Just wondering if these thinner brand condoms really feel better than the regular ones. I doubt there is any condom that feels close to BB, but which brand do you think is the best?

I use Kimono Microthin

http://secure.condomania.com/prodinfo.asp?number=C-KMT-SL

They're probably comparable to other thin ones and much better than the thick ones. I use them because they fit well for me. My ATF likes it; she said they're also strong. So I ordered some for her as well.


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Can't offer any insight to your condom question other than providers have seemed to have much more natural feeling condoms than I've been able to pick up at CVS etc., Just never asked what they use, but will next time. Lets add products ie. dental dam to this question and possibly get two birds with one stone.
Additional question: Do providers get offended if you whip out a product for the male to provide safe oral. Or are they more often than not appreciative that you are at least attempting to pleasure them, in a manor with which you're comfortable.

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Beyond Seven for regular sized gents...

Lifestyle XL for the bigger boys.

Love,
Lee

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If I felt that a lady was so compromised that I needed a dental dam, I can be very sure I would not visit or tarry in the area.

Whatever a friend needs to feel safe and comfortable, I'm happy to oblige.  While I am not overly fond of dams, I appreciate a whatever a gentleman may need for his comfort and safety.

Unfortunately there are not many "brands" of dams.  I'm only aware of one in fact.  The selection is simply not there.

Reickus' spin on dental dam : any providers want to chime in?

The general opinion seems to be that if you're worried too much about STDs you should find another hobby.
I'm in the hobby hopefully short term, but in it with both feet and want to live through it while having my experiences be as pleasurable as possible.
I'm also interested in finding out if ladies appreciate the gesture of DATY with protection or would rather you don't even bother if you feel the need for protection.
And how the h*** do you have a gut feeling if a provider is compromised? If I visibly saw something that made me think that (other than knowing you're about to go where countless hundreds, or thousands have gone before)I would just leave my donation on the table and excuse myself...goodbye.
By the way, I've never tried the product, so have no idea how limiting it is on pleasure for both parties and what different qualities are available.

...it's Magnum XL or nothing.

Sola, and others, If the guy doesn't particularly care one way or the other if he's DATY or just exploring other areas of the alphabet, and his only goal is for the experience to be mutually stimulating, would you rather he just skip it because it just doesn't feel that great for you when DATY with protection? Or, is anything along that line better than nothing.

Really now - if the guy doesn't care one way or another, then why bother?  I'm most happy when my friends have a fabulous time, so my standard is they not do anything unwanted simply to please me.  

"would you rather he just skip it because it just doesn't feel that great for you when DATY with protection"
Who said that?  It still feels great!

Reickus' spin on dental dam : any providers want to chime in?

Every time I've tried to use one, it ends up stuck to my face and interferes with my breathing.  You make a good point; I guess I've just made a decision that anyone on whom I'd want to perform orally must be clean.  My gamble.