Guys, help us out a bit. I understand everyone likes something different then the guy to his left. But here are a few things I am curious about.

First is getting a boner. A guy friend and I were explaining to each other what it feels like to be a guy fucking or a girl being fucked. (All about the dick and vaginal walls).

I mentioned I wanted to have a dick for a day just to feel what it's like to get a BJ. (I'd have to hire someone for a multi-hour date with a deposit to guarantee that would happen. But it would be worth it if I only had it for a day.)

Some things I am curious about.
We were about ready to leave, but he stopped and unzipped his pants and asked me to put it in his mouth and let it grow.
"No, I don't want you to get blue balls. I'm starving, let's go eat."
"I can tell him to go down just do it for a minute. It feels so good to get an erection. Why waste it while I'm not using it."
"Ok, I don't want to make you walk around with a painful bulge in your pants, but I'm going and I'm eating after this."
I did the grow in my mouth thing...
"Down boy. Down" he said to his cock, and it slowly deflated.  
"What does it feel like? Just blood rushing in?"
"No it's a rush of hormones." Makes a funny face as though he is melting from pleasure.
She then started poking it to make it big again.

That was an actual conversation (with a friend out of state, NOT a client). We also talked about the most sensitive parts, movements during sucking, and circumcised area.

There's a line that separates two colors on a cock part way down the shaft that I've seen, but never realized that was where a guy's foreskin was cut! I can't believe I didn't know that.

1. Do you get a rush when you get an erection?
2. How long do you like a girl to play and tease before she starts repetitively doing the same general movement for you to cum? When you are cumming, way before you cum? Doesn't matter?
3. What is the most sensitive part of your cock?
4. Do you like hands free or a wet hand assisting the mouth?
5. Can you tell 'him' to go down, then back up on demand?  
6. Does it hurt if you have to wait to come back after dinner to finish?

 

Essay 1: explain from tip to balls what it feels like during a good blowjob
Essay 2: explain from tip to balls what it feels like during vaginal intercourse

Thanks! If you answer, extra credit reward may be someone knowing how to please you a little better. The best communication is body language, verbal, and actually cumming lol. But the most verbal is usually "yeah keep doing that." "Right there" and "oh that. That. Yeah."

Lol

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1. yes, not like a head rush, but more of a passion rush
2. I like for a woman to start using her tongue in a swirling fashion from tip to base and back again, but once she has me rock hard, I want an all out blow job to make me cum. Some women will take the slow, teasing, love making blow job thing too far. I like wet, sloppy, nasty fast blow jobs. I particularly like when a woman looks up at me with those eyes that are telling me "I'm going to suck you off" look.
3. The large vein on the underside  
4. A mixture is great, I really like to see her head bobbing without hands, and then at times some hand assist
5. Oh hell no! This little guy has a mind of his own, and he runs my life
6. No, it only hurts if she gets me close a bunch of times and denies me, I'd like to have a pre dinner preview blow job, especially if she teases me subtly during dinner

Essay 1. Wow, it feels great. Warm, wet she can manipulate her tongue and lips to vary the pressure on different areas. Also it's easier for her to vary speed and spit on it and be nasty with it. Also, an added benefit is if she can truly deep throat, not deep mouth, but if she can take it into her throat (I am very average size by the way), there is absolutely no better feeling than that.

Essay 2. I don't remember, it's been since 6 months prior to my divorce that I've really felt a vagina, and that long since I've had a vaginal orgasm. I have a mental block when it comes to condoms, I can maintain an erection for only about 2-3 minutes after a condom is put on. I do not and will not have unprotected sex. I'd like to try the female condom, I really do miss the vaginal orgasm.

In closing I'll say this, there is nothing better than an amazing blow job from a woman who knows she's really good at sucking cock.

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You're one bad-ass teacher.

OK:  Here it goes:

1.  I wouldn't call it a rush, the way an orgasm is a rush.  It's more like an increasing feeling of euphoria.

2.  I can experience multiple orgasms after about 10 minutes of good foreplay, and so I enjoy up to an hour of this kind of play where my arousal state goes from about a 6 (almost at full erection) to an 8 (one step before the point of no return) and back again over a period of ten minutes or so.  My favorite position to be in during this is while massaging her back and my cock sliding along her ass (Italian), but there are other modes, BJ for one.

3. The glans.  That's the part just under the urethra (where the cum comes out of)

4.  I enjoy the hands, especially if she is skilled in how to use them.  I think hand jobs are a very under valued skill.

5.  No, it tells me what to do, not vice versa.

6.  No, fortunately I have never experienced blue balls, and from time to time I'll take a breather for dinner or a shower or whatever and then get back to business.

Essay #1:  The mouth will never beat the vagina as a sexual organ, although gals who know how to use their tongue and teeth, and if they can take DT come very close.  The big thrill of BJ is the visuals, from her looking up at you to her expression to seeing the jizz flow out of the corners of her mouth.  Feeling the throat contract to swallow afterwards is also a major rush.  Extra points if I can grab your skull and move your head around a bit, though I know that's a no-no with some gals and I can dig that.

Essay #2:  The first couple of seconds as the penis enters the vagina is the best.  To that end, I like when the vagina is not yet that moist as the friction upon entering is a thrill.  Beyond that, it's just a big rush to know that my cock is in her and the squishing sounds are the most beautiful music to my ears.  Having the gal dig her nails into my back is usually enough to get me to explode.

When do our grades get posted?  Are you going to score on a curve?

By the way, here's someone that you might want to meet:

1 - no. I get a lot of erections and a lot of action.  If I did not I suspect that it would be a rush.  Usually I am focused on the lady of the moment and not on my own anatomy though

2 -  that just does not fit me.... constant variation is more likely to get me off than "doing the same general movement" and often I orgasm right when a change hits me right

3 -  the head and about an inch of shaft behind.  A lot of pressure on the lower shaft actually decreases my sensitivity and works against orgasm.

4 -  DT does nothing for me other than the visual and turn on of it.  I like hand coordinated with mouth - a light touch with the hand (wet) and a moderate amount of tongue and slurping and sucking with the mouth focused on the head and an inch or two behind.    

NOTE:  and please do not play with my ass -   it's not that I mind a good rimming or ass play in foreplay but it is a distraction when you're trying to get me off

5 -  absolutely not.... hell I stay hard after I've cum usually and often just move right into round 2...   it takes 2 rounds to deflate me usually  

6 -  no - as far as I can tell "blue balls" is a myth, but see my answer in number 1 - it could be a matter of frequency....     if I'm aroused and get erect, and *if the source of my arousal is taken away*  then I will deflate gradually....    

E1 -   I like to feel light pressure from the hand, wet,  mixing some up and down and rotation and light squeezing and release while from the mouth it's suction slurping and swirling / probing tongue...   I feel like I am being teased a bit, getting harder and harder,  until I feel very deeply the beginnings of my orgasm - if its a great blowjob I feel the orgasm build slowly from deep in my body and slowly up through my cock and feel strong pumping when I O

E2 -  when covered I don't feel as much as I would like through vaginal intercourse.  It's muted, distant....    if the fit is really good - ie she's a bit snug but opens up a bit there is good friction.  I love it when she 0s and clamps down on me - if I'm going to cum it is usually at this point.....

last thought - it would be simpler if she would only listen when I say - *yes - just like that* or some such -  it seems that too many providers want to give blowjobs like they see in porn - all of that drama just does not do it for me....

1. Do you get a rush when you get an erection? The erection is a reaction to the rush of seeing a woman in a certain way or feeling her touch.  

2. How long do you like a girl to play and tease before she starts repetitively doing the same general movement for you  
to cum? When you are cumming, way before you cum? Doesn't matter?  I don't like repetitive movements until the very end, when I can feel myself starting to cum. Prior to that, I like a variety of movement, from licking, to DT, to use of hands, light touch, heavier touch.  

3. What is the most sensitive part of your cock? The head and upper part of the shaft. With age, the nerves in the penis become less sensitive, so I actually find that the nerves of the skin itself can feel really good. A very light touch with lips and hands--almost like tickling--can get me to cum.

4. Do you like hands free or a wet hand assisting the mouth? I like both. Mix it up.

5. Can you tell 'him' to go down, then back up on demand?  I can control him somewhat. I have more control getting him down than up.

6. Does it hurt if you have to wait to come back after dinner to finish? No.
 
Essay 1: explain from tip to balls what it feels like during a good blowjob  BJ's have always been about the visual to me. Vaginal intercourse feels much better, but the sight of a good looking woman sucking away is pure heaven. A woman who can use her touch, lips and fingers to concentrate on just one area is golden. I don't know what the psychology of a blowjob is, but it's strong. I've read shrinks say it's about attention, and there may be something to that. A BJ by a skilled provider is great, but can't beat a good BJ from a woman I love. Then it feels like she's worshiping my cock, and getting herself off by getting me off. For example, my ex would rub my cock on her face and look like she loved the feel of it. That was a huge turn-on. A provider doing that would seem phony. It's completely different from provider BJ's.  

Essay 2: explain from tip to balls what it feels like during vaginal intercourse  I don't feel much of anything in my balls during vaginal, except when they're banging against her body. With a condom, I don't feel much of anything anywhere. Without a condom (and it's now been a long time), I feel the sensation over the entire length of the cock. Imagine your clit being massaged completely by a very soft and wet tissue, with a bit of pressure over all of it.  It took me a long time to learn how to keep from cumming quickly, and to prolong the vaginal sex until my partner came.

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69 position, I suck the middle toe on your right foot  you emulate the same motions/movements on my cock.

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Two-tone dick? Oh wait... some of us weren't mutilated at birth

1. Do you get a rush when you get an erection?  
A. Nope, just a feeling of warmth & tightening of the balls

2. How long do you like a girl to play and tease before she starts repetitively doing the same general movement for you to cum? When you are cumming, way before you cum? Doesn't matter?
A. Yes, it does matter (on her skills). If she is really good at sensing when I am about to lose it, I can go "for long time" (to quote from Full Metal Jacket). But when I am ready to cum, then it's go with that one motion to the finish. It's great if she can bring me up almost to the point and then switch activity (like nuzzle somewhere else) while I "come down" and then repeat.

3. What is the most sensitive part of your cock?
A. The tip if you are BJ'ng me or if I am inside you. Just below the tip if it is a HJ (squeeze)

4. Do you like hands free or a wet hand assisting the mouth?
A. Finger up my ass please

5. Can you tell 'him' to go down, then back up on demand?
A. No, he has a mind of his own and deflation takes time.

6. Does it hurt if you have to wait to come back after dinner to finish?  
A. No, it does not hurt. If anything else, he rises to the occasion even better.

Start to finish it feels like I progressively focus inward and on that one organ, shutting down everything else, including the outside world. Makes sense?

Are you jealous I give better answers than you?

I'll let you participate in the BJ contest by yourself, or w/your GFs

1. The feeling of getting a boner due to looking, touching, or smelling a woman is empowering, more so than just daydreaming and hey, a boner appears.  If she's touching me when it happens then the emotion overpowers the feeling (getting girly here) and it's like a shock that she's making me hard on purpose!  Dirty girl!  Don't stop!
2. More time teasing and fondling is better.  Tantalizing and teasing at the beginning leads to a longer, more powerful ending.  Really, really, really crave variety until the last 30 seconds before ejaculation - then suck hard and run your tongue across the bottom of the head per the next question, with a deep throat.
3. Most sensitive part is the frenulum.  Close second is the corona.
4. Love the feel of hands; like the visual of hands free.  
5. Can NOT order the penis around, I'm just a walking support system for the little devil.  
6. Been decades since a bout of blue balls; can take a break and, if he'll cooperate and deflate for a while, go out for dinner before we go back and finish him off.  Play with him during dinner and we'll be there for a while!
 
 
Essay 1: A great blowjob is what I call deliberate, meaning there's no rushing to "suck here + lick there = shoot load quick".  Instead, a great cockmistress takes her time to explore every square inch of skin of the shaft and sac, and even the insides of the thighs.  Will take several seconds to traverse the shaft with lips, tongue, hands, light teeth, and even blow on it for a slight fire & ice feeling.  Will press the shaft against her cheek with a hand, and purr about wanting to suck it.  No rush, there's plenty of time to indulge herself in her (actually my) fantasy of getting to suck me.  Breasts laying against or on each side of a thigh, raising herself up so the nipple traces across my leg.  Doing this forces my attention away from every other aspect of existence, my sole purpose for living at that moment is to give her every bit of cum my body can muster - even if I stop breathing and my heart explodes or I pass out.  The world outside the confines of her room ceases to exist!  At least, that's what it feels like to me.

Essay 2: Under the condom it's never going to be as intense physically.  However, a pussy is warm, tight, and contractions are controllable until she orgasms, and that'll push me over the edge.  The visual of seeing each stroke, the feeling of her pushing back, the sound of skin on skin, our mouths free to explore each other - now THAT'S the connection that a blowjob can't match.

Bonus points: after I cum if you swallow it down with an audible "ahhhh" and then keep licking and sucking until I try to escape contact!

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But sorry no tips, If a beautiful woman blows me she can do no wrong in my opinion except biting me lol

Glad to see you ask.  Maybe more providers can use this thread as a learning tool about... Tools.

1. Getting an erection feels good, real good. Sometimes just getting one can make me smile.  Getting one from a hot gal putting her mouth on my penis makes me smile even wider.  A rush?  Kinda.  The endorphins flow and a generally good feeling and anticipation floods over me.
2.  During a BJ, the petting, licking around the glans with a little attention to the boys at the beginning is nice. Not a fan of ass play, but won't object to a little outside touching.  I want the entire BJ to be a study in change.  Start with one motion, or area then move to another.  Maybe lick like a lollipop for a few minutes, then swallow the whole thing for a few minutes in and out, then just play around the head with your tongue and lips, switch back to corn on the cobbing my underside (glans) using your lips to nibble and lick back and forth for a few minutes.  Go down and do the old in and out sucking with head bob until I am getting worked up, then change back to licking the glans again.  Use your teeth and tongue to gently rough up my head, not hard, just around the corona of the head.  Rub it dry and intense with just enough spit to keep sliding then  Get it intense till I'm climbing the walls, then change it up to soft, wet and looser.  Spit and DT if you can.  Do all this till you can't do any more because you are getting tired, then just go to town with a repetitive stroke using your tongue on the glans on every out stroke.  If done right, you can bring me to the edge then change motion and bring me back up and down to the edge to the point where I will beg you to never stop.  It is tantric, it is awesome and it is the closest a guy will ever come to sexual Nirvana and multiple O'S in life.  When I finally cum it will be  explosive and fulfilling and spend me completely.  The precum will flow for a long time before I actually cum almost from the beginning if done right.  The actual cum will begin as a feeling before cum comes out and isn't done until I beg you to stop.  Please continue till then because cumming can be an ongoing thing for a minute or two after explosion.
3. The glans and the head, specifically the corona.
4.  Generally hands free except maybe for a guiding hand at the base for the gal to move it around as she uses her warm soft mouth.  A hand job is an entirely different thing for me than an awesome BJ.  Hand jobs I generally can give myself better than any girl I have ever met, so, I mostly won't pay for one.
5.  Depends on the circumstance.  Going up is easier when we're both naked and I'm being touched.  Though it's been known to happen in other circumstances.  Depends on the mood, how tired I am, dehydrated, etc.  Going down, generally ignoring him and talking without thinking of sexual thoughts (ie we are both clothed or are having an earnest conversation)  will let me ignore him and he "goes away" coming back up is easy if he gets stimulation both visual and touching.
6.  Last time I got what I guess you'd call blue balls, was when an ex gf and I were making out on my couch and she jumped on top of me fully clothed and was grinding away as we DFK'd.  I was wearing jeans (hence the blue) and my boner was up and to the left.  The pants were tight and her weight was on my balls and cock as she slid.  We hadn't slept together yet at that point and while she felt how hard she was making me, we were due to meet friends and go out to dinner.  I had a long jacket that fell down past my waist Thank God when the bell rang and the other couple came to meet us.  I walked all the way to the restaurant with a boner and an ache in my balls that only let up when I excused myself to the bathroom to jerk off.  Came back to the table with a grin, took off the jacket and had a great time.  That night I brought her home and fucked her silly!!!

E1 see #2 above.  Feels like gentle warm wet pleasure followed by intense pleasure, almost pain, then a change up back to warm wet movement on all the sensitive parts along head, shaft then back again.  Rinse repeat, change up, etc. till final pumping then bliss...

E2 completely different animal.  Feels like mouth without the teeth, tongue but tighter.  Spasming from the girl's O'S or simulated O'S is a head rush.  Feels like soft silk with infinity going in and out sliding soft and wet with a rhythmic pounding that makes me explode more quickly than a BJ especially in doggie for some reason.  The mental pictures taken during vaginal sex are almost better than the feeling.  Lost.  The feeling is awesome, but I prefer the type of BJ described above to actual sex.  Will ALWAYs prefer to do both if time allows.

1. I wouldn't say an erection by itself is a rush, more like the thoughts actions that often accompany an erection cause the rush.  There are times when I have an erection and do not experience a rush at all.

2.  Just before I am about to O and while its happening, I prefer it if the girls uses her hand to stroke the base and use her tongue to massage the underside just beneath the head while its in her mouth.  She can get me there however she likes.

3. The underside just beneath the head.

4. I like mostly hand free, but if I am having a little trouble there it's ok to use a hand to help move things along.

5. On demand? No.  To get it to go down rather quickly, I have to either ejaculate or think about gross and disgusting things.  To get it to go up it usually takes some kind of visual or mental stimulus.  Btw, it can be very annoying if I can't get it to go down when I want it to go down.  I guess the opposite would also be annoying, but  I haven't had that problem yet.

6. No, I personally don't get the whole blue balls thing.  I could be right on the edge and then stop, and I wouldn't get an uncomfortable feeling.  I might be slightly annoyed depending on the situation, but that's another question.

Essay 1
Well since you said a good blowjob, it feels amazing.  Not every girl is good at giving a blowjob though, just like not every guy is good at daty.  Most providers I have experienced were at least above average though.  It is most sensitive just before and during ejaculation though, which is why I like her to massage the underside with her tongue during that time.  That feeling is super intense and almost too intense, but feels really good.  cbj does nothing for me though.

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I have never had a long lasting relationship and wouldn't go bb with someone unless I knew them for a while.  So I am only speaking from experience with a condom.  It gives consistent and even pressure all around.  This differs from a bj because the pressure is usually concentrated to where she is placing her tongue.  I like it when it is warm, but that is not always the case.

To me, a bbbj and vaginal intercourse with a condom are about equal in preference.  I

BBBJ is right there, or better than, a covered vajayjay. IMHO

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Courtney,This afternoon I met with a very beautiful provider and this was 3rd time all have been great but today was probably the best. I am not circumsized and still have the most sensitive parts of the penis. ie. the foreskin and the frenulum. Google Images for "the most sensitive part of a penis"  and pay attention to the frenulum it's on the ventral side of the penis and just behind the head (glans).  I can't speak for the circumsized  but I KNOW WHAT WORKS FOR ME 8o). As I'm about to O. I request that she suck HARD with her lips circling  that part. Deep throat is a waste of time for me but leading up the big O I like a moderate amount of slurping, eye contact and other things mention by previous commenters. I could cum with a vibrator centered on the frenulum and no other stimulation.

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I do appreciate experimentation during the first couple of minutes. Every girl is different in her approach to this wonderful art, and it seems as though there's always some new facet for me to discover.  

But once I say, "Yeah, keep doing that," it means what it means. Do NOT change anything! In my case it will be a back and forth rhythm of about one cycle per second (faster is not good although some girls seem to think it is). Her tongue should be stroking my glans on each cycle.  

And this may sound weird: I like her index fingertips very gently touching my little male nipples as orgasm approaches and arrives. It's a bit of a gymnastic feat, but a couple of girls I knew did master it

It's more that getting a rush of sexual excitement triggers the erection for me.  It's just a part of the mental component. At the start of the session I think a few minutes of play are nice but even longer could be nicer, I've not explored an upper limit.

After the first delivery as it were, I think I would love it for the package to be teased and handled for as long as it took to grow again.  Even just light stroking there while we were laying there talking would be fantastic.  I'll have to ask for that next time now that you have me thinking about it. Tip, or the balls.  
I like just the mouth with a hand around the balls, or right at the base pressing down lightly to keep the top sensitive.  
Pretty much, you can adjust your thought to lose the erection or to get one pretty quickly.  
At least for me, blue balls are really more of a multi-day thing where if I've not masturbated for days it can start to hurt.  A few hours is not going to change things either way.
     
I like a really wet blowjob where it feels like I'm almost in water, with lips sliding up and down the shaft and some contact with the top.  To get really into it there has to be some eye contact.  
I mostly feel the tip rubbing along the inside, the balls and shaft don't enter into it except for the visuals of seeing the lips move as I slide in and out.    
I try to be helpful and say if something feels good, but often I figure it's a professional so I'll let her take the lead to use her expertise

would always welcum any suggestions you sexy men may have.

The head is there for the woman's enjoyment during intercourse, but only for decoration for men during a blow job. It's nice to be teased on the head with the tongue for the visual, but it is not much stimulus physically. Work that tongue up and down the shaft and then apply lots of pressure on the shaft. If your mouth is not big enough to get over the head and put pressure with your mouth, go ahead and include your hands and milk that baby like your life depended on that last drop. This ain't dainty like your clit, it is a muscle.

You have an unhealthy obsession.

but I will play along anyway:

1. Do you get a rush when you get an erection?  

None at all.   Related to #5 below, most of us don't control the little guy, he controls us.   He can come alive at the most inappropriate times in the complete absence of conscious sexual thoughts.

 2. How long do you like a girl to play and tease before she starts repetitively doing the same general movement for you to cum? When you are cumming, way before you cum? Doesn't matter?

It does not matter.
 
 3. What is the most sensitive part of your cock?  

The underside of the head (of course, I speak as a mutilated guy).

 4. Do you like hands free or a wet hand assisting the mouth?  

Both but see below.

 5. Can you tell 'him' to go down, then back up on demand?  

As I have aged the roles have reversed.   When I was younger, all it took was a few seconds of sexual thoughts and boom it went.    Getting him down was hard to do, pun intended.   Now, as I have aged, getting him to go up in the presences of a beautiful lady is not a problem, but I cannot simply do it by a passing thought.    Alas, getting him to go down is getting easier and easier with each passing year.

 6. Does it hurt if you have to wait to come back after dinner to finish?  

No.   What used to hurt was the never ending erection when I was younger and was any place where I could provide relief.

As for the essays, oral is completely different from vaginal.   Vaginal provides a constant pressure that cannot be, nor should be, replicated during oral.   Oral allows the provider to titillate in a way that cannot be done via vaginal intercourse.    Sure, even those of us who are mutilated lose sensitivity as we age, but the head is extremely sensitive and light touches of the tongue can create very powerful orgasms.   I can orgasm without coming while receiving oral sex but I have never been able to do that with vaginal intercourse.   So, back to question #4, while a hand is welcome, the emphasis is really on what you are doing with the lips and the tongue without too much cranking of the crank.   Too much hand ruins the special feeling of the BJ.

As a bonus, would someone explain to me why the fuck wives stop giving BJs?    In my closer group of 8 or so married friends, we cannot count one wife amongst us who will do that shit anymore.   What's up with that?   Is it that horrible to give head

1. Do you get a rush when you get an erection?  I wouldn't call it a rush, but do get a hormonal "flush" that focuses my concentration to the affected area.  Not a good time to make critical decisions.
2. How long do you like a girl to play and tease before she starts repetitively doing the same general movement for you to cum? When you are cumming, way before you cum? Doesn't matter?  A minute or so before I'm going to cum, although that's usually guessing.  I only get about 30 seconds of warning that I might be cumming and maybe five seconds of warning that I am DEFINITELY going to cum.  With the 30 second warning, I can back it off (edge) if I want, with the five second warning, it's going to happen now no matter what I do.  As for the lead-up, I'm a big fan of cock adoration and very slow, drawn-out, deep insertions with lots of hand play.  The slowness gives me time to really appreciate the details of what's going on.  Not a huge fan of fast face fucking.  A little tease and denial is fine, but don't deny too long.
3. What is the most sensitive part of your cock?  Before cumming, the rim under the glans, after cumming, the whole glans
4. Do you like hands free or a wet hand assisting the mouth?  Best I ever had was two hands and a mouth.  She coordinated it so my entire cock and balls were constantly stimulated and I couldn't tell what was in her mouth and what was in her hands.  She was VERY skilled.
5. Can you tell 'him' to go down, then back up on demand?  When I was younger, pretty much.  Easy to get it hard, sometimes difficult to calm down enough to go soft.  As I age, getting up is a bit less easy, going down is very easy.
6. Does it hurt if you have to wait to come back after dinner to finish?  Some, but I don't mind if the main event is coming later that evening.  It's like a reminder of what's to come (cum).  Think of it as a tease.
   
 
Essay 1: explain from tip to balls what it feels like during a good blowjob      Great if BBBJ, (sorry)

Essay 2: explain from tip to balls what it feels like during vaginal intercourse   Even better if BBFS, no better than BBBJ if covered.  The rest of me enjoys the fuck a lot, though.  The condom really degrades the cock sensations dramatically for me.  I can't feel the detail or ridges or warmth or wetness anywhere near as well.

NOW BEFORE Y'ALL GET UP IN MY FACE ABOUT IT - I'm not saying you should be BBFS with providers; that's a no-no.  BBFS is for you and your SO and similar relationships where you are fluid-bonded.  (Love that phrase.)  Just sayin' how it is - sexual sensation in general is better without a condom.