In my most recent exploits in the hobby, I have started to become quite jaded. Specifically, the ratings system for looks. The last two providers were rated very high, one with all 10's on looks (9 reviews) and the other with about a 9 on looks after 12 reviews. The first was not a 10, but perhaps an 8 or so. She wasn't ugly but def not a 10. The second was so bad I'd have to rate her a 5 at the highest. It was really bad. Secondly, the first one mentioned above wouldn't let me touch her pussy - no DATY, finger outside or inside - and the sex seemed odd, for lack of a better word. She claimed that she had had an infection and was on antibiotics. If that's the case shouldn't she have told me ahead of time and let me decide if I wanted to proceed? She also kept using an awful lot of lube. Was not a turn on.

Two dates in a row were screwed up in some manner, and I left unhappy.

You have to do some extra research, I don't know your experience level in this hobby, but I will say this. Some reviews are a bit inflated to say the least. Do as much research as possible, meaning find as many angles and pictures of said provider as you can before seeing her, if your simply going by looks. You have to think, whats hot to one man is average to another, sometime I look at several client reviews as well, simply to see what constitutes a 10, 9, 8 etc in the looks department.  

saw 3 providers in a row, very expensive, and very not memorable, one down right ugly imo and no connection whatsoever.

Seeing a client when you have an infection and don't want to be touched or no DATY? That's just sad :

Young women tend to have more problems than we do sometimes.  Most but not all tend to be a little late or not ready.    I just accept it as normal and enjoy the girl when she is ready.    They don't do it on purpose.       I had one with unknown problems cancel and another wreck their car in the 3 hrs. it took me to drive to the apt..    Thank goodness it was an agency so a third girl was sent to meet me.     One well known provider on here was talking just lately about a client scratching her cooter real bad and saying she didn't know how long it would take her to heal.  Client had not trimmed his nails.   You have to give her some sympathy.    If she is sick and not able to do her job she should cancel.      Looks are somewhat up to the eye of the beholder.    Good service to me usually leaves me with a glow and makes me tend to rate the looks better.    I am a sucker for a red head with beautiful blue eyes.    Can't help it they just put me over on my backside.   I score it too because it's beauty to me.    Being older I think I appreciate beauty of young ladies more than some.    I rate them accordingly.

TBH, looks are always in the eye of the beholder.  But with me in my 40's, any provider in their 20's has a built-in "+1" to their attractiveness.  Still, even though I'm new to the hobby, I try to judge a girl's 'hotness' relative to the pics in her ad, rather than my ideal.

The only sentence I saw that really popped to me...

The no touch, no taste, lots of lube provider sounds like a post-op tranny to me. Anyone else think that?

(we've all had them), I've been fortunate enough to have many excellent encounters. Since each encounter is unique and each woman is unique, I try to avoid stereotyping and thus becoming "jaded".

He asked, shouldn't  she have told him ahead of time? That leads me to believe that she told him AFTER. I doubt many guys would proceed with a provider who says she has an infection before the party starts. I can see several providers who wouldn't say anything until after, however. He has a point, reviews are almost worthless and inflated. Hobbyists don't dare say anything negative in a review because the community will come out in force to  vilify and crucify him.  The same guys who tell him to "review" any bad session will switch over to their alias and call him a "liar" and accuse him of all kinds of nonsense. It's a lose, lose situation for most hobbyists, but we get to pay for the experience.

Never thought that was even a possible reason ... Even after you said it.  

..especially after a bad experience or two. Taking a break is probably a good thing as it gives us time to rebuild the bank account and find renewed enjoyment after a short break.Once mongering is in the blood it's hard to let go of completely

That's the main problem I've found. Ratings are normalized according to age it seems. The other is that blonde bunnies get more value than they should and mysterious brunettes don't get enough. I think Asians in particular suffer for that. Also girls that are athletic, like that actually workout and have strong arms and abs, don't get enough increase in looks for it. There's also a ton of fake reviews and I suspect reviews given as quid pro quo

The numerical scores are a good start but usually if she is really attractive and blurs her face the first lines of virtually every review are how attractive she is. If its not mentioned or pointed out often Ill take is as she isnt up to her number. I usually try to include my age in reviews also because in one instance the provider was older than me and to me I lowered her score for that but if I was older I might think she was more attractive. I also think some clients thjnk they might get blackballed if they score to low.

I was going to post a similar thread along the same topic.  Saw a girl recently who's pictures looked thin with some curves and the reviews and everything on TER suggested she was Thin - but she comes into the room at my hotel and she is clearly not thin.  She wasn't a BBW but more average.  Honestly, if it was an incall I would have left - I was looking for a specific experience and I feel I was dupped.  But, there she was in my hotel room.  It ended up OK and we had a good time - but it was not the body type I thought I was seeing.

5' 2" and a size 6 is far from thin. 5'11" and a size 12 can actually be very proportional.

Perhaps these definitions are just what you personally feel they should be?

I will agree with you when you say the "average" woman in this country is a size 14,

Well, except for myself, that is lol.  Women are allowed to call themselves fat, but no one else is.

but yes I did call out millions of women in general for being fat.

Seems we are talking about two different things, before/during and after. I'm still thinking after because, like you, I would have noped if out of there quick.

Size 14is average? Holy shit! You are correct. The last time I posted a comment about woman's sizes I got hate mail for a month. I learned that women are very sensitive about weight and body image ... just like guys are about dick size. Hmmm you could say that a woman's size 0 is disliked among women just like a guy with a farm animal-sized dick is disliked among me. Sounds like a PhD research topic to me ...
 

Posted By: DebbieNoonerGirl

Well, except for myself, that is lol.  Women are allowed to call themselves fat, but no one else is.  
   
 Statistically speaking, data shows that the average woman is a size 14 but I don't know what that "average" woman's BMI would be.  I'm guessing it would be in the overweight range, though.    
   
 Several years ago, when I was working in a strip club, some young guy told me that I looked good but still had some "baby fat".    
   
 My reply?  No,  at my age it's just fat-fat.  LOL.    
   
   
   
   
   
 

Sorry to disappoint you, but I'm going to have to go PC on this one and say that I prefer to use the term "overweight" rather than "fat".  

After a while you have to stick with just a handful of providers that you know you click with and fit your taste.  When you get too greedy you always get one of those situations where you meet a woman who you think is going to be a superstar and she turns out to be an average woman with a hyped up website and exaggerated reviews.

I totally agree, I think you have every right to politely say its clearly not a "good time" in every sense of the word and leave, taking your donation.  maybe a polite "here's xx for the time" but even then, the provider is sick and infected, that is creepy and risky.

Just a few comments regarding my original post.  

I would be the "nice" one. lol

did you read the details in her reviews to see about her performance related to what is listed in her profile? Did you PM any of the reviewers with questions?

Yes to all of your questions. However, wrt the asking other reviewers I have had almost 0 luck getting a response back.

fat people use more soap

Your problem is that she is in her mid 30s. Again, people way overrate older providers. This provider is no doubt being visited by a ton of dudes that are senior citizens and who are too old for younger providers. Those guys rate a 10 because they are comparing her to old wrinkled women that are his normal social milieu.

drive the personal hygiene market ?

Anybody can have a bad day...

The others drive the market for room deodorizers.