For me the thrill and excitement of being with somebody new is starting to get eclipsed by

1:Ringing cell phones. Nothing kills the mood faster for me than a ladies phone going off. I don't care how clever or cool the ringer sounds, is it really that much trouble to turn the damn phone off during our time together?  Which leads me to

2:Girls who answer their phones on my dime. This is about the rudest and stupidest behavior around. My last date was with a pretty nice girl who did this.  She took a call from another client on my time. Guess who I won't be seeing again?

3:Too much talk about the business aspect. I admit I used to be pretty interested in how things ran, but enough's enough. Time to get back to the fantasy and away from the reality of escorting. I'd like to think I'm not just another paycheck, even though I'm fooling myself.

4:Agencies that book assembly line dates. Give the girls a break in between clients. I hate being with a girl who wouldn't mind if I left before my appointment was up, so that she can ready for the next guy. Maybe they should start charging by the minute instead? Let's see. $300 per hour divided by 60 minutes=$5 a minute. I leave 10 minutes early so I get a $50 rebate.

Rant off.

Absolutely no disrespect intended here, but learning how to pick the right lady is an acquired skill.

Not one time has any lady I've ever seen had her phone ring, or God forbid, answer it.

Steer clear of agencies, and go for highly rated independants.  You won't go wrong with that formula.  In fact, let me save you tons of research.  Go to my reviews and see any lady with an 8 or higher for performance....that should keep you smiling for about the next year or so...........LOL!!!!!!!

Have fun,

Jacksonlips

I share your viewpoints too! These days the girls just don't seem to get that it's our dime, excuse me $300 to $500, and we at least deserve not to have to hear the damn phone and pagers going off every 5 minutes.

My other bitch is all the back ground checking required. Hell my last call for a date ended up with them wanting so much info I finally said enough and called the whole thing off. They wanted to call my employer...not a chance with all the sleezy little whores and pimps involved in this business.

Loved the rebate idea, but hell will freeze over first. As the old saying goes, women have half of the money in the world and all of the pussy... and they're stingy with it.

I've had similar experiences with certain agencies & even certain independents. However, there are well run agencies that fire women who get poor reviews or on whom they receive complaint calls. I'm not sure which area you're from, but if you live anywhere near me, I can certainly give you a good "heads up" on where you will NOT find these behaviors which are causing your "thrill" to diminish. Believe me, I DO understand. I'm not one to waste my time, which to me, is more valuable than money.

My there sounds like a lot of anger in there, guy!

While I agree about the cell phone ringing, unless she answers it, that’s a minor annoyance.  I’m not sure you can go anywhere without cell phones going off anymore:  restaurants, movie theaters, concerts, etc.  I pay good money in all those cases, and while I don’t appreciate phones ringing, it doesn’t stop me from returning.

As to the background checks:  I know 4 ladies who have been attacked by clients in the last year.  Two of them were lucky, one was severely injured, and one was killed.  Personally, I’m surprised they don’t screen more.  I’ve talked with a couple of my favorites about increasing their caution.

As to rebates:  I don’t think I could afford it.  If I had to pay $5 for every minute a lady stayed over time I’d be broke!  Every dollar of mine that these ladies have has been a voluntary donation, and the vast majority of those dollars have been well spent.

I have found that by doing my homework (largely thanks to this site) I have been able to avoid most poor times.  Some of your annoyance might be caused by the attitude in your message coming across in person, I don’t know.


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I think the phone thing is a real problem for Independents who start to get really popular or have a good ad.  There is a new service starting up in Phx. in a couple of weeks that will answer the phone and book appointments for a small fee.  I know the girls feel that over 50% of calls they don't pick up on are lost, but it is one of the worst things about seeing independents.  Maybe this service will help.

SlowStart

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There is absolutely no excuse for an independent to have her phone ringing.   She can use a voicemail service, direct calls to a cell phone and shut off the phone during a session....in short, no excuse at all...nada...zip....to allow any wiggle room here is to enable a bad situation.

-Hoot.

There is no Client as important as the one you're with..

I have a hard time buying that excuse.  In the old days that may have been true especially when most providers accepted same day dates and in many cases would not book far ahead.

In today's environment many of the ladies have advertisements that say no same day appointments.  Clients have adjusted in general by making appointments days or even weeks in advance.