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There's a lot more to being a boyfriend (girlfriend) to someone....
mrfisher 111 Reviews 213 reads
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It matters not that we are passionate and polite to each other, or even take an interest in our daily lives, or even help out as a friend would do now and then.

Any committed relationship needs psychic work done on it every once in a while, and that's where things get differentiated pretty quickly.

There are certainly plusses to having that kind of committed relationship, but if your are like me and want to just pay for a few blessed hours of ectastic fantasy, then play the part and don't worry about strings just yet.

These gals are pros and we don't need to tell them which way is up.

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how far can a guy go in regards to giving a boyfriend experience with a provider?  i have always been way to reluctant to put on a show like that cause what if the girl starts to think, aww hell, this guy is really starting to fall for me, time to cut him off.  does it not really matter since its pay for play? cause there have been sessions where it has just been off the hook amazing and i wonder if saying a few things and doing a few things i would not normally do with a provider would be ok and not freak them out.  i wouldn't just blurt thing out, it would merely be in response to things they do.  i guess the main question is, should i play the role of bfe when having a gfe session? it seems weird to do so, but i figure, maybe it would just be that much better giving back as much as the girl give.

not this boyfriend experience (although that might be fun too :D)

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MP67366 reads

If the lady isn't having as much fun as I am, even though I'm paying, it ain't cool.

Kinda selfish that way.... ;)

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guy69696969239 reads

I don't get the selfish thing either..... probably just a cover for lack of skill.

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quadseasonal224 reads

PrimusSucks "I don't get the selfish thing either".....

Last week I was more than extremely stressed out. I noticed one of my sweet and bubbly faves, was visiting  nearby. I set up a time.On the way, I was second guessing myself, probably shouldn't have called a provider stressed like I was.I made up my mind,once she was riding CG,all would be fine.
She told me she was horny for me when she opened the door. She dropped to her knees. I came with a scream, before she said please.She told me she wanted some  more. I took a rest, with her head on my chest. Soon she a started a BJ  again. Felt so good I didn't stop her. I was not stressed, when I left.She isn't keeping score.
She sent me a thank you the following day.
I left the correct donation.
Maybe my ego is messed up???
I feel no remorse.
On the other hand, if we start dating outside the hobby, I will try to  be more attentive to her needs when I am stressed, in need of relief.

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guy69696969152 reads

Its much cheaper to rub one out yourself.  Strikes me as nothing more than masturbation via surrogate. Ymmv.

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quadseasonal153 reads

Primus"Its much cheaper to rub one out yourself.  Strikes me as nothing more than masturbation via surrogate. Ymmv."

No Doubt... YMMV. Money or being cheap wasn't the issue .Stress Relief was what I was looking for. My hands don't  release my stress anywhere near as well as BBBJ with a skilled provider.
Plus she was kissing me, and caressing my balls in between.
My hands don't make me scream, or even utter a  grunt.YMMV
If I rub one out myself, I don't go for seconds ten minutes later. YMMV
You sure you aren't  a dog that can lick his own balls?? LMAO Have fun with your magic hands.
P.S. If being cheap and hearing her scream is all you are worried about, make a audio  tape of your favorite faking her O with you, and play it when  you jack off. With the savings, you can buy that new car you've been longing for.



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guy69696969130 reads

Seems like your ego is somehow wrapped up tightly.

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"P.S. If being cheap and hearing her scream is all you are worried about, make a audio  tape of your favorite faking her O with you, and play it when  you jack off. With the savings, you can buy that new car you've been longing for."

Says more than enough about you; sorry that you're so insecure.

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quadseasonal120 reads

Primus"Seems like your ego is somehow wrapped up tightly.
"Says more than enough about you; sorry that you're so insecure".


Defensive?? Insecure?? I am thorougly LMAO.
Knock Knock ....  What works for you doesn't work for me .Thats the point I was making.
You don't need to feel sorry for me.I was quite a happy camper spending "my" money on multiple BJs.review to follow. There is no need to be sorry about "my" ego, not insisting I get her off,or not stopping until  she taps out, before I depart.YMMV
I would appreciate if you feel sorry for me if I'm home jerking off alone, otherwise I am fine.YMMV
I enjoyed her BJs.She made me happy and stress free. I will tell her one guy thinks she was my surrogate, jerk off device and I wasted my honey money .
Surely you are not upset or feel I was defensive I tried to make my point. I don't feel like I wasted my money. I would much rather have a hot provider give me a BJ for relief,rather than  jerking off at home.YMMV Its not the same IMO. YMMV
To each their own. YMMV
Its simple to see. You love your hands much more than I love mine. No harm in that.Your ego is fine. You won't become any more blind..Carry on.


 

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guy6969696976 reads

I got your point. Whatever floats yer boat. If that's the typical extent of what it is you seek, then you're missing out; that's my point. Sum can be greater than the parts, etc... stress can certainly get in the way of life's greater pleasures ...

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quadseasonal66 reads

Primus"I got your point. Whatever floats yer boat. If that's the typical extent of what it is you seek, then you're missing out; that's my point. Sum can be greater than the parts, etc."

Trust me, I am not missing out. Actually you missed my point.I never mentioned the word typical in my OP.It was actually not typical of my experiences with providers in the least. I am normally not stressed out.I  will often Daty for at least 17 minutes before I switch to penetration, even if she fakes a O at the 2 and 4 minute mark.
Variety is the spice of life.Sometimes two BBBjs works just fine.It all depends on the circumstances and my mood ...IMO.
 

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guy6969696960 reads

Now I'm only 99% perfect. Have a nice Sunday. ;)

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lilli99 reads

i would have sent you a thank you note too. i adore it when a man comes to me tense and borderline angered, and leaves loose, languid and whistlin' a happy tune. stress relief...it's a good thing.

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Cary Rose149 reads

That's not selfish at all. I figure it works both ways. Passion feeds on passion, and the experience is that much better for both parties. If she isn't enjoying it, you won't either, at least, not as much.

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mrfisher214 reads

It matters not that we are passionate and polite to each other, or even take an interest in our daily lives, or even help out as a friend would do now and then.

Any committed relationship needs psychic work done on it every once in a while, and that's where things get differentiated pretty quickly.

There are certainly plusses to having that kind of committed relationship, but if your are like me and want to just pay for a few blessed hours of ectastic fantasy, then play the part and don't worry about strings just yet.

These gals are pros and we don't need to tell them which way is up.

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Cary Rose145 reads

No one can put us all in the same category. "Pro" does not mean we are not human, or that we do not enjoy being with you. If I don't enjoy a man, I drop him, just as he would me. My best clients are those who enjoy sharing intimacy, not just the passionate side of things. I am not talking about a pillow talk gossip fest, just two people enjoying good conversation. It isn't a permanent joining. After all, reality demands we remember it's a fantasy we are sharing. The feelings may be real, but they are the same feelings we would have for a friend we may never see again. I sometimes think that near anonymity makes for a deeper connection, one to be remembered and savored. I may not remember where we met, or when, what he looked like, or even his voice, but all I need to be reminded of is something small, like a scent, a gift he brought, shared laughter, or that we fell off the bed together, and they are fresh and new again in my mind. We ladies really do adore you, you know.

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DGL17153 reads

I have bfe'd with a gfe'd provider that I have come to know fairly well... For me it adds to the experience and heightens the enjoyment but I do not kid myself and know it's just a fantasy business transaction...

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Funcooker69100 reads

Providers are the ones who have to market and define terms, your job is to fuck and pay. Why make complications that don't exist? Whatever decorations you want to add to the experience is on you, but Be yourself, which is not her boyfriend. Whatever happened to lovers that go bump in the night? There's plenty enticing about that.

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keystonekid115 reads

the lady with respect, you will often receive a more enjoyable time.  I sometimes ask "is there anything off limits?" at the beginning of the date.  Also, by reading her reviews you should know how the basic session will unfold.

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johngaltnh91 reads

It likely beats the hell out of a provider's review of the client which summarizes his response as "He just laid there."

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soflaguy4497 reads

I enjoy having a great time with the ladies, but I don't delude myself into thinking that this hottie laying next to me, who can have any guy she wants, is interested in me becoming her BF.  There is a fine line between acting out the fantasy and fooling ourselves thinking it's something it's really not, IMHO.

These ladies have guys fall for them all the time.  

Posted By: boyfriendexperience
how far can a guy go in regards to giving a boyfriend experience with a provider?  i have always been way to reluctant to put on a show like that cause what if the girl starts to think, aww hell, this guy is really starting to fall for me, time to cut him off.  does it not really matter since its pay for play? cause there have been sessions where it has just been off the hook amazing and i wonder if saying a few things and doing a few things i would not normally do with a provider would be ok and not freak them out.  i wouldn't just blurt thing out, it would merely be in response to things they do.  i guess the main question is, should i play the role of bfe when having a gfe session? it seems weird to do so, but i figure, maybe it would just be that much better giving back as much as the girl give.

not this boyfriend experience (although that might be fun too :D)

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boyfriendexperience94 reads

I'd like to hear a little more from the ladies. I'm definitely not one to just lie around. When I am there, I am there to have fun. Always have laughs and a good time in general, I was just curious about being a bfe for the hour.just saying and doing little things.  I am not delusional in thinking I am there bf, although a few times being last I have been allowed to spend the night with a girl. like someone above  said, we are all human, and sometimes it nice to be close to someone even if it is just a fleeting moment. there is a huge difference between doing the mannerisms of bf gf and actually being bf gf.  I am just interested in the mannerisms and actions and if that is ok to do,you know, to play off each other and play the roles we are in.

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