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...been catfished?! It doesn't have to be by a provider/client!

I have! But not by a client...but a very successful restaurant owner that wanted to pursue me! The only thing that turned out real about him was his wallet & phone number LOL!  

SO...

I met this guy at HIS restaurant for a dinner date. I had a feeling it'd be someone else there when i showed up because  his accent didn't match the photos he sent me! I mean he didn't look remotely close to his photos! Complexion.. height...build...NOTHING!  

And get this...!!!

His LOVE PISTOL was a cat fish, too!!! Oh the agony! LOL!
If you have the audacity to send a d-pic, at LEAST let it be yours!  Hahaha

Posted By: xAvaMoorexx
...been catfished?! It doesn't have to be by a provider/client!  
   
 I have! But not by a client...but a very successful restaurant owner that wanted to pursue me! The only thing that turned out real about him was his wallet & phone number LOL!  
   
 SO...  
   
 I met this guy at HIS restaurant for a dinner date. I had a feeling it'd be someone else there when i showed up because  his accent didn't match the photos he sent me! I mean he didn't look remotely close to his photos! Complexion.. height...build...NOTHING!  
   
 And get this...!!!  
   
 His LOVE PISTOL was a cat fish, too!!! Oh the agony! LOL!  
 If you have the audacity to send a d-pic, at LEAST let it be yours!  Hahaha!  
   
   
   
 

If you read the first reply to the OP, it's when you get close to someone online that is NOT who the represent themselves to be
when you meet them ... ditto the dick pic ...
Hope that helps. ...  if not, read Ava's post again, then read mine .... again. 😆 Repeat f#
   

Posted By: xAvaMoorexx
...been catfished?! It doesn't have to be by a provider/client!  
     
  I have! But not by a client...but a very successful restaurant owner that wanted to pursue me! The only thing that turned out real about him was his wallet & phone number LOL!    
     
  SO...  
     
  I met this guy at HIS restaurant for a dinner date. I had a feeling it'd be someone else there when i showed up because  his accent didn't match the photos he sent me! I mean he didn't look remotely close to his photos! Complexion.. height...build...NOTHING!    
     
  And get this...!!!  
     
  His LOVE PISTOL was a cat fish, too!!! Oh the agony! LOL!  
  If you have the audacity to send a d-pic, at LEAST let it be yours!  Hahaha!    
     
     
     
 

OK, Gotcha, Since I haven't messed around with any of the "social media" until just recently, I'd never heard of it. Hey, I'm 83 years old with a short term memory problem, lol. Had I Googled it, I would have understood the term. Being a biologist, I was wracking my brain trying to associate catfish with the topic LOL Thanks, N of Boston

Posted By: xAvaMoorexx
...been catfished?! It doesn't have to be by a provider/client!  
   
 I have! But not by a client...but a very successful restaurant owner that wanted to pursue me! The only thing that turned out real about him was his wallet & phone number LOL!  
   
 SO...  
   
 I met this guy at HIS restaurant for a dinner date. I had a feeling it'd be someone else there when i showed up because  his accent didn't match the photos he sent me! I mean he didn't look remotely close to his photos! Complexion.. height...build...NOTHING!  
   
 And get this...!!!  
   
 His LOVE PISTOL was a cat fish, too!!! Oh the agony! LOL!  
 If you have the audacity to send a d-pic, at LEAST let it be yours!  Hahaha!  
   
   
   
 

I sure did! The curiosity had me! I had to see! However, we did not get intimate because the protection was too big. The whole situation was a MESS!

Posted By: 613spades
 
   
Posted By: xAvaMoorexx
...been catfished?! It doesn't have to be by a provider/client!  
     
  I have! But not by a client...but a very successful restaurant owner that wanted to pursue me! The only thing that turned out real about him was his wallet & phone number LOL!    
     
  SO...  
     
  I met this guy at HIS restaurant for a dinner date. I had a feeling it'd be someone else there when i showed up because  his accent didn't match the photos he sent me! I mean he didn't look remotely close to his photos! Complexion.. height...build...NOTHING!    
     
  And get this...!!!  
     
  His LOVE PISTOL was a cat fish, too!!! Oh the agony! LOL!  
  If you have the audacity to send a d-pic, at LEAST let it be yours!  Hahaha!    
     
     
     
 

The protection being to big is a bit sad though:(.  
      Better luck next time! You could try pics with a paper and that days date written on it or your name. Hard to fake those.  

Posted By: xAvaMoorexx
I sure did! The curiosity had me! I had to see! However, we did not get intimate because the protection was too big. The whole situation was a MESS!  
   
Posted By: 613spades
 
     
Posted By: xAvaMoorexx
...been catfished?! It doesn't have to be by a provider/client!    
       
   I have! But not by a client...but a very successful restaurant owner that wanted to pursue me! The only thing that turned out real about him was his wallet & phone number LOL!    
       
   SO...    
       
   I met this guy at HIS restaurant for a dinner date. I had a feeling it'd be someone else there when i showed up because  his accent didn't match the photos he sent me! I mean he didn't look remotely close to his photos! Complexion.. height...build...NOTHING!    
       
   And get this...!!!    
       
   His LOVE PISTOL was a cat fish, too!!! Oh the agony! LOL!    
   If you have the audacity to send a d-pic, at LEAST let it be yours!  Hahaha!    
       
       
       
   

Where you could meet someone at the library, or coffee shop, or whole foods. I mean... Stop swiping right, and start living ❤️

I totally agree! The guys i run into like that are always taken :(

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...Some more honest here than anywhere else.  One might say their home lives are where the "catfishing"/fake selves exist.  

As for the providers, it's tricky bc we may provide ads and pics, but guys write the reviews, some of which catfish the girls more than any ad. Lol

Anonymity seems shady and conducive to deception, but I'm far more open here as an alias than I would be under a work handle.

-- Modified on 2/14/2016 5:17:33 PM

It was horrifying!  

Posted By: xAvaMoorexx
...been catfished?! It doesn't have to be by a provider/client!  
   
 I have! But not by a client...but a very successful restaurant owner that wanted to pursue me! The only thing that turned out real about him was his wallet & phone number LOL!  
   
 SO...  
   
 I met this guy at HIS restaurant for a dinner date. I had a feeling it'd be someone else there when i showed up because  his accent didn't match the photos he sent me! I mean he didn't look remotely close to his photos! Complexion.. height...build...NOTHING!  
   
 And get this...!!!  
   
 His LOVE PISTOL was a cat fish, too!!! Oh the agony! LOL!  
 If you have the audacity to send a d-pic, at LEAST let it be yours!  Hahaha!  
   
   
   
 

Do you care to elaborate? Or too ridiculous to relive?

Tons of emails and phone conversation.  He always sent pics of himself with a  group and would say he is the cute bald guy.  There were two bald guys in every picture.  I assumed he was the cute one.  NOOOOOOOOO  total  goof.  Like such a clown I was mortified to be seen with him in public.  Yuck I'm getting skeeved out just thinking about this guy.  Ewwwweeee

Posted By: xAvaMoorexx
Do you care to elaborate? Or too ridiculous to relive?

by this chick that I was talking to on twitter for 3 years. The story broke right after the Manti Teo story so it was kind of a big deal if you were local because she was also catfishing players from the Washington Redskins during that time. I never met "her" (there'd always be a lame excuse) but she did give me 2 pairs of Redskins tix and Paypal'd me $50 bucks so I'm not too hung up over it

Woooow interesting! Had something  similar happen to a friend in high school!

never been catfished by a guy
maybe because they know i like older guys so they send up-to-date pics

Posted By: xAvaMoorexx
...been catfished?! It doesn't have to be by a provider/client!  
   
 I have! But not by a client...but a very successful restaurant owner that wanted to pursue me! The only thing that turned out real about him was his wallet & phone number LOL!  
   
 SO...  
   
 I met this guy at HIS restaurant for a dinner date. I had a feeling it'd be someone else there when i showed up because  his accent didn't match the photos he sent me! I mean he didn't look remotely close to his photos! Complexion.. height...build...NOTHING!  
   
 And get this...!!!  
   
 His LOVE PISTOL was a cat fish, too!!! Oh the agony! LOL!  
 If you have the audacity to send a d-pic, at LEAST let it be yours!  Hahaha!  
   
   
   
 

not here, in the real world, which is exactly why I don't play there anymore lol.  

Thank goodness ;)

Will someone please explain what being "catfished" means?

And while we are on strange terms, what is the surfing position?

Yes, I am a nerd, not up on the hipster terms.

Lmao I'll speak on my post only. The term "catfish" refers to a person that is NOT WHO THEY SAY THEY ARE. For instance, the guy that catfished me sent me photos of someone that was not him. So when i say i was catfished, i am saying that i was fooled or scammed into thinking the guy that i met was the guy in the photos.  

Why they chose to call is "catfish" i have no idea! But also check the link below! Numbers 3 and 4 are pretty helpful!

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