I am interested in hearing what ladies to to create an experience?  How do you go above and beyond?  Maybe you lay out the room a special way?  Show a video?  Focus on appealing to all of the senses?  Play one of those games that you buy a Spencer's gifts?  What do you do to make guys want to book for 4 hours instead of 30 minutes or 1 hour?  What do you do to create an overall fantastic experience?  

That is to say, the quality of being likable.  

To me, creating an experience is like being concierge.  
Luckily I used to work as one at s 5 star hotel, so I know a number of the tricks to the trade. I won't spill all my secrets but it is hard work to create experiences at all levels of services I provide - GFE, PSE, fetish and fantasy, and BDSM. But I think I do a good job pulling it off, especially when I have time to prepare (if it's a last minute appointment or a stretch within my availability it can be hard to do)  

The more you pay, the better I perform  

making it an  "experience."  Its a function of financial depth.  If you can afford to book four hours without batting an eye, you do it, if you can't, you don't.  Its not complicated.  

That is to say, the quality of being fuckable.  

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can be away to P4P.

The large number of guys that do 30 minute sessions?  In talking to them over the years, I have found that it's mostly guys on a limited hobby budget trying to get the most bang for their buck. To a man, they say if their budget was bigger, they would do longer sessions.  Not such nonsense after all?

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but I completely agree with him about 4 hour dates. I have ZERO interest in a four hour date, or even a two hour date for that matter.  

She'll never let him know she's bored with his boring demeanor.
 She will act extremely  interested in his passionate interests when she has no interest.
     
  The odds are in, with  money bags, ten to one he has not one attractive female in his world, outside the board room, listening with interest to  his trials, tribulations and joys.
     
  If he loves watching Lassie movies she suddenly discovers she does too.

You and I look at things from completely opposite ends of the spectrum and I'd like to keep it that way. Being on the same side of a debate with you fucks up the natural order of things so please STOP. lol

For me it depends on the provider. I do prefer a minimum of 90 minutes that is mostly spent fucking. But, there are some that the experience  runs it's course within that time and with some the experience mutually continues for up to 8 hours plus. Both are great for me because neither way am I disappointed. Different ladies with different personalities and talents.
Wow, now I'm horny.

But only for an hour.

Not true. I've bailed before my hour was up countless times, and I'm sure I'd bail early on an offer of an extra three hours at the one-hour rate, too. Extra time isn't that important to me, as such. I don't get as much out of it as the first 45 minutes or so. (However, if I could stretch those extra hours over multiple days, that'd be ideal.)

Longer, sure. But 3 and a half hours longer? Also, perfectly respectable providers do 30 minute sessions, but a lot of the ones who do it are on the lower end. Once you jump up into the $300 range, you find a different mindset among the clients.  

About the feeling it leaves you with after you two have parted

Yes - it is definitely about the feeling --- before and after.  One of my favorite escorts was Ivanna.  I booked her a few days in advance after I saw her video (link below).  The days leading up to the meeting I had that video stuck in my head.  Then the day that I met her came and wow --- she created an awesome experience that is difficult to put into words.  Genuine, sweet, incredibly sensual.  The room had effective lighting, music, she carried herself well, and the tone of her voice was perfect.  For the next few days I couldn't get her out of my head (in a good way).  I would see her every other day if I could.  Except that she seems to have fallen off the planet.  If anyone knows how to get a hold of her, please let me know.  I believe that she changed her phone number.  

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Thats funny you say that.  I just wrote out this big response and then realized it would be seen as such and said to hell with it, knowing it would be seen as a pointless ThreAD anyways...tough crowd..

In my current situation, the experience is solely based on my appetite. I'm honest and if I want to go one to four rounds, I voice my needs before hand to see if you can keep up. I'm available for outcall only so I arrive in suggested attire then change into something more comfortable. My GFE dates always start with a sensual massage. My PSE dates always start with a sexy strip tease. Always more stimulating with my bag of tricks.  I just like to be myself which is generally highly erotic. I don't like a lot of small talk....I prefer a physical connection through touching, dancing, whipping, massage, licking, sucking , etc versus ten-30 minutes of conversation trying to drag out the date.

those two are really the most important: setting the mood by creating the desired ambiance, and having a great attitude.  throw in a little bit of sensual skill, a great deal of care put into your appearance, and an eye turned toward compatibility (this, IMO, is the most important -- the people involve have to be seeking experiences and people that are compatible w/one another), and it will generally be an experience that is enjoyable and memorable for both parties.

Thank goodness I listened to momma an always wear my best Skiivies  

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