I, like most guys think with our little heads. if we didn't we wouldn't be married with no kids and very few bills. Women are the reason men do everything. if a man shows up with his libido chances are he will use it.
I personally have only had one instance where the pics were so far off that i thought i might have the wrong room. the session still happened but not with the same itinerary as originally planned.

Also, when a hobbyist sees a bad review they look at it from multiple angles. how attractive, services provided, pops, time, location and especially $$$.
we weigh the pros and cons, and then decide. or we just see a good pic and can't help but make the call.

We always have and we always will be powerless to our.........

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I had a similar situation in Phoenix, except that this girl, although not the one in the pictures,  was really hot. Here's one that I should have sent on her merry way. It was my first lesson in upselling. By the time she left, I was $600 poorer and still pretty horny. All of this took about a half hour. Given the same circumstances again, I think I would opt to send her away. And I agree, and have never understood the fourth or fifth guy in a line of horrible reviews. If nobody had a good time, what the hell are you doing with that phone in your hand??? Wake up, gentlemen. These reviews are here for a reason.

I've had something similar happen, and because I was new to the hobby, with no references, hence using personal information, I was concerned that the agency could cause trouble for me if I did walk out.

In regards to your question a lot of providers would demand a cancellation fee in addition to their cab fare if you cancelled upon their arrival.

One would then have to negotiate a cancellation fee. I think a cancellation fee would be something reasonable to offer the provider if they look different from the photos.  

The review I believe your referring to is the first review for the provider so the hobbyist had no way of knowing she looked different from the pictures.

Not every hobbyist knows about Ter or they find out about Ter later; thats where a lot of cases happen where guys see the ladys that recieve low scores in their reviews. In addition there are some Ter hobbyists that don't bother to check the ladys reviews before an appointment.  

The majority of Ter hobbyists do a lot of research before they see a provider; this is a lot easier to do if your a VIP member.  

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When I was greener and much less aware of B&S I probably could have been lead along that garden path, but no more.  If she can't even be honest with her pics, WTH would I think it would get any better?

As for your second question, I haven't the slightest idea, LOL.

For making appointments with providers who have stinking reviews: I think gents will sometimes either gamble that a she will have a "breakthrough" appointment, especially if she looks good and has a very reasonable gift level. Or, the guys didn't read the reviews of her first, though they then wrote a review. Strange but true.

If it's clearly not the same person, a B&S, then you have no obligation to go through with the appointment, and should feel no guilt about walking away.  There is still a debate whether it is a B&S if it IS the same person, but the photos are misleading [heavily Photoshopped, she has since gained a lot of weight, now has visible tattoos, etc.,].  In that case, I might pay the lady something [not the full amount] for her time, and still walk away if I feel her appearance or demeanor are unacceptable.

As for the low ratings, are you referring to looks, performance or both?  Some guys see women who are not great looking if they have great personalities and provide great service.  This is pretty rare.  More often guys will see a total hottie with bad performance reviews for one simple reason - she's hot looking.  My feeling about that is that every one of those guys thinks that he is the "special" guy who is going to get a great session out of her, because all the other guys were losers.  They all learn the same expensive lesson.

a lobster.  That's great because after all lobster is great.  But you ordered a steak because that's what you wanted.  Would you pay for the lobster?  Hobbyists have to stop the BS!!! We get ripped off because these agencies are SOOOOO convinced that we are a bunch of middle age guys with wives, kids, good jobs, mortages, 2 cars, etc.  and that we are afraid to death to lose all of that because of this biz.  But who is at a greater risk you or them.  Who is breaking the law.  We both are but we can hide behind wives, kids, jobs, mortgages, 2 cars, etc.  As the Lone Ranger said to 2 hippies.  Who will the cops believe me or you 2 hippies?  

Don't pay cabfare, cancellation fees, or anything else.  F--- the agencies.  If some guy calls you and threatens to call your wife, job or whatever then say go ahead.  And if it happens simply get on the phone to the cops and say I believe I am the victim of identity theft.  Some escort agency has my phone number and some personal information and is verbally threatening myself and my family.    
What should I do?

Yeah, i have to admit, that boggles my mind as well, it gives the "real" providers a bad rep.. Why would you let her stay, subcontiously letting her know its ok to trick guys into "picking you".. If enough guys sent them packing those providers would have no choice but to use their own pics and stop stealing other ladies pics... but at the same time if your really nice, you can give them cab fare, but really its their own fault the're being put out so your not obligated to...

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