I am curious to know why there are so few negative reviews. The cynic in me says that because, in a way, this is one giant game of chicken. The optimist in me says that since this is someone's livelihood it is best not to mess with it. Also, as the women generally have enough personal information to get a letter home it is not worth it. I have so many positive experiences that I tend to see the negatives as part of the equation. That said...
I saw a woman a while back for four hours. (Never a good plan with someone you have never seen.) Cost was in the 1500-2000 range. Alone time was less than 30 minutes. Chemistry was not awful but not great either. Sex was incredibly mechanical. She told me that she was a clean freak and that I must scrub down in the shower prior to making the two-backed beast in her love chamber. She on the other hand relies on wipes to keep her undercarriage to surgical standards of cleanliness. Once we got going my head eventually made its way between her legs. I noticed a slight pong that I would not normally associate with a woman's pussy. When we switched to 69, my stiffy disappeared and all I wanted to do was finish and go. Somehow, I summoned up the Herculean effort required to come under the circumstances. She then kindly provided me with two dry washcloths to clean my enormous load off of my abdomen. She then started getting dressed and I was not going to try to extend things -- my nose would never have forgiven me. I was out in the street in a jiffy and only a little surprised to see that my total exposure was about 3h30 for a 4 hour date. Less than 5 minutes out I get a text saying what a great date we had and that she was giving me a provider okay on one of the sites.
My inclination is to keep my mouth shut and move on. I do think it might be helpful for to know how bad the experience was for me. My concern is that it will become a mudslinging that benefits no one. I actually look back on the whole thing and laugh.Any of you have any feedback?
Now, even if you do a review under your alias, she will know it's you. Should have just written the review and NOT broadcasted the shit here. I can't believe you paid nearly 2k and got less than an hour of actual bcd time...that's insane, and should be made known. I do wonder if it was all her, or partly you. I am a bit lost on her vagina issues...was it just nasty, or did you feel she had some type of std? Did you research her and her other reviews before taking the plunge, and what did they have to say? Did you backchannel any of these guys for more info. they might not want to make public, much like you are having an issue with?
You seem to be very kind in your scoring, so I doubt it's just because you have an agenda here. On that note, I would ask TER if you can delete this post and post this review under your alias and explain why. You were basically ripped off IMO. If I have a 2 hour min. and I only give the guy 15 min. of sex, that's still a rip off even though I did have sex with him. I am sure he did not pay for 2 hours to watch me do my nails or yap his head off lol.
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her, let's say, fastidiousnes, to use a kind term, is something that some hobbyists look for and appreciate. There are more than a few clean freaks out there among us horn-dogs too.
While her methods are a bit much for me, if I had a choice bewteen her and gals who don't do much of anything regarding hygene, I'd go with the former.
It may not be as much fun at first, but beats VD any day.
How many people don’t give out their TER handle? Really why don’t we take poll and see!
My guess over 80%
I saw 12 people in Cleveland, and I think 9 or 10 wrote reviews...everyone PMd me for a date vs. email. The guy in question though...said she does not have his handle.
... first... you got ripped off. Only one pop in a 4 hour period. Wow, pretty expensive if you ask me.
Since you have already stated this post under your handle here, I'd say it's too late to give a review. You could do it under your alias, but you'll have to make it so vague so that provider will not know it's you, but then if TER asks the provider about the review... what is she going to say?
Take it as a very expensive learning lesson and do not repeat this episode with anyone else UNTIL you know the provider pretty well.
That's just my 3 cents.
Serpius
I saw a woman a while back for four hours. (Never a good plan with someone you have never seen.) Cost was in the 1500-2000 range. Alone time was less than 30 minutes. Chemistry was not awful but not great either. Sex was incredibly mechanical. She told me that she was a clean freak and that I must scrub down in the shower prior to making the two-backed beast in her love chamber. She on the other hand relies on wipes to keep her undercarriage to surgical standards of cleanliness. Once we got going my head eventually made its way between her legs. I noticed a slight pong that I would not normally associate with a woman's pussy. When we switched to 69, my stiffy disappeared and all I wanted to do was finish and go. Somehow, I summoned up the Herculean effort required to come under the circumstances. She then kindly provided me with two dry washcloths to clean my enormous load off of my abdomen. She then started getting dressed and I was not going to try to extend things -- my nose would never have forgiven me. I was out in the street in a jiffy and only a little surprised to see that my total exposure was about 3h30 for a 4 hour date. Less than 5 minutes out I get a text saying what a great date we had and that she was giving me a provider okay on one of the sites.
My inclination is to keep my mouth shut and move on. I do think it might be helpful for to know how bad the experience was for me. My concern is that it will become a mudslinging that benefits no one. I actually look back on the whole thing and laugh.Any of you have any feedback?
I have been fortunate. I have discovered people whose opinions I trust, do my research, and have had very few bad dates. I give lots of 8+s and I don't need to exagerate because all the 8-10s I have given have been guts that--over and above my expectations.
But if/when I do have a poor experience I would certainly post such. Research is only as valuable as the truthfulness of the sources.
Your experience sounds like a major ripoff but there are always two sides.
I would definately post the review. Otherwise someone, like yourself, might experience the same issues. Reviews are just that and positive as well as negative ones provide usefull information.
A great many providers would refuse to continue the date....or never see you again and CERTAINLY not give you an okay on any other site. I would be the first one to throw a complete bitch fit if a client refused to wash their asses or let me wash them....esp after their ball sacks have been MARINATING for 4 hours? Ohhhhh no Sir....you have to go! Turn the tables and you suffered through a lady who let her flaps marinate for four hours? That is NOT acceptable. That is HIGHLY unprofessional, immature, and nasty as fuck.
Nothing can damper a date like a smelly ass, stanky nut sack, rank stank pussy, garbage pail breath, or marathon race armpits. (YIKES) and a huge "fuck that shit, I gots to go!" Who wants to stick their face in the lap of a chick who don't know the meaning of water and soap? esp a provider YUCK!...I don't know who you are lady but you are nasty. After the deed is done a soapy warm washcloth is THE LEAST you can offer a man who just spent $1,500.00 plus dinner on you...FOR FUCKS SAKE! Great customer service is priceless....at least act like you care that he has his babies all over his tummy, shit....
It is sooooooooooooooooo unattractive to want to get your rocks off you head south and your nose gets a whiff of tuna....been there.....done that.....refused to do shit else.....BC IT IS FUCKING GROSS!
Yep...that's the reason!
And too many johns afraid to tell the truth
So johnnie boy...don't give her your TER handle. Problem solved!
What in hεll is "BSC?" Which one of the 250+ possibilities [see link] … ? Just wondering: Do posters prefer to be intelligible to a general audience or write annoying nonsense? Acronyms are fine if in general use. If not, their use obscures any intended meaning.
or "Bat Shit Crazy" is used quite frequently around here
the Agency shills who get a price break to see the new girls and write a positive mini or review. I haven't spotted any obvious ones in a while but they are out there.
For me, I've learned its rarely worth writing the negative reviews unless its a total rip off (and I have enough experience to avoid those now). I see enough good ladies, I keep my reviews to those experiences.
If you really want to review, go right ahead. The thing that stands out to me, to where she would know it was you that wrote the review is if you mention it was a 4 hour date. So maybe you just mention it was a multihour appointment, or you wit a couple months o write the review.
First, I am not directing this at YOU personally. Clearly you would like to share this, but are conflicted.
Now, lemme talk about "you" in a broader sense, with "you" referring to the asshats on this site who think we owe it to them to give negative reviews. Again, this is not directed towards the OP. For the OP, I sympathize with you entirely.
For the rest of the "you better give us negative reviews" asshats, here are six points you should consider.
1. I don't know how to more clearly explain this for the umpteenth time, but those who bitch about inflated or the lack of negative reviews are morons. What are YOU gonna do for ME when the shit comes flying my way because the provider has my personal info and realizes I fucked with her business? All I get from you if I put up a negative review is a "dude, thanks."
2. That's the say nothing that you didn't contribute one fucking dime towards my session or my VIP membership here. You have zero skin in the game! So why the fuck am I doing anything for you? I paid for my session. Whether I choose to share details of it or not are clearly and totally up to me.
3. And before you go flying off about how this site only works if people contribute...I have contributed 15 reviews on my alias alone since Feb. How many have YOU contributed?
4. And if I out a provider, what good does that do you if you are not in my geographical neighborhood? If you in SF and I am in NY, what good does my info do for you?
5. In the end, I consider myself a big boy. If the session goes poorly, that's one me and not her.
6. And if you REALLY wanna know what a girl is like, PM the reviewers.
I am in complete agreement with point number 5.
reviews that are less than stellar, and have the guy's handle...so? What am I going to do with it...blacklist him? Even if I do, big whoop. He can just get a new handle tomorrow and join p411. He can also have his previous references still vouch for him under the new handle. It's not rocket science.
Now, if the bitch is crazy and has his real name and where he works...another story, but getting all bent out of shape over a handle is retarded. That is WHY review boards were created...to give you guys some recourse without having to reveal who you are. In this guy's case, no provider is going to assume he is a low baller when it comes to scoring...his scores are all 9s at this point. So, he gives stank girl a bad review and explains why....only a provider with those same issues would refuse to see him lol.
It would be different if he was a total ass who did on purpose to give every girl he saw a low score no matter what she did to please him, but that is not the case here. Most people can read between the lines. I would write the review...period. He does not have to go into details to the extent he did here, but he can word things in a way that let others know it was not the best experience. We are not talking about 200 bucks here, but 2k! That is a lot of coin to drop and be disappointed.
No, you don't owe your TER boys a thing, but at the same time remember that when you get burned because some other guy felt the same way. Guys who only write positive reviews, miss the entire point of what a review board was intended for and do the community a disservice. Do you have to care if you do that? Nope, not at all but those are the facts. If some girl rips you off and you don't report it, the next 5 guys that see her are also fked. That is WHY so many have inflated scores, and the next guy feels duped.
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Now, if the bitch is crazy and has his real name and where he works...another story, but getting all bent out of shape over a handle is retarded. That is WHY review boards were created...to give you guys some recourse without having to reveal who you are. In this guy's case, no provider is going to assume he is a low baller when it comes to scoring...his scores are all 9s at this point. So, he gives stank girl a bad review and explains why....only a provider with those same issues would refuse to see him lol.
It would be different if he was a total ass who did on purpose to give every girl he saw a low score no matter what she did to please him, but that is not the case here. Most people can read between the lines. I would write the review...period. He does not have to go into details to the extent he did here, but he can word things in a way that let others know it was not the best experience. We are not talking about 200 bucks here, but 2k! That is a lot of coin to drop and be disappointed.
No, you don't owe your TER boys a thing, but at the same time remember that when you get burned because some other guy felt the same way.
why there are so few negative reviews. People who read these reviews tend to go to providers who have positive reviews. Then they provide a positive review most of the time, adding to the list of positive reviews. A provider with a negative review generally won't be visited by folks who read these reviews, who also happen to be the ones providing the reviews. So they may get one review from someone who TOFTT.
So mathematically speaking, I expect mostly positive reviews. But then again, the more good providers it there, the better it is for us, no?
I want to thank all of you for collectively talking me off the ledge on this one. In the end, I contacted the lady in question directly and told her that the date did not correspond to my expectations. She said what did you think did nor go well. Simply stated, 1350 for 3 hours of public time with uninspiring company capped off with a self administered hand job was not really how I thought the day would go. She seemed unaware that anything was amiss. She wanted to be sure that all of the tourist attractions of her town were given full attention. She did arrive for the date in a track suit which should have told me something. Whether she is stupid or disingenuous it really doesn't matter. However, were I in her shoes and my livelihood depended on quality customer service, I would have a bit more empathy for others. I would also wash my ass with soap and water not Cottonelle wipes. By the way, she does not have my TER handle but I am glad that you all gave me the heads up on that one. So thanks again for all of your great advice.