For months I have been seeing a lovely woman for “body rubs.” Sex is not on her menu, but she provides pretty much everything short of that. In no way does one leave the experience feeling in the least shortchanged. (Sorry, guys, she doesn’t want reviews.) Last week, she made an exception, but only with my assurance that I would keep returning. From this I gather that it’s a thing for men to disappear once a provider who doesn’t usually assent to sex suddenly does?