Once again the "date" that I personally dread the most....."The why am I here" date  

i had guys ask me "does your family knows you do this?" "do you neighbors know you do this?"  

You don't provide therapy?

But Roxanne!!

Personally the ones I hate the most are the, "You should be paying me for this.",guys. Those words will turn my smile upside pretty quick.

A psychiatrist I knew quit his job to become a plumber since he was tired of dealing with peoples shit. I think the mental therapy part of providing is much more demanding than the sex part since it can be so emotionally taxing.  

Put on your dominatrix outfit and go to town.

My website clearly says NOT to ask me questions about my family or my SO.
Just as a meeting is supposed to be a fantasy for them.. sometimes WE need to keep it somewhat of a fantasty too... I'm not thinking about home when I'm on a date.

NOT ALL SIGNIFICANT OTHERS KNOW!!  

I always asks back does your kid or wife knows where you are?

I have never had a date like that...at least, not that I can remember.

I have that answer! It's like what do you say to a man like that?

We mongers call those guy "Capt. Save a Ho" LOL They are trying to put their own psychological baggage on the provider. I hope you put him on your Do Not See List (DNS). Because they do come back sometimes. Guys like that fuck it up for the rest of us.  

Oh Capt. Save a Ho, I had no idea you would leave your wife and kids for me. When can I meet your mom?

The problem was that he was trying to make me feel bad. If this is about YOU then make it about you. YOU asking me why I do this or bring in my SO (who is an innocent party in all of this) in the session is ridiculous. I will share with you what I feel fit and gradually I let loose. I have no problem answering any question, any question at all that a date might have. It's not what you say it's how you say it. PPL come to me because i listen because i spend time talking to them. There's a difference between "Roxanne, why are you doing this" and "Roxanne, why are you a whore, how many dicks do you suck, oh by the way does your SO like that you are doing this?"  

That's crazy. I took psychology too in college but never did anything with it. Was more interested in Animals and children. So basically I'm easy to talk to is what you are saying  

There's always that one special person that wants to rain on the parade. I attract them all except the millionaires

You guys were having sex while she said that to you.....hmmm maybe it turned her on. Jealous ex-wife now that's a role play i haven't tried. HMMMMM

Yup, she was on top and doing a great job too until she said that. I don't mind role play, but tell me first. I'm down for almost anything, but I have to know about it first. I should have said, "what day is it again?"

But, some clients view the p4p experience as something negative...some don't.  

Tim can't come out and directly ask you if you have a pimp, or ask you if tour SO is your pimp... and trust me if a guy doesn't get a satisfactory answer to his round-about questioning, he won't come calling again.

Who fucking cares.  
Its just conversation.

Re: You don't provide therapy?

There is actually a clinical term I believe (I'm not a shrink) it's called the Madonna-Whore Complex (not the singer Madonna because that would be redundant, but the religious Madonna) Google away kiddies.  
 

Promises ... Promises 😛😛😜

She was away being saved and petting unicorns on a remote island. Ssshhhhh don't tell!

I was away for longer than that

LOL he said it afterwards and wouldn't let me touch him after

So condescending!!  

I've had multiple experience where reputable providers have asked me (the client) similar questions.  "You're a good looking, funny guy, why do you do this?" "I'm sure you have no problems meeting women"

and considering I was staying at the Del Rey seeing three, four, five chicas a day, I suppose it was a fair question. I did learn to think like a hooker and not leave dirty towels, empty condom wrappers and the like just lying around. The maids always gave me at least 8-10 clean towels each day as it seemed like every chica would dirty at least two towels a session, but I always did feel better knowing that each chica would shower both before and after a session, especially knowing that she would go right back to work looking for another date five minutes after leaving my room, and that is was likely she was fucking some other guy twenty minutes before me meeting her.

and Roxy almost dropped out of the top ten, I hope she gets her groove back. I kind of like having her and Octavia spicing up the boards. You, me and Drew can't do all the heavy lifting here, now can we?

those are usually either guys under 40 , which is why i only see men over 40 and prefer men over 50 actually  

Thanks. I didn't notice. What do I win?

I wouldn't care, but if it's accusatory during sex, it's makes me feel weird.

My boyfriend can go all night long.

That I can do ...

I think a $1000 an hour escort is NOT charging too much.

Why are so many hookers so insecure about why they do this?  Don't get me wrong. I don't lead with 20 questions on a first visit. The truth is, I am fascinated by hookers, and yes after multiple visits I will ask questions. If they shut me down I let it go. I have found that many are more than happy to share things about their life with someone who is genuinely interested. I have no problem if they ask questions about me either. I actually like it. There is nothing wrong with wanting to know something about whom you are making the "beast with two backs" with. I get that some johns are way overbearing and that makes things unpleasant but some of us are just interested in you as a person with out falling in love with you.

That would be a good topic for another time.  However when you watch Blue notice how Julia Stiles is extremely guarded and on high alert when ever she has conversations with men.   Just wondering how is a provider's personality like in her real life when interact with those who might not be of the demimonde but know that she is an adult companionship provider.  Does she tend to be sensitive around others and is always of the assumption that other might know.

he is the spam of the board lol

Give me the opportunity and I'm going to say the wrong thing, or something that will be misinterpreted as the wrong thing.  I rather just have sex and skip all the small talk, lets face it if the lady and I were friends we'd just be talking and not having sex.

Gambler I guess the working sex professional knows that your a ubiquitous and frequent customer.  I wonder if the girls compare notes about you when they get a minute.  I am thinking that you are fairly high on their rankings when it comes to patronage.  Just got to ask since you do frequent the women, does the agency down there ever give you mailers for when you come down with savings incentives?  Also when a fairly new girl starts to they send them to you to determine how well they will do in this business?

My wife has a psychology degree.... Think it's part of the reason I'm here... haha

Can't we forget him for a moment?

When you have a wife who analyzes everything (or at least you feel she does) and you just want to have some fun!!

It has nothing to do with age it has to do with confidence. I'm sorry you had bad interactions with people closer to you in age. Not all guys under 40 are bad. I can tell you are missing out on meeting some amazing people. I have heard from two providers who we don't manipulate each other where they have told me that they should be paying me as I do more for them confidence wise than anyone they see. I take it with a grain of salt. Over time true feelings come out. I'm not talking about love or getting this line on the 2nd or third date but when I hear it I tend to believe it

I was describing how things are when visiting Costa Rica and all the women there are independents. You simply go to a bar where they congregate and strike a deal with whichever chica strikes your fancy, it's all done out in the open (the negotiations that is) and completely legal down there. No reason for subterfuge, code words or pimps. Actually pimping is illegal.

You nailed it. I tell them the girls at Webster Hall are not as sexually promiscuous they usually laugh.

Papito, there is nothing wrong with you.

You nailed it. Totally agree.

"I should be paying you,""I wish all my clients were like you","You are my favorite!","you're the only client that I cum with," and my favorite," ____ is my real name" ... guess we have seen the same girls LOL.  
You know they teach them to say those in hooker school.

I had a one hour back in the day, who needed a one hour phone interview for a one hour date. I still look back and can't believe I let some dudes jack me around like that. lol. That doesn't have to happen.

I was really horny, and the easiest way to get laid with no commitment is to charge for it.

I could care less if it's true or not. I think the way I think you think a different way. No harm in that. Just because your synical doesn't mean I can't have an open mind.

IMO providers should offer 15 minute dates.  Let's face it, most guys are done in 15 minutes and we don't  feel like talking afterwards!!  Fuck me and either get out or let me get out....I'm done!!  What do we need to have bullshit conversation about???  I don't care about what is going on with you and you don't care about what is going on with me!!  Let's not make this anymore complicated than it needs to be!!!

"I want to do a seduce and convince me fantasy, and I want to be a victim."

I love unicorns !!!

What Gambler is describing is 100% accurate.  
You could readily sleep with 5 girls a day, they literally come to you seeking your business.  

I will check my phone and make a to do list while you do your thing. You do not even have to open your mouth...and nor will I. Stick it in. pump x 10 and get off and then you can get out. Cha ching!!!