Most of you have probably seen a girl like this. The moment you enter, you can tell she's disinterested. No "long lost lovers" shit. No arousing flirty behavior. You start to wonder how the fuck she got all those high scores. She's a tough nut to crack. Considering you've done nothing wrong, and you're paying for a service, it shouldn't be such a chore.
Do you think it's a reasonable expectation for all providers to be flirty from the moment you enter?
I love it when the provider is flirty in communications before we meet. Nothing explicit, no services mentioned--just words and an attitude that indicates she's fun & playful (with a naughty streak) and is looking forward to seeing me... and my envelope.
I say make the most of every opportunity. Not as a duty, but as part of the fun. Whether provider or client.
I've rarely experienced the kind of situation you mention, in part at least because I take some of the responsibility of having a great time on myself.
It's what I pay them for. They can be free to have all the bad days they like on their dime. If I wanted to put up with that, I'd get a mistress.... or go home to my wife.
That said - I have never had that particular problem with a provider. Or if they have been having a bad day- they have been professional enough to soldier on without me noticing. Now that's the sign of a true professional!
I don't expect her to be Flirty on the first meeting. But she has to be polite and have a good attitude. She doesn't have to be runway model gorgeous. Being polite and having a good attitude goes a long way with me than her looks.
"Is it hot in here?" Probably because I'm nervous. Comic relief stomps flirty any day. Plus, they try to "help" me right off the bat, which makes it like a movie at times.
There have also been times they just stood there and laughed and did nothing. It's all about how they feel when they leave. lol!
Intro's in emails saying "I've seen all the best and the hottest women so amazing blah blah might put her on edge too.
They say if you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you're the asshole.
Not saying you, but if every girl is approaching you (plural you) like this, it does help to take a look in to see what you're doing that could be causing this reaction.
I think there has only been one duo I've done where the girl was disinterested, and I think she was stoned and hated me lol! Other than that, the women are very fresh, vibrant, and excited
ve hobbied long enough to experience everything. Some providers will shove their tongue down your throat the second the door is closed. Other providers greet you with an awkward hug and not much more. And you know what? "Tongue girl" sometimes ends up being a mediocre session at best while "awkward hug" girl ends up sexually satisfying and a definite repeat.
Sure, the ladies that can maintain the illusion from start to finish are the ones we see over and over again. But don't draw conclusions from the first 5 seconds after you enter. Now if she is standoffish past the entrance, the freshening up in the bathroom and the initial get to know you banter, then its prob. going to be a disappointment.
YMMV hobby. Every provider has different types of men that they get wet over. If you're the fat, bald guy in sandals showing a little foot fungus, why should she get all excited. She will do her duty, and that's about it. You don't repeat, and she doesn't care that you don't repeat. Some of the younger providers don't like customers over 50, other's only want guys over 50. I'm not a fat, bald guy, I am older, and I never wear sandals to an incall, but I have gotten my share of non-connection dates with providers. It's all part of the hobby. You take your lumps and move on. If you do your homework before you go, bad dates can be kept to a very low percentage. For me, its less than 5%.
You don't need to crack every nut, only enough to keep you looking for the next hot connection.
Especially when visiting a K-Girl, you are going to be taking them off within the first 30 seconds of stepping through the door anyhow, so what difference does your footwear make?
For the record, I am neither fat, nor bald, nor do I have a foot fungus,. but I wear shorts virtually every day in the summer time and I probably only wear socks about once or twice a week from May until about mid October, I also get as much OTC action or more than anyone else I can think of.
When I go and see any providers I expect flirting and the more the better, that will reflect their report card and whether or not I will see them again.
Knock on wood I had great luck so far, and I try to connect with all women I see and I always flirt back , make cute talk , make them smile etc. Most of the time it works but in some cases some hookers are just tough to crack , and usually sex is shitty and all I wana do is to blow my load and leave, and then write a shitty review that I hate to write.
Any woman that is in the hooking business has to engage in flirting , Period. I think of an escort as a paid performer , the better she can fool you and pretend she loves you the better her score. In my opinion.
It's all about customer service no matter what business you are in. The good providers knows how to make you comfortable as it is good for business. For me I would say the flirting and rapport is slightly more than half and the rest physical.
Flirting is MY fun way of getting things started....not my duty. I enjoy it!!! Try flirting yourself, I bet you would see a difference in your encounters.
Posted By: Bendadick.Cuminsnatch
Most of you have probably seen a girl like this. The moment you enter, you can tell she's disinterested. No "long lost lovers" shit. No arousing flirty behavior. You start to wonder how the fuck she got all those high scores. She's a tough nut to crack. Considering you've done nothing wrong, and you're paying for a service, it shouldn't be such a chore.
Do you think it's a reasonable expectation for all providers to be flirty from the moment you enter?
And I certainly don't think it's all on the provider. I do my part to be flirty, friendly, and put the first-meeting jitters to rest. My personal rule is to treat every woman (provider or civie) the way I'd want a man to treat and romance my daughter. 9 times out of 10, the ladies are extremely responsive. But there's always a cold fish or two out there.
they should be "on" period. This is performance art. I'm not paying just for pussy. If I were I would have stopped for that $25 half and half on the corner.
Duty? Possibly, but at the same time there are so many factors that can dissect the subject. In my opinion. ....uh yah! And if the girl doesn't she is wrong. This industry is about Fantasy, lust, and good old fashioned sex appeal...i believe every moment of contact should display some element of it. After all our clients are earning their pay and in a way us as providers should earn ours too.
I believe all providers should be as fun loving as there emails, text, etc. I think it just makes for a better mood for both the provider and the guy. A good attitude is wonderful from the time that the man walks in till the time he leaves. Just making him feel extra special all the way around.
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