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DFK sets the tone for a convincing GFE session. Many girls advertise GFE, but just go through the motions. Unless you can engage in the kind of deep French kissing that gets you a little wet, you will never convince an experienced veteran hobbyist that you are into the session, and that would mean no repeat from me. Beyond that, the standard GFE session for me includes, BBBJ with CIM option, DATY with FIV option (which by definition putting these together would include 69), and CFS using an FC2. As long as these are all on the menu, it doesn't mean I will do all of them every time, but knowing they are available makes it a Girl Friend Experience for me. Things like restraints, blindfolds, dildos, and jumper cable are not part of my GFE sessions, but rather the Nasty Slut Next Door Experience. Just my own opinion. Others may have a broader or narrower definition.
I think you just about said it all...thank u😏
I completely agree with the DFK. Some ladies say they DFK, but there's no real intensity to it. And then there are the ladies that knock my socks off with their DFK. I always repeat as much as I can with those ladies. To me, great DFK leads to an overall incredible experience because it seems she's really into being with me.
And I agree with the rest except I don't mind if her little buzzy friends are mixed into the fun too. I don't see ladies who do CBJs anymore because I found it to hinder the spontaneity of the visit by having to stop and put the cover on every time a BJ is performed.
...convince me that you want me, which for me involves lots of kissing, touching and eye contact. I melt like butter when a woman looks at me with desire in her eyes.
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Not acts, but attitude. A great GFE provider will have me believing she really IS my girlfriend for the time we're together, and not someone I've paid to have sex with me.
And that's really tough to do, and thus rare, in my years of experience in p4p. I know only one provider who knocks GFE out of the park. Her skills are top-notch, but many guys who want GFE would cross her off their lists immediately because she does CBJs (at least, until she trusts you to not CIM--another strike on her). What's extraordinary about her is how well she projects the "girlfriend" vibe to her clients (both men and women). I know a handful of other providers who are very good at the GFE attitude thing, but they're not 100% convincing like the first provider I mentioned.
There's a lot of disagreement over which skills/acts are associated with GFE. I agree kissing with tongue is a must, but the hard part is to make it seem as if the kisses are from a girlfriend. I prefer BBBJ but can accept CBJ if it's well done. For me, the mutual touching including DATY and sensual massage are important. And FC is a nice plus but IMO it's more important for doubles.
You just described most al My dates and GFE. .Playtime Wink
Yes attitude is everything. Some ladies can project the girlfriend illusion and some can't. I repeat with the ladies who can.
My favorite lady completely knocks GFE out of the park for me. She convinces me every time that she wants to be with me. I also see three other ladies who are right behind her in their GFE experience with me. Luckily for me, I get to see all of them every time they come to town.
Desire is very important....im preparing for my next date...XoXo 👄
Be attentive, rather than just going thru the motions. Make me feel like I'm the only guy in the world during our time together. Have an orgasm, or be so theatrically convincing that I can't tell the difference. Kiss me passionately throughout.
Youve Got It..or the next mam i see...XoXo
I can't imagine trying to connect on that level if there was no kissing involved.
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This is not in any order.
Kali Gail
Lexi Lee
Terri Lynn
LaRue McCay
Angel Girl
April Luv
Harlowe Dahl
Bentley Marie
Bliss of DFW
Kendall Kain
Khloe Meadows
Sissy
Desire Drea
January Class
Ashley Moss
Kandi Apple
These are some of the ladies that I believe are ultimate at the definition of GFE. But are not limited to GFE.
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Im fantastic at GFE..and Massage, light porn star experience 😙👄👄
Thanks for the mention baby.
It's about the attitude.
I really want to feel like the love of your life, even if deep inside I know it is acting.
Good theater is a wonderful experience, especially with audience participation.
Well I'm for Real ..Naughty And Nice...💃 & If Need to..A Great Actress !!
It's my number one priority to have a deep connection with the individual I am spending time with. We are both taking time out of our day to enjoy each other's company. It's refreshing to be genuine to one another.
plus sensual mutual massage with gentle touching. Add the attitude of a passionate provider who is really into the time spent with the monger where the provider is really into the session, then we have a winner. A FC2 is a plus and a requirement for FMF.
First off, I have noticed that some of the newest providers say "No GFE" because they have confused GFE to equate to BBFS. That is completely not the case. I consider GFE activities to include:
-BBBJ
-DFK
-Blindfolds
-Light PSE
-Mutual Masturbation
-Russian
-Showering Together
-Dirty Talk
-Massage
-Taking her car for a oil change! Lol!
Just to name a few.
Thank you....Sounds Right Up My Alley ..😻
Yes to name a few...like Dining and Shopping...not just for me., Us...but for All The animals in my life I love and help.. Outside. 😻 👿
You laugh, but I indeed got this service.
In my case it was her sister! What a clusterfuck! She was a basket case after & we spent a lot of time talking before starting the session over.
GFE is primarily attitude -- and gets better over time. So if we hit it off at first, then I'll book follow-up sessions and, generally, it gets better as we get to know one another a bit better each time. For me, there's also some communication in between sessions (mine tend to be weeks or months apart, due to logistics and living in a provider desert), keeping it short and sweet -- but building to the next session.
Once we're playing, a certain level of intimacy is in play -- and this is the tricky part for the best GFE experiences, as many players might confuse it with developing feelings for someone. You have to be able to skate right UP to that line, dance along its edge but never cross it, otherwise you'll ruin things.
Then the usual run of acronyms (DFK, 3BJ, 69, DATY, FIV) and the best touches then become the optional -- CIM and anal. CBJ is a non-starter for me and seems antithetical to the very concept of GFE.
I will also state that the use of the FC2 has greatly enhanced my GFE experiences, as it gives me the illusion of my bare dick sliding in & out, with only a small ring of synthetic material in view. With proper insertion and the right lube, it's close enough to natural to help get this old dino to our mutually-desire happy place.
FC2 I Will have to try it with one of my Gents..sounds fun..and GFE does get better with time...with same person or persons.. Men..
but it is the feeling that I've been with a lover when I leave her door.
If i have to quantify:
Kissing... tongue optional
Hugs & cuddling
BBBJ preferable (cbj possible if she does a super job)
FS
In the other direction:
Kissing, cuddling
Mouth on Breast play
DATY, FIV willingness to guide me to please her.
Attitude that says "you are the only one I am interested in and nothing else matters except of US having an amazing time"
Along with MSOG no matter if I can only have one or I can have three I need the attitude to say I want all of you and more of you.
LFK sets the tone and creates romance
DFK creates passion and heat
BBBJ is extremely personal, without it the atmosphere says Employer/Employee (CIM and COF are a bonus)
DATY once again is extremely personal and as long as she is enjoying it DATY needs to be long and intense
Caressing each other is critical to show genuine enjoyment and "I care and want to be one with you"
CFS with all of the basic positions offered and enjoyed "the woman leading the way is a bonus"
All of these things to me are a must because it all equates to Passion and Chemistry, without it there cannot be a GFE experience for me and no matter how amazing she looks there will never be a second visit. I will add I do not always experience "intercourse" on a visit, it comes down to the mood and the flow. A few of the very best times I have had in this world did not include going all the way.
I like that you are a man who knows what he wants.
With two providers I see we play BBFSCIP. I guess you can call this SGFE. (Super Girlfriend Experience).
Oh yeah, DFK is a no brainer for me. I love passionate kissing...mmmm...
I agree with all the other stuff as well, except I've never tried a FC. I'm a squirter and think I would just end up propelling it across the room with my kegel muscles...lmfao.
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For activities, for me, it has to include BBBJ. No BBBJ, no GFE. I agree with those who say a ladies attitude, or involvement or presence is key to the GFE session. I would add presentation or setting the mood or scene in the room. For me, this includes wearing something nice, a sexy dress or lingerie and nice shoes. When a lady answers the door in flip flops, yoga pants and a baggy t-shirt, it sends a message.
A girl should take care of here man and he should treat here real good.So I expect everything.The idea that PSE is an additive don't make much sense to me.
I always figured PSE was what we might call "rough sex." Or things like anal and bondage.
Girl Friend right........should provide everything .
Girl Friend right........should provide everything .
A girl should take care of here man and he should treat here real good.So I expect everything.The idea that PSE is an additive don't make much sense to me.
I thought you were a BOOBSMAN
Hi Sheila I am and will always be.I just think girlfriend experience should be a bit more realistic.
If you asked many married or divorced guys about life before marriage when the wife was a girlfriend they would tell you that the sex was great ,we do everything sex.
So the GFE should kinda reflect that . Not talking about BBBFS
And this does not mean I expect more for less.
Really? I never use a cover with my girlfriend and a few select providers.
No doubt BBBFS are more satisfying.But you should be concerned about the clients of those select providers.
There is some risk in this hobby ,no doubt .But BBBF just elevastes it.
No doubt BBBFS are more satisfying.But you should be concerned about the clients of those select providers.
There is some risk in this hobby ,no doubt .But BBBF just elevastes it.
This website should explain everything!
Awesome. I will ck it out..😉
More seriously: in addition to the usual acronyms, massage can be a great GFE flourish. I've seen a provider a few times who brings a hot washcloth from the bathroom after we finish and give a quick little facial massage with it that feels wonderful.
its hard to find,doesn't happen often- GFE are just letters...what i need from a provider to b GFE...open and honest...excited smile when we meet..wants to-touch me,taste me and make love to me like she wants me....deep wet kisses...deeper wetter 69...shows me what she wants and needs and what makes her cum.....mutual orgasms....no limits on pops during time frame...deep wet kisses...asks me to go down on her again......
Is kissing DFK, bbbjcim, (spit or swallow optional), allowing daty and fiv, mulfiple "pops" until time limit, talking between "pops" as people do, about life, or whatever, not as provider and client but as people. Acting like you want me and want more of... whatever we do. Sincerity even if feigned. Act loving even if its just an act. Anal can be part of gfe but isn't necessary fir a sessiin to be gfe, ymmv for that.
PSE is more about acrobatics.and how many positions and kink and roleplay and nothing but sex sex sex and getting it up for more sex as opposed to gfe which is more bohemian.
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GFE/PSE can go really well together...I offer this so I speak from experience 
One doesn't negate the other.
Just because there may be more intense/intimate activities or high energy in a PSE encounter doesn't mean the sensuality, warmth, connection, kissing, conversation, and cuddling of GFE can't be a part of that too. The same goes for kink and GFE.
xoxo
Devorah
Never said the two couldn't be combined, in fact, thats just even hotter. I was simply stating what I see as "pure GFE" at the minimum expected activity level when I book. More is almost always better.
3rd time is A Charm.
Or 3 some 😚
I want/need DFK and sweet sensuality including lots of affection leading to mind blowing IOP. In short, I want the provider to create the realistic elusion of a passionate, sexually charged relationship.
I recently had an extraordinary GFE session with a new provider! I entered the room after a quick shower and she stood up to greet me with a hug and dfk! Her first whispered words in my ear were, “Do anything you want with me!” I said, “Anything?” She replied, “Almost...”, before returning to dfk! As we moved through the session she continued to whisper sexy compliments, approval and encouragement as I played with her body. She was playful and sexy, and she seemed to almost read my mind about what I wanted to do next! She had almost continuous eye contact and smiled like she was really enjoying herself. We did just about everything I could think of in the session - now that’s GFE!
Nice Scenario..improve my technique 💋