A post a few days ago by frankie2003a about a book on this subject caused me to blow the dust off a book i've had on the shelf for a couple years and reread it.

I think it offers alot of good tips and information, both in general and specific in some cases.

In case anyone wants to check into it, the link is below.

she should comminicate what she wants, you should observe her reaction to what you do. stick with what works .Each woman is different.

was an infallible technique, either didn't work, or actually irritated some ladies. One, in particular actually said "all right, you're pissin' me off here!" Wounded the hell out of my ego, until she saw the hurt look on my face, grabbed me by the scruff of the neck and said "come here" as she pulled me to her lips. She then kissed me and said "like this". She slowly twirled her tongue around my tongue, then started a gentle rythmic undulating motion with her tongue into my mouth. After she did that for a while, I had lost my interest in eating her! But then she said, "try it like that". So, being an obedient little cuntlikker, I did as I was told, and soon had little kitty purring away.
Not that that works on all of 'em either, by the way!

but in the business of pleasure, you don't always get true answers(probably for the best in some cases) and i like to have some ideas and knowledge floating around my grey matter anyway.

I only got 4 brain cells left, i might as well make good use of 'em.

You might talk beforehand or afterward, but most women's communications skills aren't at their best when getting head.  
And if you stop to ask a question, how do you know you just didn't interrupt that orgasm she was about to have?  

As for her reactions, they can be pretty subtle, and difficult to see from your camera angle.  

/Zin