This guy must actually hate women to treat one of them as trash just because of her job. He wasn't simply indiscreet; he did what he did knowingly to humiliate her. He is pond scum.
A few words of explanation for those that don't know. My wife works as a sex worker at a legal Nevada brothel. Another thing you may wis to know is I have been fighting late stage cancer the last few years.
I had a great day. I found out my cancer was in remission officially and I did wonderfully on my college entrance exams and enrolled in college. Both Are a miracle in themselves.
It only had two negatives, while 90% of the news from the docs was great there was a little bad news but expected and most likely temporary. You just don't walk though heavy chemo, radiation, stress, drugs and all the crap that goes along with treating cancer without issues. And the second was an asshole.
Let me tell you this I wanted to kill him. It was between seeing the docs and taking the admissions test. My family and I was getting some lunch in the cafeteria at the hospital my doctors work. I left to get dessert as we were rightfully celebrating when a guy walked up to my wife grabbed her as and asked if she "missed him" as apparently he seen my wife a while back though she said she doesn't remember him. He did this right in front of my son and only 15 feet from me. This asshole Thought it was OK to grope my wife's ass in front of her son just because he paid to fuck her once at a brothel and she was a sex worker!
I made a bit of a scene. I cussed him up one side and down another using language that would make MP blush. I am sorry to say my son heard all of that and so did security. We had a little chat with security and the basically told me just to get them next time. The asshat was still talking to them when we left.
What is with some hobbyists that just don't get the concept of discretion and the relationship end when the time paid for runs out, unless both sides agree otherwise. Even in those cases it i not alright to grope a woman in front of her son unless it is a well established SO kind of deal. This was all in public. We had to think of why the guy was calling my wife by her hooker name, while not giving the asshat my wife's real rame. When security got there that ugly useless peice of shit made sure to explain that he and my wife was intimate at a brothel my wife was a "whore" in front child.
I should not have exploded making thing worse, but he groped my wife. What man could stand there and do nothing? What would you have done?
I had to lie to my son and say the man was crazy and mistaken my wife for someone else. But my son is not stupid, and while he accepted the lie. I know it planted a seed. My son was the one person I wanted to be protected from the open relationship my wife and I have, well at least until he is an adult and can handle it better.
Note to any dumb ass hobbyist out there, if you do not have consent to talk to a lady you seen professionally, don't. You have no idea how much trouble you can cause her. Now the guys that get it and honestly thats most of you, sorry about this rant. The others that just don't get it, just don't be a dumbass and approach a lady without consent. It is that simple.
But even with that today great and wonderful day. I found out my cancer was done and I am smart enough to go get my education!
and even thought I tell guys they can speak to me in public, common sense says if she is with someone STFU.
Very disrespectful to say the least. Sorry your son got dragged into it. I have pmed you in the past and said THANK YOU for being a strong enough man to accept it is a job and nothing more.
And if I saw someone groping on my man/woman... those are fighting actions. So yes I do feel you were right, but just got to do it without the kid around.
Good Luck on the college aspect! Put it behind you and move forward. Pretty sure your wife will handle it and that guy won't like it. lol.
I simply can't imagine the lack of discretion of this bozo. What does he expect with a child present? Calling security is the safe thing to do, but in your shoes I likely would have done similarly. (Probably more coldly, though.)
Maybe twice I walked into a restaurant where a lady from this industry was with someone else. In one case I was alone and simply about faced and found other eats. Another time I was with someone and made an excuse to change plans. I prefer to avoid confrontation when feasible.
But your asshole is incredibly clueless. Clearly Darwin isn't working hard enough.
This guy must actually hate women to treat one of them as trash just because of her job. He wasn't simply indiscreet; he did what he did knowingly to humiliate her. He is pond scum.
As far as assholes.. Well..they would always be there..What can we do about them..
Most guys that I know, and as duly noted by you, exercise lot more discretion than what the asshat showed...
One time, a DC area provider that I had seen 8-10 times asked me if I would recognize her if I saw her on street. My answer was an aloof.. "Depends". Perhaps, she didn't expect a direct, no-nonsense answer.. But I still stand by my stance...
Scoed actually has friends who give a fuck about what happens in his life, and I happen to be one of them. No one gives a fuck about Dungy or if he happens to find himself next to an open window.
The only thing the two have in common is the mangina label, but in Scoed's case it's "Mr Mangina" to you. lol
Not to mention that the OP is completely "on topic" it would not surprise if some douche bag like our very own SDIQ or Udon't would be guilty of the same kind of behavior as the asshole that groped Scoed's wife. I think he let the guy off way too fucking easy, I would have punched him in the face just for openers and then see where it led from there.
and now for the important part. Scoed, GREAT news about your health, see you in Vegas.
You should be proud that you had enough restraint not to punch that mother fucker in his stupid face. You said it. Obviously he wanted to humiliate her. What a peice of shit Sorry that happened to you guys.
WTF is wrong with people? I mean seriously! Even the dumbest of the dumb knows that is a low class move, and to have no regard for your CHILD is unacceptable. She needs to DNS this piece of shit on every board around, and tell the brothel his money is no longer needed.
What would I have done? I think you know I would have been hauled out in handcuffs. I rarely allow the man in my life (when I have one lol) to fight my battles for me. It is much easier for a woman to smack the piss out of a man, because only 1 in 10 are going to hit her back. He would have had a size 6 shoe up his ass, and that would have been after I asked the man in my life to take my child outside for a second, so mommy could deal with something.
What he did is in fact classified as sexual assault, and he should have been arrested. If a boss did that to an employee or a coworker to another, they would be arrested, no questions asked. You had 3 witnesses including the word of a child, so I am not sure why security let this slip. You need to speak with the CEO, because anything of this nature will fall on him. I bet he offers some serious perks on your medical bills, because technically, you could sue the hospital. It makes no damn difference what your wife does for a living which is LEGAL in Nevada, anyway. That is sexual assault in front of a MINOR, in a public place!
I am so glad to hear you are doing ok health wise and that you are looking ahead, scoed. Don't ever give up on life or yourself, because the minute you do might just be the same minute your miracle was going to happen.
Glad to hear about your health but I do feel bad for all of you especially your son. That guy should be glad you didn't give him a serious beat down on the spot.
Brother, I would have done the same thing....granted your son saw heard the language, no biggie, 'cause he's heard it before. More Importantly he saw you defend the Honor of his Mom, your Wife. Good Job!!!! The complete disregard for respect in our society is at an all time low. I ahd a great aunt teach us that you begin with giving everyone your utmost repect.......Then let them earn your disrespect....it's on their actions, not yours.
I'm glad you had great news x 2 ..... that is good, and your family got the 3rd piece of good news....you're alive and kickin' with "fight" for a long time.....
Your cancer news gives me hope....I just heard my cousin, a few yrs older than my young self has stage 4 cancer ..... in her Liver, we call her Jr ...she shares her mother's name. Jr's one of the sweetest beings on this planet, and she gets the big "C".....Unfair to the Nth degree.
Be Well brother,
LD
Posted By: scoed
A few words of explanation for those that don't know. My wife works as a sex worker at a legal Nevada brothel. Another thing you may wis to know is I have been fighting late stage cancer the last few years.
I had a great day. I found out my cancer was in remission officially and I did wonderfully on my college entrance exams and enrolled in college. Both Are a miracle in themselves.
It only had two negatives, while 90% of the news from the docs was great there was a little bad news but expected and most likely temporary. You just don't walk though heavy chemo, radiation, stress, drugs and all the crap that goes along with treating cancer without issues. And the second was an asshole.
Let me tell you this I wanted to kill him. It was between seeing the docs and taking the admissions test. My family and I was getting some lunch in the cafeteria at the hospital my doctors work. I left to get dessert as we were rightfully celebrating when a guy walked up to my wife grabbed her as and asked if she "missed him" as apparently he seen my wife a while back though she said she doesn't remember him. He did this right in front of my son and only 15 feet from me. This asshole Thought it was OK to grope my wife's ass in front of her son just because he paid to fuck her once at a brothel and she was a sex worker!
I made a bit of a scene. I cussed him up one side and down another using language that would make MP blush. I am sorry to say my son heard all of that and so did security. We had a little chat with security and the basically told me just to get them next time. The asshat was still talking to them when we left.
What is with some hobbyists that just don't get the concept of discretion and the relationship end when the time paid for runs out, unless both sides agree otherwise. Even in those cases it i not alright to grope a woman in front of her son unless it is a well established SO kind of deal. This was all in public. We had to think of why the guy was calling my wife by her hooker name, while not giving the asshat my wife's real rame. When security got there that ugly useless peice of shit made sure to explain that he and my wife was intimate at a brothel my wife was a "whore" in front child.
I should not have exploded making thing worse, but he groped my wife. What man could stand there and do nothing? What would you have done?
I had to lie to my son and say the man was crazy and mistaken my wife for someone else. But my son is not stupid, and while he accepted the lie. I know it planted a seed. My son was the one person I wanted to be protected from the open relationship my wife and I have, well at least until he is an adult and can handle it better.
Note to any dumb ass hobbyist out there, if you do not have consent to talk to a lady you seen professionally, don't. You have no idea how much trouble you can cause her. Now the guys that get it and honestly thats most of you, sorry about this rant. The others that just don't get it, just don't be a dumbass and approach a lady without consent. It is that simple.
But even with that today great and wonderful day. I found out my cancer was done and I am smart enough to go get my education!
in my early 20s I was VERY serious with a girl that was Asian/white mixed. we were at what was meant to be a small gathering but turned into something closer to a small party. I was very comfortable with our relationship, and always allowed her to talk to anyone she wanted. she was talking to a friend and a friend of his. well the friend of hers walked away and the other guy continued to talk to her. ok, that's fine. but he started hitting on her, even when she told him to stop. he insisted she liked it, even when she told him she would never date, kiss, suck, fuck, anything a black guy. he grabbed her ass, at which point I heard her scream STOP IT MOTHER******. so I walked over. he thought he could intimidate me. I told him what was up and how he could avoid a broken neck. he informed me that if we were "in the streets" he would kill me. I informed him I would" kill you right the fuck where you stand". I flashed my gun to him. he said I was bitch made and wouldn't use it and was gonna get killed over a bitch. I dared him to say it again. he started to, but he didn't finish that sentence for some weeks. I punched him, knocked him over the couch, hit him with a lamp, and proceeded to try to beat him to death with my bare hands. when he stopped being able to defend himself, I was pulled off. he had a concussion, a broken nose, 2 black eyes, 2 broken ribs, one tooth sticking out through his lip, and his jaw was wired shut. and HE got charged for sexual harassment, sexual assault, slander and an under age gun charge. don't fuck with my woman. you wont like how it ends.
discretion should still be common sense. The AH had none. I'm sure Security is the right answer... getting charged with assault for decking him is not. There's nobody here who will defend such actions in front of others, let alone family, even less a child.
Dear Scoed: I was just wondering how is it with a lot of your wife's colleagues and other women you know in the business when they encounter former customers in public? Also when you first started dating your wife what where the conversations you had with her if she ever was recognized for being an Adult comfort specialist and how you guys would respond to the variety of responses that you would incur? Also would this situation dictate where you would go and what you do socially so you don't encounter many men from her job so you don't have a scene like that? I am just trying to get some prospective on how you approach these unpredictable but imminent situations.
And I am not sure why I am answering. But here goes.....
Posted By: Duplicitouslust
Dear Scoed: I was just wondering how is it with a lot of your wife's colleagues and other women you know in the business when they encounter former customers in public?
MOst guys are not like the ass hat above. They do it right and don't approach unless they know it is OK other than maybe a nod or a smile of recognition. Partly to not out themselves partly out of respect. Occasionally someone will say hi causally, but things like the asshate above are rare. First time I seen anything like that.
Posted By: Duplicitouslust
Also when you first started dating your wife what where the conversations you had with her if she ever was recognized for being an Adult comfort specialist and how you guys would respond to the variety of responses that you would incur?
We never really discussed it and most guys are cool about it or I never even know they see her. This was the first guy to really be obvious about it, other than one that my wife introduced me to. He really likes her and sees her often. They kind of formed a friendship.
Posted By: Duplicitouslust
Also would this situation dictate where you would go and what you do socially so you don't encounter many men from her job so you don't have a scene like that? I am just trying to get some prospective on how you approach these unpredictable but imminent situations.
No, I refuse to let asshats dictate anything. One bad apple is not reason to hide in the attic
we are pulling for you. I know we all have had our online spats, but I would be pulling for anyone of you that became seriously ill. Even inicky.....lol. (but true)
Posted By: scoed
A few words of explanation for those that don't know. My wife works as a sex worker at a legal Nevada brothel. Another thing you may wis to know is I have been fighting late stage cancer the last few years.
I had a great day. I found out my cancer was in remission officially and I did wonderfully on my college entrance exams and enrolled in college. Both Are a miracle in themselves.
It only had two negatives, while 90% of the news from the docs was great there was a little bad news but expected and most likely temporary. You just don't walk though heavy chemo, radiation, stress, drugs and all the crap that goes along with treating cancer without issues. And the second was an asshole.
Let me tell you this I wanted to kill him. It was between seeing the docs and taking the admissions test. My family and I was getting some lunch in the cafeteria at the hospital my doctors work. I left to get dessert as we were rightfully celebrating when a guy walked up to my wife grabbed her as and asked if she "missed him" as apparently he seen my wife a while back though she said she doesn't remember him. He did this right in front of my son and only 15 feet from me. This asshole Thought it was OK to grope my wife's ass in front of her son just because he paid to fuck her once at a brothel and she was a sex worker!
I made a bit of a scene. I cussed him up one side and down another using language that would make MP blush. I am sorry to say my son heard all of that and so did security. We had a little chat with security and the basically told me just to get them next time. The asshat was still talking to them when we left.
What is with some hobbyists that just don't get the concept of discretion and the relationship end when the time paid for runs out, unless both sides agree otherwise. Even in those cases it i not alright to grope a woman in front of her son unless it is a well established SO kind of deal. This was all in public. We had to think of why the guy was calling my wife by her hooker name, while not giving the asshat my wife's real rame. When security got there that ugly useless peice of shit made sure to explain that he and my wife was intimate at a brothel my wife was a "whore" in front child.
I should not have exploded making thing worse, but he groped my wife. What man could stand there and do nothing? What would you have done?
I had to lie to my son and say the man was crazy and mistaken my wife for someone else. But my son is not stupid, and while he accepted the lie. I know it planted a seed. My son was the one person I wanted to be protected from the open relationship my wife and I have, well at least until he is an adult and can handle it better.
Note to any dumb ass hobbyist out there, if you do not have consent to talk to a lady you seen professionally, don't. You have no idea how much trouble you can cause her. Now the guys that get it and honestly thats most of you, sorry about this rant. The others that just don't get it, just don't be a dumbass and approach a lady without consent. It is that simple.
But even with that today great and wonderful day. I found out my cancer was done and I am smart enough to go get my education!
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