Another provider will be clocking in at sixteen years and yet another at ten.
It got me to wondering how many hobbyist and providers have regulars for that long a period of time.
To be sure, there have been others that have come and gone in a year or less; others have been around for a few years and then go for all sorts of reasons.
I think it is fantastic that we continue our little dance for all this time.
Just as an informal poll, how many others have had this experience?
is two years so if I make twenty with her I will be 73 years old. Hey I think that is a realistic goal! By the way I have posted so much today I have to take a break or I might make that top 10 list. I'm sure everyone will agree that is not a good thang! As another aside I have come to realize I am addicted to the smiley icon
Seeing a lady for 20 years as a hobbyist is amazing! Congratulations.
I have been hobbying for 25 and met ladies that I had the potential to make very long term friends with but I think the fact that I have always been single worked against it.
It typically tended to work out that we developed a friendship beyond client/provider in those rare cases and just moved on after a period of time for some reason or another.
I have a current friendship with a lady that is over six years long and we are still the best of friends but not provider/client. We became strong friends within a year or so of meeting.
I admit to falling head over heels for a provider that I saw for 4 years. I cut myself off because of the feelings. I let her know but she had an SO and that wasn't going to change so I moved on even though the mutual connection was strong.
I don't use providers to look for relationships but understand that it can happen no matter how you meet. In the end, people are just people so I enjoy friendships however they were formed.
to brag about - it is something to celebrate... I know parent child relations that don't endure that long. Relations between two people change... it is indeed rare to find two people who maintain their relationship even as BOTH people are changing and their needs are changing....
Mr Fisher is a person - I would love to have a brew with... as we do have differences... but we've more in common - and I admire his ability to maintain a relationship over 2 decades... maybe I am even Jealous... you?
You know what, if I had married just for the sake of being married it would have cost me much more than I have spent on hobbying.
I tend to hobby is streaks going a long time without it and then returning. I just depends on things outside the hobby. I have never had the desire to be married at this point. It is a choice I have made.
I'm sure there are many guys that spent a bunch more by getting married than they woould have spent by staying single. That is what keeps divorce lawyers in business.
Congratulations to the guys that can pull off a long term relationship and still sew your oats on involved in activity on a site like this. I just never met somebody I would want to give half my stuff to if she didn't approve of me doing this. Extra kudos to those that can come here with their SO's knowledge!
I use to dance many many years ago at a few clubs in the Combat Zone ! Do you remember a young lady who danced out of a girlscout uniform or cutoffs and a cut up white teeshirt with spike heels. Long hair down to her ass..
Yes I did graduate from that to a brownstone on Beacon Hill.
I have friends in Orlando for over 15 years and South Florida at least 25 years.
Some friends I don't see anymore in the same way but we still keep in contact with one another. I drive South to drop in for lunch or to visit in the hospital. My PalmBeach gentlemen have all passed away.
Seems like the older you get the more friends you lose.
Going to a wake and sitting in the back of the room to pay your respects to someone who has meant the world to you has to be the hardest thing I have ever done.
Do you remember a gal named Peaches who danced at the Fuzzy Grape? (or something like that)
It was back in '75 and it was my first time there with a bunch of guys from work and someone told me to put a buck in my mouth and she'd pick it up with her kitty. She pretty near ended up enveloping my whole head in there!
Yes I agree with the posts that 20 years is a long time to be in relationship with someone. So Mr. Fisher is to be congratulated!
Hey I guess my relationship with my cat was 20 years and my longest relationship. I guess I had a lot of pussy myself Plus I still have her ashes so maybe I will keep counting the years with her. I'm glad you posted as it feels good to joke around about her.
My second marriage which lasted 11 years is a distant second. I am proud of the fact we are still friends so I guess that one has now reached 16 years. I'm frankly to old to hold grudges and it serves no purpose for me. She was angry for awhile but got over it. Come to think of it I do have two guy friends that are over the 20 year mark. Actually I admire any person or pet that can put up with me for that long
When we are all old and in our last years all that will be important are the relationships and connections we made in this life time. That I believe is our purpose. The material things we accumulated, prestige, power, will be all be irrelevant. I think the relationships with our cat/animal friends will count also
you are indeed a very lucky man... I've seen another in the hobby of ours... find her soul mate - only to be taken from him - just as he found her... but alas... she was indeed happy... happy to have met her knight in shining armor - if only for a short time...
we have so little time... 20 years... an eternity... again... congrats... they are indeed in order!
In fact, tonight I said good bye to a stripper friend - who has been with me since my divorce... we've shared a lot together... laughter and tears... She is moving on - to a different type of job - in a different state and city... I shall indeed miss her... and contrary to what they say - "there is sex in the champagne room!" lol! but only for special clients... as I say, she got me through a divorce - and I am still not sure what she got out of our relationship... but she remains a friend.
...and have seen the same provider many times over the last year. I think I may see a couple of her friends soon, but as far as I am concerned I will keep seeing the same provider until she retires.
I have had 20 years go by before seeing a provider again. But I have never "seen" someone for 20 years. I never been married to any wives that long. Eeeew.
That's wonderful. I'm sure you and your longtime friends embiggen each others' lives immensely.
I've only been hobbying a few years but my now retired ATF and I are still great friends. In fact, I'm going to visit her soon and put the finishing touches on a treehouse I built for her daughter. I look forward to sharing a long relationship with her.
I envy you sir! I have a couple of ladies, one at two years, one at four, that I hope to still be visitng in fifteen or twenty years. I have had one or two others who retired long before I could reach any sort of longevity. It took me years to figure out that, though I like to experiment occasionally, I really am a "regulars" kind of guy.
Long may your long-term relationships carry on mrfisher!
Congrats for your longevity. I have seen some ladies off and on for the 6 years I have been in this hobby. I like variety too much to stay with the same few ladies over and over again.
Well it was 20 years ago today, Mr. Fisher taught the girl to play, They've always been in style, And are guaranteed to raise a smile, So may I introduce to you, The act you've known for all these years, Mr. Fisher's fantastic, favorite provider!
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It must be wonderful to have known someone for so long in such a unique and fun way.