lots of good ladies out there. I would not/could not go back!
Just the thought of a possible hygiene compromise like that is a major turn off!
A strange thing happened to me recently.
I had an incall appointment with a top-rated provider who I have seen several times. She is very sweet and always very generous with her time. On this day I texted an hour ahead and again when I arrived at her building, right on time. She immediately replied both times, but on arrival said she was a few minutes behind and please hang tight. A full 20 minutes later a guy walks out of her building and hops into an uber, and I simultaneously get a “so sorry!” but now I’m ready text. Hmmm.
We have a great session which also runs a little long (even with the late start), but at 4 mins to X she very suddenly says “Oh, I have to leave at X!”. We wrap things up and she still seems in no hurry, even offering me another drink. As I leave there is an awkward looking guy loitering at the entrance to her building who I am sure was her next appointment.
I’m under no delusion about the nature of the work, or that I am anything but another entry in her appointment book, but I don’t like seeing or being seen by the adjacent entries. It’s not professional and had it been our first meeting I would have been too creeped out to even think about repeating.
Seems like I could (1) ignore it as a one-off hectic day where the schedule got away from her, or (2) let her know as a professional courtesy what happened and that she really needs to manage her time better as seeing other clients is fucking creepy. I’m torn because I see myself as part of the problem for also staying long, but this has always been the nature of our appointments and of course I don’t want that to change either.
Thoughts
Has it ever come up in a conversation whether she is high volume or low volume? I think you should discreetly and casually bring it up with her. I've had one or two questionable dates with a regular last summer but either time the guy and I never saw eachother.
I just don't like knowing outright that I'm riding another guy's coat tails lol
D.
You admitted the session was great. If you're uncomfortable with the way she's running her business move on. You didn't say what date the session happened. If it was recent, the end of March, maybe the rent was due as well as other bills ? Who knows.
I had an incall appointment with a top-rated provider who I have seen several times. She is very sweet and always very generous with her time. On this day I texted an hour ahead and again when I arrived at her building, right on time. She immediately replied both times, but on arrival said she was a few minutes behind and please hang tight. A full 20 minutes later a guy walks out of her building and hops into an uber, and I simultaneously get a “so sorry!” but now I’m ready text. Hmmm.
We have a great session which also runs a little long (even with the late start), but at 4 mins to X she very suddenly says “Oh, I have to leave at X!”. We wrap things up and she still seems in no hurry, even offering me another drink. As I leave there is an awkward looking guy loitering at the entrance to her building who I am sure was her next appointment.
I’m under no delusion about the nature of the work, or that I am anything but another entry in her appointment book, but I don’t like seeing or being seen by the adjacent entries. It’s not professional and had it been our first meeting I would have been too creeped out to even think about repeating.
Seems like I could (1) ignore it as a one-off hectic day where the schedule got away from her, or (2) let her know as a professional courtesy what happened and that she really needs to manage her time better as seeing other clients is fucking creepy. I’m torn because I see myself as part of the problem for also staying long, but this has always been the nature of our appointments and of course I don’t want that to change either.
Thoughts?
It was several weeks ago (early March). Based on the other replies I've already concluded that I'm being paranoid, reacting inappropriately, and that she did nothing unprofessional or inappropriate in any way. Oddly enough I feel better getting spanked just a little bit and told to grow up on the boards.
Any way you slice it that was just wrong, and greedy.
There is no excuse for guys having to eyeball each other on the way in or out.
I'd damn sure say something.
And frankly, I'd also be worried about hygiene.
If you guys are passing each other how effectively is she cleaning herself between sessions?
You now know whose dick you just kissed
When does she wash up to say nothing of changing the bed linen, etc.?
And I agree, seeing another guy waiting around while you are leaving, or seeing guy pop out her door when you are arriving is a major turn off.
I'd suggest next time you schedule to be her first appointment of the day, and hope she didn't do an overnight ahead of you.
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I don't think hygiene is an issue in this particular case. She is obsessed with hygiene. Her incall is always immaculate. Even in the situation I described she had plenty of time to clean up and reset. In the first case I suspect the client hung around waiting for his car while she showered and cleaned up, and in the second case the client probably waited around for another 20 minutes until she buzzed him up.
It's more an issue of traffic control.
I'm not going to pretend to be objective or unbiased here, because I'm not.
You've seen her multiple times, and this is the first time such a situation has occurred so.......
Seems like I could (1) ignore it as a one-off hectic day where the schedule got away from her,
We're all human, and we all make mistakes. But in my personal opinion, these situations are just as likely a result of the provider trying too hard to be nice.
That is, being accommodating by not shoving people out the door when their time is up, and also quite likely by trying to work with people whose schedules weren't very flexible.
Think about it: if 3 regulars all wanted to see her around the lunch hour but had very little leeway in their schedules, she might very well have booked you all just 15 minutes apart.
Then the first one overstays (likely waiting for his uber!) and since she's a gracious hostess she allowed it.
You are used to taking advantage of her hospitality, she's already running late due to the first over-stayer, and thus you bump into her 3rd date of the day.
Big-fucking-deal. Yeah, it doesn't look so hot..... it feels awkward & gives her an unprofessional image, but really?
This is hardly evidence of chronic over-scheduling or the hallmark of a habitually high-volume lady.
My advice to you is to let it go, maybe don't stay over your paid-for time in future, and reserve judgment if/until it happens again. 
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How do you know they was her previous/next client?
Maybe they were johns there to see someone else?
How do they know you were her client. I'd be lying if I
said I never wondered about someone walking out of
a hotel while I was going in ... for about 3 seconds.
You didn't make any negative comments about the room,
her hygiene or the session(great). It's ok if you don't know?
My money is on you'll see her again and not bring this up
to her. Didn't notice if you posted as an alias or with your
handle, but if she follows the board, she may see this.
btw,I doubt you're a highly recognizable public figure or you
would not be meeting so openly. I'd chill and go get laid 👍
Thanks, DebbieNoonerGirl. I'll follow your advice. I do believe she is trying too hard to be nice, because that's just her personality, and of course that is one of the things that makes me want to be a repeat customer. You're right, she is always a gracious hostess.
If anything I'll probably book a longer session next time just to allow for some extra space.
I guess the general lesson is that responsibility for time management falls to both parties.
Even on the rare occasion that I see a second gent it's scheduled so far apart that bumping into each other is impossible. Furthermore, I'd be embarrassed if you could smell the condom or his Cologne. Ewwwwww
Riddle me this - how big is her building? If it is one unit, then you are probably right that all the guys were there to see her; but if it is bigger, the odds go way up that you are wrong. Even if you are right that the guys were there to see her, it is quite possible they were not there for the same reason you were. After all, being an escort is probably not her entire life....
But the possibility that there were other guys there to see her has upset you, and the appearance that those guys were directly interfering with your pleasure, or at least schedule and head, really bugs you. So you are trying to decide whether to confront her. That one is simple - no, don't do it. If she was brand new, maybe you could give her a little advice, explain how a guy sees that kind of behavior, tho you would still risk being in the position of falsely accusing her. But she sounds experienced, so whatever she is doing, she knows what she is doing. The best you will get is some sort of lip service, soothing BS. But you are more likely to annoy her because you are accusing her of something that is not true (suddenly you become that possessive, crazy guy), or because you are trying to control how she does her business. If it is the last one, then you are done. After all, you have already decided that she has enough clients that you are not important to her business.
Let it eat at you, then confront her, and finally write her off (or more likely have her write you off) - yeah, that is the best plan. Or you could forget about it, or just write her off no problem and skip the drama.
If this happens again with her or someone else and you have these same thoughts, how about asking her about it while you are there? Something simple like, "Seems like your day is pretty crazy." Most likely she will feel obliged to offer some explanation and you can skip this whole bit about having to worry about it later.
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Let's say in doctor or lawyer office you sit in a waiting room and expect your turn. There are many of you, perhaps with similar problems. Now an escort, which we assume is a professional ( if you don't agree on that we should pass all other things), invite you for an appointment. You both do your thing and lo and behold, when you exit doctor office you see another patient coming in. You are upset! Yes, you should definitely tell her that she will treat her patients ingognito, so only knowing it, you would get peace of mind. Ridiculous. And yes, tell her about it, most likely you won't see her again. Xo
You should come up to the guy and say: I know your name is John, my name is also the same. How was she? Good? This woman is the treasure. Should we plan on threesome sometime? Xo
I don't have to worry about a story spreading through town that mrfisher was seen at Dr. Yankem's office today.
Not quite the same you, you know, when it's at a provider's incall
would be spreading stories of you? MM.. Does he know you? What did he do in this place yourself? Xo
If the person you bumped into knows it's the providers incall, well, they probably aren't going to say much
While I would agree that her time management skills seem to be lacking, the fact of the matter is that all which is my business is the time that I have requested/paid for.
You don't know with certainty that the two men you saw were her clients
You are assuming much and letting your insecurities run rampant without any facts. You could be correct, or horribly wrong in your assumptions.
Everybody deserves the benefit of the doubt. Allow for the possibility that your assumptions are incorrect, or that she simply had a bad day complicated by a few guys who were late stayers or early arrivers. Hardly her fault.
If you are correct and it continues to happen, I suggest you start high-fiving the other guys in the lobby and/or parking lot... tell them your gf laughed the whole time she described their session. You'll have her all to yourself very quickly. 
Thanks for your intelligent and humorous response! I could very well be seeing a pattern of events that is simply coincidence.
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This happened several weeks ago and has been bugging me ever since. I just needed a few voices smarter than the ones in my head to put it in perspective and tell me what I already knew. Thanks for the thoughtful replies, everybody!
Why was this other guy "loitering awkwardly" in front of her building? That kind of behavior is definitely not cool. That's why we have the "two call" system so you are left hanging around awkwardly in public drawing attention to all the traffic she is generating.
I hope you had the good sense to wait in your car, hopefully not directly in front of her incall.
I don't know about the "other guy." Maybe he got antsy and decided to stand by the front door. He's actually the one that gave me the creeps. Then again, I think we've already established that maybe this was just a coincidence and I'm drawing a conclusion that doesn't exist.
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This is why I decided to hire outcall when I started in the hobby. How the woman handles her time is up to her. If I pay for a full two hours, I want the two hours. She shows up fifteen minutes late, then leaves fifteen minutes early, I was cheated a half hour. There is a digital clock by the bed, though I am not a clock watcher, I have a good idea if things are being rushed. So far no problems. Also it helps keep the illusion that I am the only guy she is seeing that night. So Ignore it.
Our ancestors in uniform felt lucky to have a few minutes of "female comfort". Waiting in line was part of the "drill".
lots of good ladies out there. I would not/could not go back!
Just the thought of a possible hygiene compromise like that is a major turn off!