I bet you think, from the subject, that I'm a guy.  But, I'm not - I'm a mature semi-retired provider, who would like to do more, but what happened to the urges/ feelings/ squirting from 10 - 12 years ago.  My doctor doesn't believe in HRT due to my family history of high blood pressure, but did give me a hormone cream to use 2x a week.  I don't think it's helping AND since I received an email from the site (thank you) saying I hadn't been on here for a while, I thought I'd post this query.  What can I do to get "it" back?  I've only been with 1 client in the past year and I like him and he's good, but it's not how it used to be.  Any ideas?  Younger men?  Get drunk?  I don't think that will bring back my squirting/ gushing, will it?  Ok - enough for now.  I hope I have this in the right place.  Please don't chastise me, if I haven't and I don't know if I should check "provider ad" or not because I'm not really advertising.  Thanks and Happy Holidays!  

When I first started as a provider, I was super nervous every single appointment, and it dried me up despite many of the clients being excellent lovers. I tried this stuff, and it definitely helped with dryness and increased my libido enough to make feel less nervous (too horny to be pussyfooting around from nervousness)

As for younger men. Can you keep up with us fkkers? I think Jake from State Farm is more your type so maybe start back there with training wheels before you want to get real.

We ceased paying them as employees last year.

JD aint getting no IRS audit with your bogus mis-classification of my "employees."

Not only haven't you changed CPA firms, but you've increased their retainers.

Tell him to be careful about sloppy seconds.

My libido drops occasionally, typically because I just need a change in scenery. Think of some of your fetishes, maybe some stuff you never got to try.... Not fetishes you necessarily will want to advertise to do in the hobby, but stuff to try in your personal life . Here's some fun ones right off the top of my head:  

1. Do you currently take any antidepressants? These destroyed my libido at one point and I had to stop them anyway since they weren't helping my anxiety issues I had at the time.

Diet and exercise is paramount for a high Libido.  Hormone changes can effect Libido as well as medications. Personally,  I think a little bud increase a woman's Libido but not legal in most places.  
You can Google foods to increase your sexy drive too 😚
Hope you find your MOJO babe 😆
XOXO  
TL

A lil 420 action beforehand does increase the libido for many. Good point! Forgot about that one lol

If you already saw it, see it again but pay real close attention....

I'm available nights and weekends

A doobie before the fun !oh yeah !! Haven't done that in a while😜

I take care of older people. Post menopausal or those approaching menopause have high rates of sexual dysfunction and dissatisfaction. On the other hand, I take care of a number of 80+ year old newly weds who seem to be having a teen age sex life so there is hope.
Things that interfere with good sex include: certain medications, lack of exciting partner, but above all: changing hormone levels.  
Effects of this like vaginal dryness can be over come with local hormones, but to return to the days of fantasies and excitement one would have to restore a number of hormines. These include estrogens but one often ignored player is the male hormone testosterone. Women produce testosterone and when these levels drop sexual thoughts and fantasies fade, There are other hormone like leutenizing hormone that also play a role.  
The problem is that careful studies to understand the exact role and levels needed are rare since women don't often show up complaining about lack of interest the way men do complaining of erectile dysfunction.  
I really have been thinking of focusing on this problem.
Some things that would help as everyone has said is good heath (exercise and good diet and refraint from tobacco.) good partner, a trail of marijuana, and the ability to focus on what you would want what fantasy what situations would most appeal to you.  
And not least, finding a good physician who take the problems seriously and may be willing to try combinations of estrogen with small amount of testosterone etc.  
It must be hard for a provider to think of sex in terms of her needs above all, but you have the right to think that way now