at a provider's incall do you immediately wash your hands or do you wait for her to mention it to you?
Or if a provider comes to visit your hotel and you have to go down and get her due to keycard or security before getting intimate do you wash your hands?Do you even think about this?
Recently arrived at a gent's hotel for an outcall he went down to get me due to security.
We got back to his room I immediately went to bathroom to wash my hands.

After decades of 'hobbying' I have made it a point to wash my hands right after I first walk into the incall or hotel room.  It's just a common courtesy and makes good sense.  I've also usually just showered before arriving and will advise my escort that I have done so.  If she still wants me to shower again (only a few have asked that of me) I will oblige the request.

I was very impressed by an agency escort who as soon as I opened my hotel room door when she knocked to excuse herself to go straight to the sink to wash her hands before touching me or anything else. I took from her cue and did the same thing, and only then did we greet another physically with a hug and a kiss. She was letting me know that right at that moment I could be sure her hands were clean and that she cared about mutual cleanliness, and I was glad to return the gesture.  

No.  Immediately after I enter, I’ll set down my bag if I have one (disguises gifts), take off my coat if I have one, and (for sure in in sloppy weather) take off my shoes. Then there’s usually a welcoming hug and maybe a kiss.  And there may be some small talk.

What a weird response. Do you take a shower or is that being a germaphobe too? smh
If you feel that you don't have to wash your hands before getting intimate that is your choice.
It is also the choice of a provider to not feel comfortable with you touching her.

As a matter of comfort for myself and provider upon arriving go to the bathroom and wash hands. As an old guy am more comfortable for the hour doing the first and the second is only common sense.  
If she wants anything else washed fine by me .

Usually the girl greets me at the door for hugs/kiss and squeeze her ass [fully clothed] before we do anything else.  I plan to take a brief shower even though I may only need one if it has been a long drive to get there.  I have already taken a 20 minute scrub down shower at home, so the shower in the room is not much more than a ball rinsing.

It is amazing that some do not get this. Especially in this day and age with covid and the mention of washing hands over and over again when covid first started and even now.
Even before covid I would think that a client washing his hands would not be a big deal to do
Then some wonder why they do not get the same service as others.

I got into the habit a few years ago pre-covid.  

...is available.  If not, I'm not interested.  I would love to have the lady join me and I could care less if she throws a hair cover on, I just want her to know that I'm fresh and clean everywhere and I'd like to make sure of the same thing for her.  Last thing I want is to be playing around with a pair of titties with the last guy's jizz residue all over them.

Not, so common these days, but fortunately for me all my friends know better because germs are everywhere & Covid. Wash your damn hands man. I know women’s bodies can be sensitive, so always wash your hands before playtime fellas. Sorry lovely lady. Xoxo

Dirty hand throw off a woman's PH level and introducing bacteria will cause infections. Has nothing to do with being a germaphobe.  

He should be washing his hands before intimate time. It's just common sense. I'm very sensitive down there and can get BV if a guy doesn't wash his hands or tries to do dato then daty. I even had one guy not wash his hands after smoking a cigarette and then tried to put his finger in my mouth! I was so grossed out I'm never seeing him again.  

It's lame that he gave you attitude after he finally agreed to wash his hands. It's such a small thing to ask of someone, it's a shame some have to make an issue out of it

Tbh one of the reasons I see providers is the hygiene aspect. Nothing worse than meeting a hot chick in a club taking her home and when you undo her pants realizing it's been a steam room down there all night long. Not hating, it's what happens when girls go clubbing. Definitely not worth the hangover the next day.  

a hug and kiss greeting before asking which way is the shower.  I always tell providers I will want to take a shower upon arrival, so asking where it is not going to surprise them.  In the process of showering, I'm pretty certain my hands end up pretty clean, along with any other parts of me that may be contacting their intimate girl-parts.

with many reviews and a P411 member so he has been around the block and is not new.
But even if he was new to this just plain ole good hygiene it shouldn't even be an issue and in his mid 60s so not too young to understand personal hygiene.

all of what you said and all of it is true. I don't want to be out of commission and cannot see gents who have booked me due to a person who couldn't practice good hygiene.

Yes exactly!

Not that all of what has been said is not accurate and highly relevant but I suspect most of the guys providers have problems with are a bit more self-centered and see these acts as both inconvenient (for them). Some will likely also see them as "taking time away" from the session so feel cheated in some way.

Before any appointment I make sure my hands are clean, calluses buffed down, and nails neatly trimmed as short as possible. After an introductory hug, I'll excuse myself to "freshen up."

At an incall, I leave the donation then go wash my hands. It gives them time to count it if they like and I can wash my hands. In the summer especially. I'll hop in the shower. When it's humid, you can get sticky fast.  

Do you go from back to front over and over?

They had more yeast than the local bakery.  Fortunately, your nose picks it up before your tongue gets there.  No harm, no foul.

That's unfortunate. They shouldn't be seeing gents with an active yeast infection.

edition. I'm betting you do go from back to front.

Is that it's the "piece de resistance."  It's something I resist all the time.  I'm a DFK hound.   I've seen what comes out of my ass, and it's not pretty.  There's no way I'm going to DFK anyone who has tongued my ass.  I can't imagine provider excrement looking much different than mine, so I'm not going to DATO and then expect her to go back to DFK and enjoy it.  I'll leave ass licking to others, like this joker.  It's not my cup of tea.  

Even though I have woke up earlier that day and Fully showered and I always bring a change of clothes (Pajamas). I always shower again right after I get the room. You could just clean your hands, But who knows what will fall off the rest of your body and you'll touch it with your hands.

It is really a shame some do not get it. You and majority of the other responses here they get it.

Since gdaddy licks his own ass as way to clean himself, it's not a big deal for him to kiss another person with the same "ass mouth"  LOL..  

you even have to mention this?  Should be understood, completely, by ALL!  The same gentleman who thinks this is a problem, is probably the same guy who left skid marks on your sheets and considers himself to be a hygiene freak.

The point is that if you want someone to wash their hands, tell them to wash their hands.  Not everyone is going to have the same fear of germs and pouting waiting for them to act is just going to compound your frustration.  Complaining here where 99.9% of your future clients will never see it ... is only going to generate the expected virtue signaling and otherwise accomplish nothing toward your goal.  Somehow passive k-girl types manage to hand you a cup of blue mouthwash and point you to the shower.  I'm sure you can TELL guys to wash their hands.  You don't have to passive-aggressive it.  Just tell them.

I know it is very hard for you to comprehend.
If you could read instead of being an asshole with your comment you would've saw that I did ask him multiple times.
Thanks for letting all of us know you don't practice good hygiene no one needs to ask a grown man or woman to wash their hands multiple times.  
Nothing about my post was passive aggressive but your responses are.
Putting you on ignore not worth reading anymore of your responses.

did PMS sneak up on you?   Lol    

This is not common having to ask a guy many times to wash his hands.
I was making it light at first by asking him to wash his hands so we could continue to have a good time.
It was ignored and he kept pushing for service I do not offer like FIA.
I cannot believe your suggestion  to me is I should keep being humorous and light  to not embarrass him ?
A grown man who does not show how to wash his hands.
Sorry I want to be able to see other clients and not have issues.  
Wow..the poster I was responded was being a jerk for no reason c'mon man seriously now I have pms? Classic response.
Then many wonder why ladies do not participate here.

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I’m amazed at the seemingly Neanderthal approach by men not to accept the wishes of a provider to wash hands! This ain’t no locker room meeting boys but an intimate engagement of sorts if it can be called that but I’ve always assumed that. So what’s the problem with being “clean”?! I’m smoker but never smoked on my to a visit in fact did a whole lot of gargling with Act II before leaving the house.
So clean up and get smart! The event will be so much more satisfying - just say’in. gf60

try to get you to lighten up a little, followed by a legitimate suggestion, and your response is to double-down on Grumpy?   You didn't say in the OP you were "making it light", you just said you asked him nicely.  There is a difference between them, and that is the use of humor, but if your style is to keep your sessions humorless, then it probably would be awkward for you to try to avoid awkwardness using humor.    My suggestion was after the FIRST time, you inject the humor into the SECOND request.  Making the consequences of non-compliance clear in a humorous way is how you get what you want without ending up with the awkwardness.   It's not going to work after the fourth time, so it's going to be awkward no matter what you do.  You have to anticipate the problem after the first time he ignored you and get out in front of it.   Just because you sell sex does not mean that you are at your maximum potential socially.  There's always room to learn new techniques for those trying to increase their market share. Open-mindedness looks good on just about anybody.  Then many ladies wonder why they don't get more business from posting on these boards.

It seems you wanted him to wash his hands before indulging in FIA. I would suggest it's more important to wash his hands AFTER he puts his finger in your butt. Especially if he then plans on putting his fingers in your pussy.
Or, as an old escort pal of mine used to say, "Don't go from stink to pink."
Gawd, I miss her.

Pussy Maintenance 101 and every monger should be aware of it.  

before commenting on them.

My problem was that I didn't WRITE mine carefully enough.

from writing your reply again, this time making it clear you not only read her post carefully, but understood it?

an edited reply goes into moderation, which often takes days. I don't have the patience for that and stopped doing it more than a year ago.

Actually the act of editing a post does not put it in review mode. I just did that yesterday. First post was active immediately. I then realized I should add a bit and edited it. That edited version was active immediately after posting the updated version.

when I edited my post above, the edited post was active immediately.  

It certainly used to go into moderation after an edit. Maybe they've changed that.  But I too quit fixing mistakes because the post would disappear for a day or two.

where it goes into a moderation queue, sometimes for 24 hours or more.  The other boards I post on can be edited and become active immediately, UNLESS it gets selected by the computer for random moderation, just like original posts do.

Quietly  giggling.... and burst out laughing

while sucky posts each suck in their own fashion.

But you go ahead and keep digging that hole, Mr. Oblivious.  I'm sure you know much more about being a provider than Jaydalee does...even though you only see cut-rate K-girls who fuck ten guys a day.

lot more suckups here than there are straight shooters.  I call you out when you are full of shit, which is most of the time, but I'm an equal opportunity guy, and I will call out providers when they post bullshit, too.  Do you really think I care who likes what I say here, least of all, you?  If they don't want to hear the real story, they shouldn't read my posts.  I'm willing to bet I have talked to a lot more providers, seen more providers and have more providers as real=life friends than she does, so yes, I probably do know more about the biz than she does because her knowledge is mostly within the vacuum of her own experience, while mine is a compendium of information from well over 1200 different providers of all nationalities, both as customer and friend.  

I always smoke a cigarette on the drive over, windows down, helps me arrive relaxed. But I'll have mouthwash in the car and gum. Hand washed upon arrival and I've never had anyone say anything. Took a girl for dinner after a session, been regularly seeing her about 6 months, and she was shocked when I lit a ciggie before walking into the restaurant, never knew....although I'm also not into kissing so that probably helps

First and foremost, I've been in love with you for fucking years! I don't have an opinion. You tell me WTF you want me to do.  

Nice! It's been a while  but that's a fucking awesome response! Jaydalee is such a wonderful lady and I'm so fucking glad someone is sticking up for her! She's crazy gorgeous and even more sweet!  

You ladies have all wrong.  When visiting a kgirl.  Hands wash first,  mouth rinse and then shower together prior to any interaction.