Got this stat from Wikipedia -- since 1973, the US has awarded 4 Medals of Honor for bravery in the armed services.  Not that our "service" anywhere near approaches military service, but clearly we have our hazards, too.  Of the 4 Medals of Honor awarded since '73, ALL were given posthumously.  TOFTT, especially when you are describing some of hazards you are considering on your mission, should be taken with the perspective that you may not return.......I'd consider whether sucking it up and "Taking One For You and Passing" may be a better option that will increase the chances of being able to retire in good health from the hobby someday.....But, I will read your review.

You gotta go with your gut feel.  If it smells like a duck it must be a duck.  Better to walk away rather than spend $$$$ for a poor experience.

I have never been ripped off or denied at last some service at an incall. My experiences where they came to me are much fewer, but included all my rip-off experiences.

... if the lady shows up and is not her pics in the ad, give your apologies and shut the door.

If bubba is with her... tell him to stay outside. It's your crib. If she don't like it, she can leave.

And be warned... rip-offs can happen on incalls too. I've had 2 so far.

It will always be a crap shoot with this hobby, until it gets regulated somehow (very unlikely). Bait & switch, Grab and dash, Misleading ads, poor attitudes, fake reviews... take your pic. This is why I NEVER do outcalls. Way too risky.

Lastly, if you're horny as hell... go back to your ATF or someone you know you can rely on. I have 3 regulars, while not AMAZING, will always get me off and have me leaving with a smile.
PM me if you want their info.

Good luck

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