I was wondering how other hobbyists handle leaving an incall and walking back to the car or cab or train?  

First of all, I do CAR SERVICE & I usually get  a room or let the customer get a room.

If you have the mindset that you belong, that you are an invited guest and that you don't care one whit what others think of you - you can walk anywhere with no more than a nod, smile and occasionally perhaps, a wink.

I came very close to walking out after a session with my shirt inside out. Thankfully my lady friend notice before I walked out the door!

No need to avoid eye contact.   Make up for yourself some profession, where you would visit residences ( architect, contractor, attorney, family estate attorney, insurance broker and etc.  

Especially in a residential neighborhood. I'd avoid those. Problem solved.
As for the "Walk of Shame," that's what we used to call a tour around the lobby of the old Hotel Del Rey in San Jose, Costa Rica. It was basically a huge bordello, all legal and out in the open. Fucking HOT!

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ugh, da fuck. You don't shower and get cleaned up after a session?

They are not detectives, just hotel employees for one. And whom are they going tell if they suspected you had sex? Last time I checked, sex is legal.

Let them be jealous.

"Our Lips are Sealed":

First, a little tidying up and grooming is never a bad idea before you depart. Wipe off her lipstick, straighten your shirt, and make sure your fly is zippered.  

What if you pissed off the neighbors so much with your wise-ass remark that they called the cops on the girl you just saw?
Maybe she'll call you to post bail.

I understand where you're coming from BUT a lot of that could be "projection".  The vast majority of my appts are incalls, so I'm frequently walking in some place and walking out.  Of course, people see me walking here and there.  The thing is, they really don't know where I'm going or what I'm actually doing.  Sure, someone could see me walk into a private residence and then walk out a hour or few later.  So what?  They don't know if I was fucking, talking, or taking a nap.  lol

That's the attitude you have to project.  Mostly, people are so consumed with their own shit, they're not thinking about what you're up to.  It's only a walk of shame, if you seem ashamed.  And, if the staff suspects, who gives a shit, like was said before, its not illegal to have sex in a hotel room.

You are correct, if you act as if you BELONG there, whether it's a hotel, apartment complex or a SFR neighborhood, no one will remember you.  I was going to an apartment one time, and an old lady with a 25 pound bag of dog food got into the elevator with me, so when we got to her floor, I offered to carry it for her to her apartment.  She thanked me profusely and I went on to my appointment afterward.  Any other resident that saw me do that will also think I live there.  This protects me a little in the future going back to that same incall.  

Put your phone on silent and put it up to your ear like you are on the phone if you are uncomfortable walking in or out of any location.

Well, that's exactly the thing.  I don't want to be the one to blow anyone's cover.

As long as you in a classy joint they wouldn’t dare say anything to anyone.  

CDL gave me a great idea!

For all they know you could be having an affair and not PFP.  

See some of my posts about being unobtrusive and anonymous. Although I usually go with plumber rather than meter reader.
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http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/secrets-to-avoid-le-824704?frmSearch=1#824704
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/a-busy-big-suits-my-strategies-810739?frmSearch=1#810739
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/different-kinds-of-doormen-805077?frmSearch=1#805077
and others.
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I can see you walking over to random guys and giving them fist bumps.  lol

a fake pair of glasses and an empty brief case in the trunk of his car, so he looks like a salesman walking up to the door of an incall.   People smile and nod, but they don't say anything because they don't want to hear a sales pitch for insurance or anything else.

...but not worrying about being viewed as a "John" is definitely one of them!

So you're saying those that have big concerns here should consider a switch to drag clothes for their exit? LOL

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That's not a bad idea, lol

I'm barely passable as a male. In drag, I'd probably look like I just staggered out of an auto accident. Next thing you know someone's calling an ambulance for "that poor disfigured woman". 😆

What is the big deal? You go in like you belong there, you come back out the same way. Be the “grey man”, that nobody notices. It’s not hard, people are generally pretty into their own stuff, they barely register you at all.
No matter where I am, I always dress to blend in. People worry about being”made” needlessly. It’s like walking into some place you are not supposed to be, or carrying concealed. Nobody notices  anything like you think they do. Do what everyone else is doing and seem like you ignore everything else. Not worrying that people are gonna pay attention to you is great. I have gone some places, where I would have been most unwelcome, without a problem.

Has a lesbian ever been convicted of soliciting?

and, at least in Louisiana, being convicted of same-sex solicitation carried some terrible consequences.

exactly what I do and take the stairs out, If I don't, I walk out like a guest.

Exactly. I've been to plenty of hotels and just blend in. Look like you belong and you won't be noticed.  

At first, I thought that Jane Wyman's character in the movie was Johnny Belinda McDonald. ("A girl named Johnny? Maybe it's a Canadian thing or a nickname ...") Actually, she names her baby boy Johnny Belinda.

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Re: There aren't a ton of advantages being a female monger...
...but not worrying about being viewed as a "John" is definitely one of them!

leave it to you to find some weird obscure reference! I love it 😂

Michael Burnham.

Miss Michael Learned !
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michael_Learned

Apparently acting normal is difficult for some clients.

If its in a hotel then it is expected. Most hotels make the bulk of their money from SW'ers. The hotels that are problems are the ones where you have to be announced before they let you go up.

When I did In-call....I use to allow the client to shower before they left. So that it minimized any attention on either one of us.

I always make sure every clients looks like they were NOT fucked.  That goes for keys, wallets, phone, bags etc.  

Sex workers are the major source of income for most hotels? Really?
Hilton and Holiday Inn ought to be giving discounts on room rates.

The briefcase might spook the provider. I saw a lady that told me a client showed up with a bag. Turns out he had a hammer and zip ties. He attacked her and she jumped off the second story balcony to escape. After she left I looked it up on Google and her story was true.

So, given Las Vegas has a lot of Casinos and those casinos employ facial recognition software, my first thought to your problem was to use makeup designed to fool facial recognition software. That should resolve any issues in the most subtle way possible.

if you act like you've been there before, and you probably have, you'll be ok.