignore the last message titled Ypi.
I just read the post that person made and it was not nice.

I think what he/she wants is your attention, and that's what you're giving them.
It's better to just ignore flames like that.

Keep your head up!

Where it belings.
I agree with WOW though. Why make more drama out if it, by starting another thread? She should just report the offensive post, or argue with the guy in that thread, or just let it quietly go away.

And yes she needs her big girl panties here!

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fraud. It's rude, but you're right that he's obviously trying to get a rise out of her. Maybe he's jealous he can't afford her or maybe he's really a girl.

...we women are the gems of this site. Without us, you fine gentlemen have don't have TER. When things like this go awry - yes, I am obviously hit by those who are either jealous, angry or just HATE women in general. I didn't need to have to by bullied by my supposed threats of up-selling numbers and/or how flabby my body is. I mean, really? Anyways, I'm sure the haters will continue to hate. Eventually, the REAL hobbyist gentlemen will get sick of their nasty antics to put women down. We shouldn't have hate mongers vilifying us women without even defending our selves. Talking of body image and numbers is just so juvenile. I hope those that are the haters hate themselves for being so petty and sick. Peace out and God Bless the lovely men and women on this great site. xoxoxoxo CC

I'm sure he's loving the attention we are giving him...

I also believe there are only a few idiots, or just one idiot with several handles. Who cause the majority of the negative comments, and threads here.

Chloe I still see his post there. Maybe he blocked you so that you cannot see what he has posted?
Sorry that you are going through this. It can be a very hateful place where aliases will do anything they can to smear others for reasons that are only clear to them, often times even going further to do damage and inflict hurt.   Don't let it get to you. I saw your new photos and you look better than ever as does your new site.

Not that there's anything wrong with that.

What is wrong is where this guy is coming from. I thought Chloe's suggestions were on the mark. She wants to see sharp dressed men, because she it turns her on. And it makes the party for her. What kind of girl wants to see a bunch of schlubs show up? Chloe puts all of her chips in the game. It's what makes her wonderful to be with. She's involved with you and the people around her. She loves life. So some guy calls her names for some reason? What is he is grade school? And her scores are right on. She is a belongs in the book of legendary sexual women. I have had the joy of being with her a few times. And she is just one fantastic woman.

Why anyone would say anything negative about her is beyond me.

How do you know what is being discussed on the RO board?  Are you on there?

So..how about ratting out the rat who is telling you this?

The rat is who she should be mad at, that person could have kept what was said to himself.

I don't think you should tell people things that will upset them, when those things are not important to the well being of that individual.

They did take his post down, then when she started talking about it here on this board, they put it back up again.

And compromised herself.

I hope you get this sorted Chloe.

If there is evidence of review fraud or bullying that will come forth and TER will take its action appropriately.

But this is just a really great example of never letting some fool make you sweat over his bullshit ass mother's basement opinion.  Everyone suffers from drama so let the drama die when some idiot just has to try to humiliate another person on this board.

I know exactly which dirtbag you are talking about.  He is the lowest of the low and you are right!  TER should ban his lame ass if they have an ounce of integrity or give two shits about providers.  THIS IS A TEST CASE.  WE ARE WATCHING.

This seems like a good time to remind everyone that giving out information that is on the Providers Only or Reviewers Only board is not allowed.  Nor, should members solicit other members to give them information from the boards.

'Leaking' information from these boards or soliciting information, may result, in access to the board being revoked.  It may, in some circumstances, result in the member being banned from TER.

RH3 you have no clue what you are talking about in this case.  It's about much more than you know.  Stand down.

There is much more to it.  This is a case of an infamous and well-known dirtbag bullying a provider for free sex by blackmailing her with negative shit until she gives in.  He'll deny it, of course.  But it's his MO.  Those in the know, know it to be true.

Hi BIB,

Yeah it is a test case. I hope they ban the bitch that leaked the info from the RO board too. You keep watching for that as well.

I have learned through many years of being on the boards (here and elsewhere) that complaining about something just leads to one outcome:  downside for you.

It sucks to be the object of criticism, but honestly, if your end goal is to just make sure that you are happy and that your clients are happy, just continue to be positive.

Anyone and everyone can say whatever he/she wants on the board.  That's the beauty and the curse of this and every other board.  The smart guys will figure out who the bullshitters and the cowards are, and the rest of them who can't figure it out...well, are those guys really worth seeing or wasting your efforts on?

Just keep your head up, do what you do, and ignore the naysayers.

If you really are as amazing as everyone says you are, you won't need to defend yourself.

Now, I have never seen you and have no dog in this fight.  I have said my two cents many times about why I think many 10/10-rated providers are ones I avoid, but that isn't directed at you or anyone else personally.

I wish you well.

It takes two to tango, and women and men both need each other.  We need you, and you need us, and to get all high and mighty is just stupid.

You can't make everyone happy, and the nature of some people is to be negative when everyone else is positive.  Some people just have to find fault, and when you are getting those coveted 10/10s, well, that makes you an easy target, just as it makes anyone else who is ranked highly an easily target.

If you are saying that you don't give pressure to give higher scores or that your body isn't as flabby as some are saying it is, then say it and address it.  That's it.  And don't be concerned with having the last word.  Someone will always use that to get a rise out of you.  If you are really as good as everyone says you are, you will do just fine.

Not like I give a shit, but all I see here is he said/she said.  Show me something that backs up the stuff I am hearing over and over that Chloe is threatening guys for not giving high scores, and then you have something to talk about.

Until then, it's just he said/she said.

And I took it as a little condescending.

It would be one thing to say, "Hey, some things that I personally find attractive are X, Y and Z."

That's not how it was written.  It came off kinda smartass as if the guys were social retards (which might be true) and as if they were dressed by Ray Charles.

I don't really give a shit about Chloe needing to be nice, because I'm a big boy and know what she meant (to be fair, she did provide some very specific examples of things that she found cool, such as Seven for All Mankind jeans and a certain brand of shirt).

But the tone of the post was far from being purely polite.

What is this?  The TER gestapo?

Why don't you start a separate thread and tell the story. Heck you can even tell it on the RO board.

I hope Chloe gets it sorted out, too, but this whole "celebrated provider" nonsense is just that...nonsense.

I have no dog in this fight, but Chloe said certain things that elicited certain responses.  She's a big girl and should know that with pages and pages of stellar reviews, she has own fanbase and her own clientele.

Why should she give a shit what some guy on a board says about her?  It's not like the guy is the most prolific or most well-respected reviewer on TER.  It's just one guy's opinion.

I don't think anyone should be subjected to denigrating words or actions, however.  I think that's just juvenile.  So I don't think Chloe is outta line for feeling the way she does.  But let's not get unreasonable and start deflecting blame on the guy who wrote whatever he wrote to get under her skin.  Chloe can't control what the guy wrote, but she can control how she responds.  And honestly, with so many fans and so many good reviews, I don't think she needs to even bother to respond to the guy.

There's always a heckler in the crowd.

There are certainly at least two lines that we don't cross here.  One is the outing of personal information.  The other is blackmail.

If the guy is truly guilty of what you accuse him of doing, not only is that wrong, but I have to believe that he will get something much worse coming his way.

LOL, OK grandpa, WK & Shill away if your "down" w/ that

I am no longer permitted on the RO board.  It's a long story, but has nothing to do with any mis-behavior there on my part.  Let's leave it at that.

For Chloe was the receiver of the info and said so publically. Get that info from her and bann that person ASAP. Honestly, at this point is has become a joke and TER needs to step up and put your foot down. Way too many leaks to the point that the women feel free to mention it on the GD bd.

It will just end up as public knowledge...

not the cause.  And I'm pretty sure you know what the cause is.  I addressed it in an earlier post.  The OP is being blackmailed by having her reputation on this site impugned by a notoriously abusive member.  Put it in perspective.  Yes, you're right, leaking things from the RO and PO boards is wrong and against the rules.  It's a fact of life.  But slamming a provider, trying to destroy her reputation, and doing it to coerce her into free sex is a much more profound violation.

I have heard of scumbags doing that.
I am amazed it works.
Wait a minute.. How does that work?
Who would want to see a woman under those circumstances?
My dick wouldn't work I would be so ashamed of myself.
So he really wants to meet her? My head just exploded.

threats via PM, they should realize it may not be so private. If a guy forwards that message to Admin. they will know whether it's true or not. Just an FYI. Guys tend to save emails of threats, as do we.

Welcome back sweetie!!! You were missed!

I can't imagine enjoying sex with someone whom I know hates me.  Sadly, there are sociopaths in this world who just don't give a fuck.  It's a power trip with them, like rape is.  I get a fair amount of OTC goodies, but it's because I treat women right, not the other way around.  In this case, the scumbag has been doing this shit for years.  The good thing is Chloe stood up to him.  Now we'll see if TER does the same.  I hope so.

Can you honestly say that a woman with her review history, is going to be looked at any differently because of what ONE person says? Paleeze. Guys talk shit about me all the time...here, and everywhere else. Never hurt me, my business, or my damn personal life except once, and I took care of it. This is more about ego, than anything else. It will not affect her one bit. If he is a serious threat, stalker, etc. that needs to be dealt with, but something tells me that's not the case. If he is in fact blackmailing her for free sex, produce the PROOF and send it to Admin.

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I actually saw her on the 20th and all she would say was she was banned from TER for 30 days, or something like that.  She didn't provide any details.  This whole thread smells pretty rotten!