Your last paragraph concerns me: the worst thing you could do is give the impression that you're revealing your secret identity to get something from her (i.e., better performance or, god forbid, a discount).
That said, I almost always give away my handle in the initial contact. Nothing is more flattering than to have a lady say, "Oh yeah, I know who you are..." and still agree to see me. Of course that's only about 1 in 10 -- most never respond at all or reply with something along the lines of "Not a chance you creepy, bald TERmite!"
No, if I want better performance I rely solely on my monkish good-looks and my buttloads of boyish charm.
I would give you the same service..I like to know though..a screening tool..read your reviews if you have any..see what you like ..if they are truthful!! Kisses Sexyc
Lex..You are a STUD..I WANT to DO you again when I get back to DC..Not a Soccer Mom visit....A Sensual Domination!!
I don't reveal - that way there is no pressure... I may reveal after.... particularly if I write a review - and usually I will not write a review unless it will be a good one... Clearly my reviews are under separate cover.... wonder who that could be...?? hum....
I often reveal my handle prior to meeting a provider, if she posts a lot on the TER board. The providers I have discussed this with said that they had read my reviews to get an idea of what I like.
I rarely write under an alias, but am doing so now for reasons that become obvious.
I was asked my TER handle by a woman I would have like to have seen. I was a bit uncomfortable but went ahead. She contacted, without asking me, one of the few ladies to whom I gave a less than stellar review. This, lady, who is nice enough, but not at all my type, then wrote me a quite hostile email.
I didn't mean sharing my handle or such with the provider, just the fact that I visit and check-out TER for the purpose of finding a good Provider.
Whether I post reviews on TER would be implied but I wouldn't share this level of detail with her anyway.
I would not reveal my handle - but would the fact that I am a TER-aware client affect a Provider, in comparison to a just a client who came across her website and had no idea about TER?
I would imagine that everyone here has made a yes/no decision on this same question prior to meeting a Provider.
but I have been encouraged by several providers to join TER so I could write reviews of them. Often the subject of the boards comes up with providers whom I know well, and of course they want to know my board name and I tell them. So far so good. I like to be very open with people whom I make love to. If I get a hostile email some day because of something I wrote, I suppose it won't kill me.
On one hand it makes much of the screening for the lady unnecessary by virtue of it lending to her merely back-channeling to previous providers for a verification. The provider can also surmise by your reviews what type of session or practices you enjoy and conduct herself accordingly.
On the other hand the practice of "cherry picking" by a provider and summarily declining your wish to see her for any number of reasons based on your review history is possible.
because I just consider it bad taste and beside the point - unless she asks. It's too much like a threat to mention a review. I think that people are entitled to good faith.
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