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because she told me about it.  She knew about my hobbying and I think she was trying to make me jealous so that I would stop.

Instead, I felt a bit liberated by it.

When her scheme didn't work, she just went to the divorce lawyers.

I don't suspect my SO is cheating but who knows, she doesn't suspect my hobbying.  I do care about my marriage though and if found out, I will tell her the truth - for me, hobbying is about the sex, not a relationship (hence, the hobby vs. screwing my co-workers or cruising bars after work).  I don't know if she will accept that or not but that's my plan.

When you invest two years into a person, and all the things you went through, all the arguments, working through all of that, getting to know the person, sharing all kinds of intimate memories.....

and then a person betrays all of that?!?!?!



Well, that really shocked the hell out of me.

I mean, I'm not TOTALLY naive, and I know it happens, but like so many things in life, until you experience it for yourself, you don't really truly realize it, and it's impact.

Self-delete. Wrong area. See post below about "periods."

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