I am amused that being caring and defensive of those that matter has somehow become a defect. A sad sign that honour is indeed a dying breed.
It's devastating to be rejected because you're a provide. However, at the same time, it's his right to choose the lifestyle he wants, and if he wants monogamy, that doesn't make him a bad person, nor does it make her a bad person. It just makes them bad for each other. . It's hard knowing the woman you love is out with other men, and nothing can make that easier. It takes a really special kind of guy to be able to et into a romantic relationship with a Provider and be happy for her and with her. Some will go through their entire lives and never find one.
I too have always been honest, and problems in my personal life have been raised. However, it was never mean spirited, and the issue was never with "me", but my lifestyle choice.
Of course when confronted with loss, no one of that matters. I hope she does find love, and she is lucky to have a good friend who can sympathize with her pain, and adore her for exactly who she is. It's good to hear you hold her and her profession in high regard.
Much warmth and best wishes
my atf just called me crying because the guy she was sure was THE one for her broke up with her. Thing is, she was honest with him right from jump and let him know straight up about her profession. At first, all was cool, but then, I suppose, the pressures of the business caused him to bolt. Now she's in the funk -phase where she feels helpless and used, foolish for her trust and betrayed. Anyway, she's a good friend and here's the best I could offer, and I thought, maybe it might be of some benefit to somebody else out there.
Someday, this country will grow up and lose the hypocrisy attached to your profession. Ladies who provide will be treated with respect rather than hunted down like criminals and deviants.
When that happens, men, in general, will be able to handle the relationship with a provider without getting their egoes bruised. In the meantime, please take it from a seasoned hobbyist
that you do us a world of good and that there are guys out here who appreciate you, respect you and genuinely want to treat you with the personal and professional courtesy you diserve.
It might be a bit harder, given the nature of the business , for the right guy ( or woman) to come along, but I believe in the tenacity of true love, and that it can endure even this profession. My atf will surely find love again.
Her sensitivity is both her strength and her weakness. I hope this message didn't come off as being too corny- I'm sure some will think it is, but i just feel for this woman right now, and I hope that maybe this will help somebody else out there. Thanks for your patience. Now you guys can do the freekin "mangina" critique- whatever!!
I promise not to do the "freekin mangina critiqe", but I do plan on grabbing a bucket of popcorn and enjoy watching others do so.
Thank you in advance for the upcoming entertainment, and "fuck you" in advance for the sappyass comments you are sure to elicit from our more "sensitive" members. I guess I should get a barf bucket in addition to my bucket of popcorn in preparation.
Her boyfriend. If he really was the "one", she would give up providing and buy a new set of knee pads for him exclusively.
What is so difficult about this?
It also has nothing to do with providing being accepted in our society or not. Would you expect to get married one day and then have your wife fuck a stranger the next? I think not.
She made her decision.
Who said she didn't offer to stop if he would get his butt off the sofa and get a job?
Of when she told him at the start she was an escort, why did he show interest then? Didn't he know what that line of work involved? What do you think the odds were he met her as a client?
if he really was **the one* as you say, he'd love her for who she is. All of her. Not try to change her or make her into who he wants instead of who she already is.
This business is tricky its not for everyone. Its not for those who plan to change someone.
Too many think its cool and they can hang, they will be ok. There are some but not many. Its a difficult thing to ask of most ppl man or woman.
I personally have no intentions of even attempting a *LTR* or a short term one either. Been there done that and it also Blew up in my face. Plus they have lots of amo to use against you if you are honest or once you are Caught, as I was.
Its a messy business. Its also illegal no matter how you slice it. If you were a drug dealer or laundrying $$$ you wouldn't let your lover in on that right off the bat, if ever.
We have a lot to lose and a lot to protect. I am afraid for most its a business best done *single* Like I said there are a few who get it are secure emotionally and well balanced and see things the same way we do but not many. If anything at all in the relationship dept, just date. Personally, after my knock down drag out to hell and back mind fucking warped *relationship* if you can call it that...I am on a vacation from it all.
Theres me, not Nicole...and she just doesn't date, and then theres Nicole, who dates enough for the both of us. I am very basic at this point. Have my regs who also rock my world and this is truly Good enough for me.
Men like my ex ruin women for the rest of the truly good men out there. A much needed vacation s in order for me from the whole 1 on 1 relationship BS...
Ok thats my take on things.
xox
Peace
Nicole
If a guy is an A-hole then he's an A-hole whether she provides or not.
I know it doesn't seem that way now, but he's done her a favor by riding off.
Now she is free to roam again.
So if he left her because of her job he's an A-hole?!?
Not everyone is so cavalier that they can be truly in love with someone who phucks for bucks. "The kids lunches are made, PTA meeting at 4, go have a good cock-sucking day Honey!"
Phucking Please!
She made her choices. Now he's free to roam and find someone to be his and his alone.
If he knew her job from day 1 and was OK with it, and now he dumps her BECAUSE OF HER JOB, I would question how sincere he was all along, or whether he was only looking for freebies.
Now if he broke up for other reasons or because the relationship had just run its course, OK, I understand that. Most relationships do and there is nothing unique to providers about this. But there are aslo a lot of guys who will lie through their teeth and often free-load off a provider and move on when they find a better deal. A-hole is one description. Pimp is another. In this case I don't know which it was.
I wish I understood why some posters always assume anything posted that makes a provider look human, or presents her version of things, or presents her in a simpathetic light is 'Phucked-Up", or BS, or the target of more trash talk than serious comments. The replies to this thread just prove the point.
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You, and every other half wit on this thread just assumed it was due to her fucking other guys for money. For all we know he dumped her becuase she fucking snored to loud.
We don't even get her side of the story directly, instead we get some white knight's sanitized version of her side of the fucking story. Guys (I use the term loosely) like you are so fucking quick to defend a "ladies" honor without having any of the fucking facts. Does it really make you feel superior to bash some unknown guy because he broke up with some other unknown woman. Hooker or not, people break up every fucking day, she is no more deserving of our outrage for being dumped than is a cocktail waitress whose boyfriend dumps her for working nights.
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"At first, all was cool, but then, I suppose, the pressures of the business caused him to bolt."
The key words are "I suppose". Even the OP has no idea why he dumped her. He, like half the idiots responding to him are just assuming that's why he dumped her.
Like I said before, and he has not seen fit to correct me, for all we know he dumped her for fucking snoring too loud, do we?
If he doesn't know, just how the fuck are we supposed to? Another fucking white knight who doesn't even bother getting his facts straight before riding off to do battle for his damsel in distress.
This thread would have so much more credence if it were written by the actuall "dumpee", as it stands we don't even have "he said, she said", all we have is "He said, that she said, that he said" or some such bullshit. Give me a fucking break
We are not conducting an official inquest to present findings to a judge and jury on what actually happened.
For all we know the entire thing is BS; who knows?
We have to accept what the OP is presenting as factual and then discuss the pros and cons of what each party did as well as maybe why they did it.
From that perspective, I say the guy is a grade A jerk to have knowingly hooked up with a gal who is a provider and then just decide: Oops, I'm sorry, I really didn't think this through; have a nice life.
I'm not even saying he isn't right to quit the relationship (In fact, I said he did her a favor by getting out when he did.)
I guess the bottom line is that he is a bad breaker-upper.
Other than being a bore, that's a pretty low place to be on the humanity scale.
I guess I had a bit of a bad day already and then I read your piece of drivel. I make a simple post actually tempering the OP, not calling out anyone on this board, and not tossing around every declination of “fuck” I can think of. So I log back on tonight an (not to my great surprise) some aliases decide to throw a temper tantrum based on illogic.
You say, “Hey Algina, Where the fuck does he say the guy dumped her "because of her job”?” I say “Hey Repellant, When the fuck are you going to learn to read?” Go back to my first word, “If”. It does have a meaning. I don’t know what else you want me to assume, since as Mr Fischer points out the OP had that hypothesis and I’m just going with the OP’s post. Do you know more of the story?
Staying with the “Hey Repellant, When the fuck are you going to learn to read?” theme, what did I say next? “Now if he broke up for other reasons or because the relationship had just run its course, OK, I understand that. Most relationships do and there is nothing unique to providers about this.” Isn’t that exactly YOUR point? What is your problem, are your selection of words better than mine, or (as I suspect), you didn’t even bother to read my post before you wrote your flame.
I acknowledged both possibilities. You seem to only allow the one. Who is jumping to conclusions?
Do you even know what a pimp is? How did he make any money? Pimps get money when the girls fuck and suck. Sounds like all he got was baggage.
Maybe he was also tired of getting seconds and sub par service after she put in a hard days work.
There's more data for ya.
Please read what I said, not what you would like me to have said.
I said I don't know what the case is here, but guys who live off an providers' income DO exist. All I said was "some guys do that". I didn't say THIS guy does, I don't know that.
I admit your hypothetical is just as valid a possibility. I never said it wasn't. I was commenting on the posts that assumed they knew what happened and it was obviously "her" bad. You assume "Sounds like all he got was baggage". What is your basis for THAT in the OP?
In my state, the law is such that anyone who is over 18 and gains any financial benefit from a woman engaged in prostitution is a pimp.
The financial benefit need not be direct cash. It can simply be that she uses her income from prostitution to buy some groceries or to pay the electric bill.
So even if everything is hunky dory; if you are living with a provider, you can almost automatically be defined as a pimp.
That's just what the law says in my state; and does not reflect my own view of the matter.
I'm with you. Call me an a-hole and a hypocrite, but it would be hard for me to know that the woman I loved spent her days sucking and fucking other men. How could I enjoy any present she gave me or meal she made for me knowing that she had to rim some guys ass to do it.
It's the real asshole the guy who has no problem staying with her and spending her money?
I am not 100% sold on that Mr Fisher. Both myself and friends have dated strippers. No, really dated them. I found out after the fact, and I was cool with it till she started exclusively hanging out with other strippers. This was cool, except for all the coke they started doing. When this happened, I was gone. I guess what I am saying, is there are two sides to every story, and we don't know his. On the other hand, by friend dated a stripper that he met at the club. After a few months, he wanted her to stop, and just go out with him. Now he was an A-hole, but I am still friends with him.
...give her the the deed & keys to your house, & title to your car. Also, put all of your assets in her name, i sign over all your paychecks to her, pay ALL of her bills & go live in a cardboard box. That should put a smile on your ATF's face.!
Thank you for your post....such an uplifting post.
"the pressures of the business caused him to bolt."
How do you even know the breakup was even hobby related?
and while I am at it, just how the fuck do you make the leap from a man and a woman breaking up to providers being "hunted down like criminals and deviants?" That is one hell of a fucking leap there.
Or are you just trying to make the rest of the manginas look reasonable in comparison to you?
I am amused that being caring and defensive of those that matter has somehow become a defect. A sad sign that honour is indeed a dying breed.
It's devastating to be rejected because you're a provide. However, at the same time, it's his right to choose the lifestyle he wants, and if he wants monogamy, that doesn't make him a bad person, nor does it make her a bad person. It just makes them bad for each other. . It's hard knowing the woman you love is out with other men, and nothing can make that easier. It takes a really special kind of guy to be able to et into a romantic relationship with a Provider and be happy for her and with her. Some will go through their entire lives and never find one.
I too have always been honest, and problems in my personal life have been raised. However, it was never mean spirited, and the issue was never with "me", but my lifestyle choice.
Of course when confronted with loss, no one of that matters. I hope she does find love, and she is lucky to have a good friend who can sympathize with her pain, and adore her for exactly who she is. It's good to hear you hold her and her profession in high regard.
Much warmth and best wishes
people are devastated when rejected by someone they care about, regardless of the reason, or our understanding and acceptance of said reason. I consider this to be a requisite part of being in an intimate relationship.
I also don't think you can conflate the legal acceptance of the profession with men becoming accepting of their intimate partners sharing their bodies professionally. IMO, men's egoes will evolve much more slowly than our legal system and societal mores.
For the record, I will make a (likely) unpopular statement about providers and long-term intimate relationships.
Everything we do as human behavior, we do because it gets us something we need. Even if that behavior is dysfunctional. If a provider clearly states that she wants an intimate LTR relationship with an SO (and I would believe her), her choice of professional clearly limits her choice of partner (especially men).
I am not placing a value judgement here, but observing that IMO, most men could not manage a LTR with an active provider.
This leaves one to surmise that a provider gets more from her choice to be a provider (I am not saying what) than she would from actually being in a LTR. She may in fact need the kind of guy that could be in that sort of relationship - i.e. that open or accepting.
I am not suggesting that all providers chose their profession as a defense or excuse against a LTR. That is a very individual thing. My main point here is that we cannot sit on the sidelines and armchair quarterback about other relationships in general, and especially those with the added dimensions (good or bad) found in a relationship with a provider.
I believe providers (ones that can do this for an extended time) to be very special people due to the required sacrifices that are made. Whether they are made consciously on their part, or not.
That's ok, but it is corny. Agreed, I sure appreciate the providers I've met. Most of them, anyway.
Sorry to hear about your ATF's situation. Que lastima. What a shame.
Heart breaks really suck, no doubt, but don't give her your house or car though.
First, there are often conflicts between careers and relationships. This isn't limited to providers by any means. Law enforcement, military, scientists, executives, etc. ALL run into relationship issues with career. Moreover, women with such careers often have serious troubles at home for various reasons I won't go into.
My point is that the whole career-relationship thing isn't limited to being a provider.
Second, you know, there's nothing unusual about a guy not being cool with being the 8th guy to kiss his wife that day.
Turn this around. How would any of us expect a wife to react if we informed her that we were tired of our current unsatisfying careers, and were going to start screwing other women for a living? Would our wives be assholes for not allowing us to follow our bliss?
The fact that someone might not deal well with a career in which his GF swallows strange men's semen doesn't exactly mark him as a Neanderthal.
It's not like polyamory in which the people involved all know and trust each other. We're talking strangers here.
Hey, some men can deal with it. Many can't. Just like lots of women can't stand being married to cops.
Finally, look, I have a couple of friends who are escorts. One has been through a couple of boyfriends and one of them was really really messy. I dig it. It sucks when someone you like/love/care about is in pain.
I don't want to take anything away from that. Pain is pain and relationship pain can be about the worst because it can make people question the core of their very being.
But, again, this is not related to her profession. Lots of men and women end up heartbroken and/or betrayed all the time without regard to their profession. I remember once discovering that a GF of mine was secretly engaged to someone else -- talk about a fucked up moment.
Conclusion: By all means, support your friend -- because that is what this escort is: your friend. I am sorry to hear that your friend is hurting from relationship troubles.
HOWEVER, I am afraid that this situation is simply not unique to escorts or an example of oppression. As Jewel would say, "Hearts are broken every day."
That you can't be the mangina group leader anymore, because you say something intelligent occasionally.
Now, if we could just get brevity under control. 
Please don't use the word brevity around John, he will write a thousand word dissertation defining the word. lol
a lot of white space, which makes it feel 'lighter', easier to read, and improved our comprehension!!!
Yeah, it's hypocritical to bang girls behind your wife's back and then be offended that some guy broke up with his GF who happened to be a provider.
I don't know many (any?) guys who could be in a LTR with an escort.
This is a self-serving, navel-gazing post that is meant to call attention to the OP, not the jilted provider.
It's a nice thought, but i wouldn't hold my breath waiting for society's to change it's view of this profession. Even if you polled guys who regularly visited providers, probably 99 percent wouldn't want their daughters to enter this profession.
which is much of the drive and motivation for our attempts to be in monogamous relationships, and when that fails, the double-standard we apply when coming to men vs. woman not being monogamous. Some men think they can over-come the old hard-wiring with a relatively a new software program (idealizations of true love), but it seldom works. Sorry for you friend's pain. I hope you can be with her while working it out, while not losing yourself and your needs in the process.
It has everything to do with the fact that most people do not want their partner to fuck someone else.
I've read on these boards that providers will justify their actions because it's just a "job" so it shouldn't strain a personal relationship. That is the biggest load of bullshit I have ever heard. Unless your partner is ok with it, having sex with someone other than your significant other is infidelity plain and simple. It doesn't get more commone sense than that.
Sex is sex, just because it's your "job" or it is "work" doesn't mean that it should be acceptable to someone who wants a normal, faithful relationship.
Or is it not a goose/gander thing for you? Are you married? Do you ask all the providers you see if they are?
And as I've asked on this thread already with no answer, why was he cool with it to begin with? Did he see religion somewhere along the way?
When I met my first wife, I was involved in military stuff. Pretty heavily involved. She professed to be okay with it -- after all, she had met me in context of my work.
But as things moved along and got serious, she started thinking about the future, and kids ... and what it would mean to have an essentially absent husband who, due to the unique nature of the work, had a higher than average likelihood of getting dead.
And she gave me an ultimatum. I had a choice to make. Either I would abandon that occupation along with all related ones and working for a whole stack of entities until all kids had reached the age of majority; or the marriage was ending and there would be no kids.
Now -- was her reconsideration of the situation wrong or evil? Did her ultimatum make her a monster? Did it make her intolerant? Was I suddenly a member of some oppressed class?
Or had she simply gained some new perspective and priorities; and actually done a halfway honorable thing in telling me what was what in her mind?
Lots of times people think that they can handle things that they later decide that they can't. It isn't an issue of bad ethics -- more a matter of them getting in better touch with themselves.
We can't expect people to stay static.
Lots of relationships evolve and then become something different from what either person saw at the beginning, or they want something different. I have no problem accepting that as a reasonable possibility with no Black Hats.
I've read these boards for a while and I find that you my friend, will defend a provider's position to the very end. I suspect you may be one. I'm not criticizing your role of the alpha white knight.
Providers and hobbyists alike, if they are in a conventional personal relationship, having sex outside that relationship is normally considered cheating. So yes, all married guys who see escorts are being unfaithful to their spouse. I'm not saying whether that's wrong or right, but it is unfaithful.
So the guy was ok with it in the beginning and he isn't ok with it now....he changed his mind. So what? He's not allowed to reconsider? Maybe he'll change his mind back and be ok with his girl hooking. Would you be happy with that?
Alfred, sometimes your enthusiasm for providers blinds you to real common sense. The world of prostitution and the TER community do not always reflect real life.
I have no argument with what you say here. And thanks for being consistent.
But no, I won't be happy if they get back, nor will I be unhappy. My comments were, as they usually are, more about the generalized situation, not the specific annonymous people involved.
You are sad now over some hooker in tears because her boyfriend left her. She confided in the OP with her story and he related it herein. WTF is wrong with you Algina that you must come to the rescue of every single story or whoa that appears on this board as the all knowing and all seeing White Knight willing to fall on his shield. You are so pathetic, it is beyond belief.
What is the story with the OP’s friend? Do you know? Fuck no, you do not know! What went on in that relationship? Do you know? I am not going to venture to guess what the hell went on but I sure am not going to come verbally to the rescue as you must do. Did the OP’s story tell any of us what we would need to know to pass judgment one way or another? Fuck No!! But, Algina the Mangina has it all.
As to your comments to Moe, you have now reduced it to goose/gander theories? What if he is married? Are you married? Do YOU ask all providers if they are married? (you probably would)
“And as I've asked on this thread already with no answer, why was he cool with it to begin with? Did he see religion somewhere along the way?”
Who gives a shit? We can see you have been out fucking hookers as do all hobbyists on this forum. The difference is the REAL HOBBYISTS take hobbying for what it is. You, Mangina, must come to the rescue. Please leave this board and all others you participate and do us all a big favor.
You are so wrapped up in your anger you can't read what I post. Instead you start hurling insults whether they have anything to do with my post or not.
Your comments are not worth the time to disect and reply to line by line.
existance on this board! The quintisential WK/Mangina who will run to the rescue of every female sob story posted (and many fellow manginas)
Just like when you answered the OP, you immediately passed judgement on the "boyfriend".
But let no man pass judgement on a provider for her views on the subject! Truth is, when you find a married provider, her husband is many times her "pimp". I met an extremely high rated, and High dollar lady. (Birthday present to me), Hubby set up the times, hubby got the place, or made sure you got the place, AND hubby was the one that everyone exchanged emails with. She did none of that (and he could write some hot e mails LOL). Hubby had no job, he retired early, and just rented his gorgeous wife out. Now, THIS is the kind of guy that can handle a relationship with a lady who wants to remain a hooker!
Personally, with a woman as hot as she was, she would have never gotten out of the house!
Bottom line, guys don't want an LTR with a HO! Be it ego, or whatever, they don't wanna share.
As for all of these clear thinking, ahead of their time, open minded ladies, I doubt that they would want an LTR with a guy they new was going to continue the hobby. This entire conversation is based on conjecture and plain BS.
Don't you wonder about the ladies who have failed so miserably at marriage, and what did it. Most likely one or the other cheated. Throw in a few abuse cases (probably because he caught her cheating), and some other misc. reasons.
So, while you are dissecting (ya look it up) all of your rubbish, you find that yes some people are angry. But not at life, not in general, just at you and your uninformed, naive opinions that you scatter as fact. You ARE the ultimate WK, and you are the most estrogen filled mangina on the planet, and yes it is unsettling that you spend so much time on the newbie board. Not to learn, as you should, but to offer up your nearsighed insight to new members to the hobby.
You are truly a menace to the hobby society!
“Just like when you answered the OP, you immediately passed judgement on the "boyfriend". But let no man pass judgement on a provider for her views on the subject!”
Unlike you, who never passes judgment? This whole business is about subjective judgements. And no, you are wrong, my bias in general is towards the center, to point out the opposing possibilities when one end is getting overly emphasized. Since the vast majority of loud posters consistently promote the macho point of view I wind up posting the counterweight to that. I used to post similar things on a different web site and was accused of being a MCP myself because that board was dominated by extremists in the other direction. Almost everyone sets themselves at the center of the universe and anyone who disagrees is a dangerous extremist. You are no exception (and neither am I).
“Truth is, when you find a married provider, her husband is many times her "pimp"”
Yep. That’s kind of what I said.
“This entire conversation is based on conjecture and plain BS.”
Yep #2. But you seem to only see conjecture from one narrow side. For example: “Throw in a few abuse cases (probably because he caught her cheating)”. It would NEVER be because he was drinking too much or she didn’t bring him back enough money. No, you find a way absolve “him” once again even for abuse. Do you really not see how judgmental YOU are being? Probably not.
“it is unsettling that you spend so much time on the newbie board. Not to learn, as you should, but to offer up your nearsighed insight to new members to the hobby.”
Shouldn’t we all still be learning? I spend time there to try and balance points of view like yours, and yes, to share what I have found in this business. This is a diverse subculture and you are not as all knowing as you believe you are (or want to have others believe). Most my posts there are mundane. I can only think of one particularly contentious thread I posted on over there and it was removed. Odd that’s the one that you focus on.
“You are truly a menace to the hobby society!”
Why? Because I don’t agree with you? Wow. I’ve been at this a lot of years and of all the many people who have actually met me I’m guessing only one would consider me a “menace”. In his case our society is far better off without him and I’m proud of the little part I played in that case.
manginas from every corner of the earth. This is simple, when he kisses her goodnight, he doesn't want to taste the cum of every guy in town. PERIOD! Some guys can handle that type relationship, others can't. So this guy decides he can't and he's a bum, loser, jobless jerk...etc. I really doubt that all of you manginas out there, with your drippy "emotions" coule actually handle it yourselves! What a bunch of hypocritical fools to act like a woman who fucks and sucks for a living would NOT bother you if she chose to continue her profession once you become an item. I have to go now, this place has the stench of estrogen everywhere!
I'm going to start by saying sorry for your recent break up. Even if you are the one that initiated it, it still can't be easy. Some will assume the reason was because you couldn't deal with how she made her money. That's a pretty big assumption since boyfriends break up with their non providing girlfriends for dozens of reasons, so perhaps it wasn't her job, but a more traditional reason.
Or perhaps her escorting actually was the problem. Some will be quick to talk about hypocrisy and bruised egos, but few will applaud you for even attempting to be good with what she does and all the men she does it with. So allow me.
We all wish we were evolved enough to be above jealousy and judgement, but alas that usually isn't the case. In fact, that's rarely the case. You tried. And failed. And while it's unfortunate that this woman is so upset over things, better to end it now than get even more deeply involved. Some men might have stayed in it if only for the sex, knowing that they had no intention of ever getting serious. But not you. You came clean, sacrificing a commodity others pay good money for, because you didn't want to mislead anyone for you own carnal gains. So good for you.
Hopefully you'll both someday find what you're looking for.
The OP related a sob story about his ATF (the hooker he is banging).
If you want to join the Mangina team (where you belong) contact the OP via PM and then contact the dude who broke up and the hooker to so that your great words of wisdom can be related first hand, not to the third party. Geesh.
You don't really think I was writing a letter to the hooker's boyfriend, I'm sure. Surely you can tell that I was simply offering an opposing viewpoint to the oiginal poster. That I was just showing that there's two sides to every story. Hmmmm, maybe since you think I belong on team mangina, the not so subtle sarcasm was actually lost on you? Is that possible? On the one hand, you seem smart enough to be able to read and write, yet you still get confused this easily?
Well, hopefull it's all cleared up for you now.
Being in,and being,love(ed)is a wondeful feeling. Being dumped sucks. Doesn't matter what career one is engaged in. She's not human because of her career path? Of course she is. She's lucky to have you as a caring friend.
FUCK Mangina critics. I would trade a 'real man' for a mangina any day and twice on tuesday.
No cracks on my man of choice people.
The general opinion of society towards escorting has nothing to do with an escort's BF or SO accepting the fact that she sleeps with other men for money. That is a very private matter between the two of them. Lots of men probably think they can handle it when they find themselves in the early stages of love/lust with a new lady but find it harder or impossible to accept long term.
A guy who is going to be with an escort has to accept the fact that other guys get her vagina for a fee-not her heart and soul. If he can't deal with that the relationship won't work. if he can deal with it then it really doesn't matter what the rest of the world thinks...
Thank you for your soft kind words..
I can tell you that I wake up at night with anxity attacks. feeling guity about what I do. Yet loving it. because he does not know..
There are many, many gentlemen out there who would not be accepting...I try very very hard not to judge other people. Yet we all do it ..
He or she was not right for the other.. regardless of the reason. We all want to be loved, apprecited and have a sense of worth and value.....
As friend to her, Be honest and be a soft place to lay her head. She will be ok.. Just alittle reassurance is all that is needed...
She knows. Wish I would've talked with her a few weeks ago.
Might've saved me from some shit.
And I'm talking in the positive way, from both parties.
Hypocrisy is hard thing to overcome because it keeps on feeding itself.