This was a first in my 25 years of seeing over 250 girls. Her name is Amanda Weaver and she is based in Miami, but also does tour. Long story short. My date was set for an hour GFE session on a Saturday morning for $600.00. I picked this provider, based on the stellar 5 star GFE review from TER., even though her website and ad pics were blurred. I figured i was gonna have a great one. I was raring to go and told her let's hold off on the massage with oils till after I'm done. No sooner do I try some GFE moves with some DFK, which was lousy and brief, when she decides it's time to take out the glove and get that going. I said, "Whats the rush? Not so fast." Then she literally went sideways, pulling away on me when I tried some 69. I was getting pissed at that point and knew it was over for me so I had her do a quick happy ending then asked for that oil massage which was nothing more than her sitting on the side of the bed, barley rubbing my shoulders. So I  kicked her out after 20 minutes. The next day I wrote a note to her assistant asking what was up with the rush rush session. She wrote back and said, Hello my love, I'm not so sure, maybe she had some personal problem unfortunately. But I will try to see what happened. " Of course I had to follow up first, when I get an email back saying, and I quote. "Something personal happened and a relative of hers was urgently hospitalized. I hope you understand, we are all humans and sometimes things like this happen. Of course I was still a bit perplexed that they would leave it at that and not offer a new session or a refund. That's what any good business person would do as far as Im concerned, having owned my own business for 40 years. I wrote back. "Okay, so then this was her fault and not mine. Therefore a refund is in order. If you're doing a job and you don't feel good, you stay home until you feel better if you cannot perform as expected. And then you reschedule for another time, But instead, she took my hard earned money and didn't do her job. It's okay for all of you to request a cancelation fee, if one of us has something happen the same day of an appointment or without enough notice. I don't have a cancelation fee, but I would have gladly rescheduled with her at a better time if she wasn't feeling good." Of course there was no response for days until I responded once more which I knew would be pointless. "I'll give you 48 hours for my refund, if you don't, I feel obligated to post an "HONEST" review on TER." I never got angry and I never threatened anyone. I figured if they sent a refund or did another session, I'd let the review on TER slide. No biggie. That's when the first excuse of "Something Personal Happened," completely changed and went out the window and they came up with something else.  “I didn’t want the massage, I was fine, had the ecstasy of pleasure, you want to go out with beautiful young women for free, your physique & pocket don’t allow it, I don’t understand the “rush” you mention, we will report threatening emails on Twitter & with other providers, so it will be even harder for you to date someone.” A few days later I get a scathing email from another yo-yo on her team. And this one was a real doozy. from a very angry mental patient.  “Your refund can be found up your old ass faggot. No one gives a fuck about your TER SLOBBYIST HANDLE or how many DICKHEADS you think you know over there. You’re famous on Twitter and if you don’t watch your fucking mouth and shut the fuck up, we will post everything we know about you, your neighbors, and your pathetic ass life online you wrinkled ball having bitch. Look at the screenshots and remember who the fuck runs the show around here! Not you or your dumb ass threats.” Screenshots were neighbors names & several properties I own, rent & live part time. They dissed TER & its members, referring to us as all as SLOBBYIST DICKHEADS, & yet, TER logo is on website. And they did the unthinkable to post this on twitter which they took down after about a week. NO PROVIDER should ever disclose a clients info anywhere, unless maybe that client is a complete psyscho and thug of course. HER TWITTER POST- VERBATIM: “Girls-ALERT - This guy is trying to schedule appointment with girls and after one week he start to threatening saying if we don’t give the money back he will post bad review. PS: he didn’t pay uber, no tip nothing and now been so mean, just don’t go! “ They lied, making me out to be doing this all the time to girls. And to say I didn't tip or pay for Uber. What a bunch of nut jobs. It went to 70,000 readers & 196 tweets, exposing my name, my written email & email address. Afterwards, I received several scathing emails. I told them they need to apologize on Twitter, but they were  too unprofessional to do so. But what they did do, was to delete her TER account once they saw my HONEST review of her and what her hostile team of people said and did. So many better options, so why risk seeing anyone that could behave this way if you were simply asking for a refund or maybe a make-up session. They got all bent out of shape over a lousy $600.00...RUN THE OTHER WAY

Yet another reason why one should not provide RWI for screening.

Along with two others who "allegedly" were posting fake reviews of themselves with high scores to lure in unsuspecting clients.  

to just write off a loss in this biz.  

While I was reading your post, this juxtaposition of truth and deception was impossible to miss: "... if you don't, I feel obligated to post an "HONEST" review on TER." I never got angry and I never threatened anyone." You do it again later.  
 
Threat then eschewing threats.
 
But what gets in my craw is you telling this story when we can read what you were like in a post on Reddit, linked below. But the pic from that post says it all. Or does it? Let us know.
 
Finally, what I can't understand is how you made it through 25 years of this with only now being presented the opportunity to learn that, like you said, "just a lousy $600.00."

if you had just left, written it off and not contacted her or her assistant again after the disappointing session.  All of this retaliation was precipitated by asking for your money back or a new session.  At this point, I'm guessing you would have paid another $600 to not have had this happen and get doxed, but that's hindsight.  

I usually do not contact and walk away because its happened many times. But Im  sick and tired of some of the bullshit these girls dole out from time to time. Especially when you pay 500 to 600 bucks or more... Im tired of them having the upper hand.  I will no longer give out my real name and will only use my second number from now on.

TY

Threatening a provider who has your RWI is never a good idea.

Sorry that happened it’s amazing how many people are involved to much to deal with. Rescheduling is always the best option if you’re disconnected from life issues. Young & hot has 3 assistants emailing you? Crazy.

When did PII become RWI? Is it FB talk or something?  
 
RWI is easier to remember, it's simpler, and PII just plane sounds stilted... but it's correct LOL. Am I gonna have to change to be hip about this?😂

You’re correct. PII.

You have 70 reviews. Bet you also have P411 account, can generate tons of references. With this credentials, no need to give out your personal info. I’m f provider is not comfortable with that - move on!!!

you sound like an entitled prick

No, what I was only saying is that I'm starting to see it elsewhere. This was not a grammar police strike.

I was so confused about it but not willing to reread the post to sort it out. So they were assistants to Amanda? Wow, that's plush! LOL.😂😂

One comment on the Reddit thread re this situation says you spent $5,000 flying her in from Miami, on top of the money you spent for the session. Is that accurate?

Not three assistants from the way I read it. One assistant and then two escorts who emailed him from the info listed in the Twitter post.

are any in your area.  Consistent excellent service at reasonable prices, i.e., typically $260-$420/hour, depending on what's on the menu, how experienced they are, and where the location is.  (Prices tend to be a little higher on the East Coast.  More girls with a liberal menu on the West Coast.)  Notable lack of drama unless you get personally involved with them.  Keep it professional and they will respond professionally, too.  

I agree 100%. With P411 account there is no need to provide anyone your personal info. If they're still asking - move on.  

Ill repeat it again. What she did to you (assuming your story is 100% true) was vile, and I would say people shouldnt be seeing her or at least never giving her their actual info.

And you're complaining to us about 600. Is this guy leveling with us: "Damn, reached out to him and he flew her out to NYC! $6k gone since she was jet lagged and stayed for a quick pop and ended the session." (link below)
 
WTF, why didn't you tell us that part if you were going to go into such excruciating detail as you did and spend as much time trying to make it sound one-sided. This gets more fucked up the more you know. LMAO. This whole thing stinks, starting with her. But maybe if you had more respect for money in the first place you actually would have leaned this lesson a couple of hookers into 25-year's worth.
 
And I thought I just went through some drama with a hooker!😂😂😂 I feel better about it now.

It makes this line even more ridiculous (verbatim): "Ps: he didn't pay Uber, no tip nothing and now been so mean , just don't go !"
 
This chick is fucked in the head. Period.

Perfect example of why reviews are so important !  Anyone provider or admirer  can have a bad day. How they handle it is key. Several reviews of this sort will end either participance market value, as it should be. It seems that the provider in question as been removed from TER for cheating on reviews. Most of us on either side expect a lees than perfect encounter at times, its part of the game. Twitter fakes or providers with a no review policy should be looked at through a different lens.

We do agree that the OP’s behavior, blackmailing Amanda with a bad review, violates TER’s terms of service and is generally a shitty thing to do.

suggesting that the gal who doxxes inappropriately should get a pass? Just blame the guy?

Maybe you should read my WHOLE post again and try to understand my point.  I'm not giving ANYONE a pass here.  All I did was point out what should be obvious to even YOU, and that is if he would have walked away, he would NOT have been doxed.  The doxing came in response to his escalation and the threat he made to hurt her business.  You should NEVER make those kinds of threats when a provider has your REAL LIFE ID, and I stand by that statement.  You can't hand her your personal info and then expect to be able to play hardball if things go South for ANY reason.  I'm just offering practical advice.  In this case, I'm not excusing what she did, but IT WOULD NOT HAVE HAPPENED had he not upped the ante by asking for his money back or a free session.  

this thread, I gotta' ask.
Just what do you think that make up session would have been like if she went for your threat and saw you?
IMO, very strained and unenjoyable!

...agreed with her so they were "on her team."  I never heard of a provider with three assistants.

Those are fine reasons, yes. Provided they did happen.

There never was going to be a make-up session.

FCK NO! TOTAL BULLSHIT BY SOME A-HOLE.  Someone made that up for whatever reason. I have proof of all communication what went down and it was submitted to TER in order to get approved to get my review of her on board. I was in Miami at the Carillon Resort hotel at the end of April for a week. For which I have proof of with my Invoice on my C-Card.  The date was set for April 29th Saturday  late morning at my hotel around 11:30 ish. I quoted her Tweet verbatim in my review and discussion. Girls-ALERT This guy is trying to schedule appointment with girls and after one week he start to threatening saying if we don't give the money back he will put bad review. PS. he didn't pay Uber, no tip nothing and now been so mean. just don't go!.. NOW I ASK YOU, does this fcking sound like a FMTY for $5,000.00 or however much they said, for me or anyone to fly in someone? I didn't pay Uber and no tip because there was never any mention for me to have to pay for her Uber from wherever she was coming from in Miami to my hotel. Nor a tip. I never tip for someone charging $600.00 an hour. And they lied in the tweet how this is something I do on a regular basis. To threaten girls if no refund is given otherwise I will post a bad review on TER. ALL BULLSHIT!...These are demeted and angry people. I would be demented and angry too if I had to what she has to do all day to make a living..

There are of course reddit trolls who could make up stuff. Or the redditor could have been one of Amanda's friends or shills too.  

"I'll give you 48 hours for my refund, if you don't, I feel obligated to post an "HONEST" review on TER."  

...I quickly learned never to upset a provider or agency.

Learn to spell. Learn that when someone admits to not performing at work, due a to a problem they were having. Better they should stay home and reschedule.And NO, the ONE HOUR session DIDN'T happen.  It's that simple, even for a pinhead. You question the integrity of my reviews? Then don't fucking read them. Everything I posted about these angry lunatics passed the TER inspection due to actual pictures taken of all the emails and what they posted on Twitter. But go ahead, and believe what you want.  I could care less.

Blaming the guy for everything.  

A threat of ANY kind is ill advised after giving that person your PII. It's just plain ignorant mongering. It's a good thing you can afford all your mistakes. I'd say, be grateful you could laugh it all off... if you chose to.

I dont know about that. We have no guarantee of that yet you seem very sure of it.

Smh...why on Earth are you guys still sending provider's your personal info? There are so many instances like this and no one ever believes it will happen to them...until it does.

Well, my two cents as a provider if you technically "did" have a session with her, but it went very poorly as you stated, I think she should have returned half of the fee. Unfortunately it sounds like both sides got upset with the situation and it got out of control. No one should be doxing or threating anyone in this profession. $600 is a lot of money to most and you have every right to be upset. You were expecting a relaxing and enjoyable session, which is sounds like you did not receive. You have every right also to post an honest review, but I think you may want to step back and reflect a bit on all aspects of the interaction before doing so.

First, I don't think she delisted. I believe she, and two others were booted for a fake review scam. These three had 6-8 glowing reviews from the same 6-8 members, who, believe it or not, never reviewed anybody else. It was really obvious.

has now been removed from P411, as a danger to our community. Other sites have been notified and are investigating.

My post was very clear that my recommendation to walk away was only intended when the customer has given them his real ID.  Read my second post where I said that you cannot expect to play hardball if you have given your REAL ID to a provider during screening.  They should walk away ONLY if she has the upper hand to dox.  Otherwise, take them on when they do you wrong.  I don't see why that difference is so hard for you to understand.  Is it happy hour where you are?  Do you realize that everyone here can read what I posted and what you are CLAIMING I said when I didn't?  You're losing any cred you had here with each successive post.  

of the unfolding of the escalation, the doxing came AFTER he asked for a refund, which she refused, and AFTER he threatened her with a bad review.  Walking away would have erased this part of the story, which leaves her no reason to dox him.  I never heard of a provider doxing a guy who gave her no trouble, have you? Why would she even be angry if he just walked away?  

She's still on twitter and tryst. Again, I remember her distinctly because she resembled Sofia Vergara but her reviews were always subpar at best, so I didn't bite.
Her TER ID: 375039 is no longer available, which actually works in her favor because now unsuspecting clients will continue to book using personal info.

Reading how things seem to have unfolded and come to a conclusion, a larger one than the issue in the OP, has some good lesson's learned.

as an escort NAMED Amanda Weaver will be eroded.   There's nothing to stop her from changing her name, losing a few pounds, becoming a blond, then getting new photos and she is back in business.  She'll be starting from scratch, so probably at a lower rate (unless she loses MORE than "a few pounds." - Lol)

I'm particularly mindful of the advice not to start a fight you can't win. It would do us all good to remember that what we're doing here is illegal in 49 states. So we will not be able to use social opprobrium to our advantage; there's no newspaper or ombudsman or judge coming to vindicate our rights. What there is is the distinct possibility that the person on the other end knows your leverage is limited, that they will turn on you like a viper, and that you will end up a lot worse off than just losing some money.

-- Modified on 7/6/2023 10:24:34 AM

Help me out here if you know...Exactly what info did the lady in question post? The OP seems super entitled, and I agree that no one should ever hold writing an "HONEST" aka bad in this case over a lady's head, when demanding a refund! If he received ZWRO services from her, that's different. Some kind of activity went on between them, so why should she refund any/or all of the fee? As soon as his threatening message went out, he lost all cred for me in his complaint. It seems like he's the one screaming about the $600. IMO he just should have written the damn review and gone about his way.  If a client is not happy with what he feels are sub par service, he has a recourse here on TER. Now that the lady in question delisted, he lost the chance to write his "honest" review.

Email address and possibly phone number.

is easy to replace.  The damage done by a doxing may not be fixable at all or at any price.  Don't put yourself in a position to be doxed by playing hardball with a provider over an illegal transaction.  It's not the same as buying a bad tire.  

I'm shocked you went all nutso over $600.  I've been doing this on and off for 14 years, seen tons of girls from various sites, and had horrible things happen.  The costliest was paying $3k for an UTR ex porn star (got married, kid, divorced now and getting back in shape to try to do movies again) for two hours, only to go down on her; get a BBBJ, and within 30 minutes of arriving she's putting her clothes on and wants us to go do lunch together.  When I questioned what was going on she replied "You're paying to spend time with a porn star, I'm not an escort" so .. yeah.. I sucked it up and went about the rest of my day.  I have other stories I'm sure some of us here have experienced as well: you go to wash up after she arrives, to find her grabbing the cash and bolting for the hotel room door knowing you can't do anything naked (stood there in shock); druggies who tried blackmailing, the list goes on and on ..   It can be a dangerous, risky hobby.  You should have just let it go.

I have consistently said he should have walked away WITHOUT asking for a refund.  As you say, he saw her, but it was not a good session.  It also appears to have been an outcall, so she had her own travel time invested as well.  This was handled poorly on both sides, but when things escalate like this, no good can come of it, and once the fire goes out, it will seem petty to have made a big deal out of it over a few hundred dollars.  I agree with you that he should have written the review and not done anything else.  He can simply state in the review that he was rushed and did not get his full time.  Then let HER reach out to him and propose a resolution if she wants to, but he was wrong to demand anything.  

Once again, if she would be able to figure out his ter username, she could've doxed him for a bad review. It has happened before.

There are risks in almost all activities we carry out on a daily basis.  The risk that you will be hit by lighting in a given year is approximately 1 in 250,000.  I think you would have a comparable risk of being doxxed by a provider if you did not shortchange, abuse, threaten, harm, etc. the provider.  I don't think about getting hit by lighting and I assume most folks don't but maybe you, as a paranoid, do.  In any event, the "theme" of this thread, as others have correctly pointed out, is not whether he is due a refund, or should have complained but THAT it is a really, really dumb move to threaten a provider or her assistant when they have your REAL LIFE INFORMATION.  

from a theoretical perspective, but it's the way it would go down in real life, i.e., no demands or threats means no doxing 99% of the time.  If you want to argue the outlier, go ahead.  It's what you do.  Lol

NOPE--Im at it 25 years and NO MORE giving them the upper hand. Not on my watch. Nobody is going to waste my time, and my entertainment anymore. Im going back to using a booking agent I know who has 9-10 model type girls everywhere. Done with all the website ads and reviews and listening to other mongers, some who chalk it up and don't mind taking it on the chin. Fuck that. I work to hard for my $$$$.

What you posted is Douchey. Asking for a refund is not customary? TOO BAD. You down feel good, SUPPOSEDLY, Then she or anyone else needs to stay the fuck home. Don't ruin my entertainment for the day and waste my hard earned money!  

And agree with everything you said The OP for a refund was pompous.  

You are up here cussing out anyone who doesn't agree with you 100%. You brought this to the board and now you are lashing out. Wow. You have buyer's remorse because you deemed her "services" substandard.  

This should also re-affirm that no matter how much they claim to, Providers DO NOT destroy your personal information after you've been verified.

Pay attention to the chronology. She doxxed him by publishing the threatening message he sent her AFTER he asked her for a refund and/or make up date. For all we know, any other PII had been deleted because she didn’t post anything other than his message to her.

thats not the point...its business...

and your willingness to participate can get you charged with a crime, but that's not the point here.  It seems that your double-down with this post means you are WILLING to risk doxing by an escort on social media for all of your family, friends, and co-workers to see because your pride will not let you walk away from $600, chalk it up to experience, and live to hobby another day with a different girl, avoiding this kind of drama, am I right?  

Yes. Unfortunately she was only off for a couple days.  
I believe doxxings will only increase as providers learn they have the power to doxx with impunity. If it is accepted, it will become the norm for all manner of "insults" from the client. I believe doxxings are already on the rise.
Clients need to act when these things occur absent physical violence or sexual abuse.

That's it? That's all we get?

"Am I right? " No you're  so fucking wrong.  I could give two shits if anyone tries to out me on social media. I don't have a family of my own and what family and friends and co-workers i do have, they all know about my Whore Mongering lifestyle. And they all think it's great. Even my Mom wanted to know what I do for sex since she too knows  I no longer date. And she even thinks it's great!.  I have my own business, so no co-workers to know my business. And the people I do business with, mostly men, as do my married friends all get girls to play with on a regular basis.  

Never knew that. Just looked it up.

One might think that in a democracy with a majority of 10 out of 17 they might just decide it's legal in the state as a whole.

If your family, co-workers and friends all know you see escorts and pay for sex, why start this thread about getting doxed?   The general rule in most sports (for me, this is a sport) is, "no harm, no foul."  You made a huge deal about her doxing you, and now you say it doesn't matter.  Is this just an attempt to follow through on your threat to hurt her business, or are you just a drama queen?  Lol

Seriously?  Wake Up....I had no idea they would post my info and then they went ahead and lied saying that my intention is to threaten providers with bad reviews if they do not refund my money. Which means that the 196 providers she tweeted too and the 70,000 or so read it. So now Im guessing that my name now is on some sort of black list. So now Ive had to resort to other avenues of ID....Never had a problem in the 25 years with my real name and now I know that was a mistake and should have used my alias emails.  

It is utter bullshit to say the OP had no reason to start this thread because "no harm, no foul."  
First of all, he WAS harmed. He got a shitty session and when he mishandled it (we both agree on that) he got doxed. Just because his entire world already knew he was a monger does NOT mean there was no harm. For example, he's had to change his mongering approach because his previous info was compromised.
Second, he was right to start the thread to out this bad behavior and warn others to stay away from the provider in question. Which is EXACTLY what TER was founded to deal with.
You should have quit while you were ahead, which you mostly were. But that's just not you, is it?
Oh, well, you usually err by not quitting while you're behind, so at least there's progress.

being robbed, bait and switched, running out the door after getting paid, underperformance and doxing happens to everyone!
Website pics are out of a Mongers control, hobbyists too.
No not everyone, just prey, IMO!
So, you say you're not that guy anymore.
Good for you, I hope it's true, sounds like it was one looong lesson!

changed from an adult playground to a family-friendly vacation destination.  There are many more things to attract children than there were when I was a kid. The family market now accounts for a large part of the revenue.  

Please provide your numbers that show me that providers outing for bad reviews, especially providers who we know do fake reviews as well and who are bad actors, is comparable to probability of getting hit by lightning.

Do you have proof of numbers you mentioned in your claim?

the outlier, just as CDL predicted.

Ignoring your bad godfather analogy, I will say I'm as pro-monger as anyone here.

Excellent advice Helixir! I don't argue with them. No matter what you say they turn it against you. Just walk away.

Sorry, Steph, it looks like I completely misunderstood you.  My bad.

-- Modified on 7/10/2023 3:20:40 PM

Please share the booking agent with me that has the 9-10 girls who won't rip me off!  

How uncannily convenient. Lol.

While you're at it.

I'll ask her and I'll need your direct email as I dont see it on the drop down here. I also have another great booker in Los Angles with all GFE girls that are hot

After seeing how this all transpired I can see it, you just lost it...and just had it.
I'm not going to dissect and analyze you. I'll leave that to the board shrinks here. But I get it....

You gave her your real name and information.  And you basically threatened her livelihood.  What did you expect?  

since you seem to have had something that was working, why try to "fit it"? Case of not knowing how good you had it and thinking the grass was greener on the other side or something?

According to your original post:  "I had her do a quick happy ending."  So you did get *some* service.  With that being the case, you wouldn't be entitled to a full refund.  Perhaps a discount on your next session, but not a refund.

Both of those links are broken now.

the harm was self-inflicted when he had the session and then asked for a refund.  When she refused, he threated to hurt her business using a review (which is contrary to TER policy).  He would have not been harmed at all unless he invited it by his own conduct.  If you punch a guy in the nose, and then he beats you up, it's no harm, no foul because you started it.  If you had not punched him, he would not have retaliated.   You can't start the fight and then claim YOU are the injured party.  

Let the record show that your "rebuttal," even though late, is totally non-sequitur. And you can't even quit while you're behind.

where he starts out by saying, . . . .  "I don't give a shit if someone out's me on social media?"  HE states there was no harm to him, ergo, "no harm, no foul."

I CLEARLY demonstrated that -- whatever the OP said -- there WAS harm suffered. If you can't see that, you are willfully blind.
Which isn't news to anyone here.

was not to the OP at the top of the thread, but to his later post where he said that outing him would cause him no harm.  If you OP concedes he was not harmed, and doesn't care that he was outed, but YOU say he was harmed, who do you think is the better of judge of that?  The guy who actually experienced it or the guy who just read about it on this board.  Do you suddenly read minds?  Lol

In this case you have cherry-picked a couple of comments from the OP and declared they were the only thing you were replying to. How convenient. Because in the rest of his replies he explains several ways in which he was harmed.
So, as usual, you are full of shit.

for her to blast his personal life everywhere that's just childish and shows she can't run a business with ladies at all -KRAMA its a bitch ,he told the truth and she got kicked off of Ter ,oh well ! another one bites the dust !

I think its imperative to stress that, because too many people start to think that democracy is inherently ruled by a majority rule. But it isn't.

frustrating this is for you defending a guy who keeps changing his mind with each successive post, but kudos for hanging in there when dealt a losing hand.   Lol

She is now gone from Twitter, Tryst, P411, OnlyFans.  

If what you say is true, I agree... Good! I can't think of a hooker who deserves it more. The punishment doesn't quite match the damage done, but it isn't insignificant either.

People can make it more significant by watching out whenever her new incarnation pops up and alerting the public.

Many have followed this story and many doubted me and or said I was  wrong asking for a refund for what was supposed to be an hour GFE session for $600.00, and what turned out to be a rush session for 20 minutes. After I asked nicely for that refund, I got doxxed on Twitter. What followed after, was a scathing email from another email, other than the providers, threatening to expose my name and my lifestyle of mongering to my neighbors and all over the internet. I thought that email came from her assistant, or someone on her team, but it did not. When I wrote back, telling that person I could care less what they try and do, they sent another scathing email.    
The provider I speak about cannot be named due to being delisted.. After I posted an honest review of what took place and then wrote about it in the discussion boards, a few members on TER were so livid what the provider had done,  they got her delisted all over the place. I too got her delisted, but under another new name on Twitter and TER and was about to go for the jugular when I woke up a bout a week ago to a very  lengthy and apologetic letter from the provider herself. I'm not going to go into detail bout the letter, but I could tell she was very sincere in her apology and that she admitted to making a huge mistake exposing my personal info. I wrote her back accepting her apology and did not want to cause her any more harm as I believe in giving second chances. She also said in her apology, she would like to send me a full refund,  could I send her my Zelle info. Before I even emailed her back, to tell her that her apology was enough and not to send me any money, she had sent by Zelle  a full refund of $600.00 PLUS an extra $300.00, as interest.    
We both decided to move forward with no animosity, to become friends and to somewhere down the road possibly have a makeup session if and when the timing is right, and if it feels right.  
As it also turns out, once we got over that hump, I told her about the outside scathing emails I had been getting, and sent her the two emails address's from PROTON.ME and the Gist of what was said. She claims she knows nothing of who these people are and even sent me a copy of an email she wrote to them to stop harassing her/ her career and myself. They never really did follow through with harassing and exposing me, but they sure as hell did a good job in being a part of fucking up the provider.  
A hacker friend may have ID'd this person [in his early twenties] and from the looks of his picture ID, and how he writes these scathing emails, using the words Faggot and Retard  over and over, he looks and sounds like a real psychopath and an even bigger douchebag. Can't even imagine why anyone would want to get involved with something like this. Maybe it was to eventually try and extort money????  
Not sure how one goes about spreading the word, but hopefully the provider can regain her status and get back on good terms with all those who delisted her. She deserves a second chance. If I could name her I would..

Exactly what purpose is knowing your true name is Jerry, John or Stu?  What purpose is having a copy of your driver's license, work information, or a selfie?  Does having that your personal information protect the escort from being a wife beater, aggressive individual or law enforcement official/cop?
The one reason i can think of is to use that information to blackmail/extort you in the future.  Lesson learned.  She probably wasn't prepared to meet someone with big meaty BALLS.  BTW, those ARE her associates.  Donate the money to charity and never see her again.  Nice job!  

I didn't see that coming... 😂
 
Glad it's worked to your satisfaction.

Gross.

Posting personal information of another person publicly is the definition of doxxing. What am I missing here?

Not that I assume my opinion carries much weight on TER, but since my first (and so far only) attempt led to being scammed for $200, I agree whole heartedly that expecting anyone to simply forget the loss is ridiculous. If you go to a nice restaurant and they only bring you half the meal you ordered, should you be expected to pay half just because they brought you something? If you paid in advance, should you simply say nothing to them and rely on writing a review on Yelp. How many people will that actually reach? It's ridiculous to even contemplate.