I have a sports bag full of my shit I sometimes carry, (yet rarely use except when it contains a gift) Also have a college-student style book bag, a backpack / sack, a brief case, a travel bag, etc.
All have advantages and disadvantages:
Travel bag: The travel bag looks like a tourist, helps blend in. Briefcase: looks like a business man on travel, blends in but only if I'm wearing a friggin suit. Backpack: makes me look like a school boy studying for something. college bag: this one seems a bit more acceptable and casual sports bag: casual, looks like i came from a gym and ready to play basketball any second. feel free to include other types of bags.
but... which one do you find MOST attractive when you see them as you crack the door open at your incall?
I notice when a man carries a STYLISH briefcase/messenger bag. In fact, when I see someone carrying something I like, I ask them about it (where they purchased it, what brand, etc.). It's a great ice breaker!
Men's bags have changed considerably over the years with many crossover types. When looking for one, I suggest you splurge and go with a high-end brand such as Tumi or Prada. You will love the way it makes you feel when you carry it. It makes a statement, says you treat yourself well as all men should.
depending on the occasion or the lady i may need to bring my "hobby" (ack poo, still hate the word) kit and gifts best concealed in a bag. otherwise, no need.
if i am coming directly from work OR i feel the lady has a _need_ to be impressed, you'll see me carry a Tumi.
but if you are an established friend with whom i am extra comfortable, you'll see something less than a Tumi and it won't be Prada
your supply of female condoms, your personal hygeine kit in case you need a touch up, a chilled bottle of champagne, and the pair of Manolo Blahnik shoes you bought for her to model on the occasion. you don't expect her to supply her own Manolo Blahniks for the foot fetish portion of the date, do you?
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