Just a curious post wondering why everyone decided to get into the hobby if you wanna share. For me it's about having control over my sex life and not leaving it up to luck or another person. Imagine your really hungry, stomach rumbling, would you go to a random lake and cast your fishing rod hoping for the best, you either get lucky or don't eat tonight or would you just order takeout and eat till your full? Same mindset with sex. I do like to go out a lot and it's always fun when you get lucky here and there but making that the main source of sex sounds increadibly frustrating lol. As for "civie" dating I'm on and off but this hobby helps a lot cause I don't have to be desperate for sex I can get on demamd so no putting up with any bs in a relationship. I can leave whenever if I'm not satisfied and hobby instead, makes me feel bad for the guys I know who put up with toxic relationships and sexless marriages. Trying to get more friends into the lifestyle of freedom!