I'd much rather see her regularly but shorter dates than less often.  For example, I'd rather see a lady once per month for a two-hour date than see her for an overnighter once every three months.

I've got three scenarios depending on the lady-

I've got one repeat that is incredibly beautiful- the only 10 in appearance I've given out, we enjoy each other thoroughly for the sex, have good conversation, but there is no connection.  I repeat with her every two months for a one hour visit and always am glad I did, but there is never any reason to spend more than an hour.

I've got another repeat that has become a friend- no "in love" but a friend, and I see her every two months for two hours because we love to talk afterwards.

I've got three repeats that there is major connection- not only are we good friends, but the connection is very strong- well within the necessary boundaries.  I would never book less than 4-6 hours with these three.  I could not imagine coming for an hour for sex and leaving, they have become friends and lovers- and the love making takes 4-6 hours.  A meal to reacquaint and start the seduction, then 4 hours of love making, cuddle, intimate talk, love making, cuddle, intimate talk.....   Any shorter would just not feel right.

I no longer do overnights unless the occasional 4-6 hour just evolves to an overnight.  While I love going to sleep and waking up cuddled, I can't see an extra $1000 for the sleeping hours!

Now travel is a different story.........

I've never done 1/2 sessions, except in the "old" days. One hour seems about right

I need an hour minimum...  one fav gives me 1.5 for nearly the donation of one & the time is well spent.  Halves are too short.

Several hours / over nights...  I'd reserve that for a ATF and would really break my budget...  this would not be in my plan normally.
S

I love long dates, especially overnights; however I get pretty lonely if I don't see  someone every week.

So far, I've been able to make the finances work, but if and when the time comes to choose, it will be a tough choice.

I suppose I will opt for the shorter session and see someone more frequently, but then again, I might just have to knock off a drugstore.

We shall see.

“54% of men think about sex everyday or several times a day, 43% a few times per month or a few times per week, and 4% less than once a month”

“19% of women think about sex everyday or several times a day, 67% a few times per month or a few times per week, and 14% less than once a month.”

I think by the very nature of the male/female anatomy and physiology, men crave release more frequently than women. Of course, there are always annecdotal exceptions.

-- Modified on 4/6/2008 11:01:50 AM

The lady

The lady who saves money by using paper towels instead of wasting time and money washing a cloth one!


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I just loved that one.

maddy