I mostly need references when i travel out of town...I find it best to contact the ladies i will use as references to ASK... them if it would be ok and if they would mind if I used them...this then tells the Lady reference to expect calls or emails...and thus she is A. not surprised and B.handles them quickly and efficiently as she doesn't have to think about who I am and why is this lady writing her... And Formost it's just common Courtesy... something often lacking in this arena... I don't like surprises (which is why I am here and do my homework) and I;m sure most ladies dont' like them either.... Thanks to all the ladies that have verified and covered me...
I am considering asking for at least two references for verification purposes. Why? Often the provider cannot be reached (at all or in a timely manner) and there are instances where the reference is not well-known (ie, posted a couple times on CL or just has a photo with contact information on Eros).
was ask for a minimum of two recent verifiable references who were well established within the escort community. I would usually ask for the ladies website, email and phone number, and if she was a member of an adult web board I would ask for her handle/username too. Screening to me is so very important, and because there are now so many LE false fronts out there you have to be careful.
Out of 3 references at least one or two might reply. If all 3 answer you've got a tie breaker if not all agree. However, even one negative response might act as a veto.
Kat Walker's request for a handle or username is good. If a search on the handle turned up a history for you to skim for impressions, that would be a set of information produced over time and thus hard to fabricate quickly. Also, you might get a sense of how the applicant is judged in TER by peers.
I mostly need references when i travel out of town...I find it best to contact the ladies i will use as references to ASK... them if it would be ok and if they would mind if I used them...this then tells the Lady reference to expect calls or emails...and thus she is A. not surprised and B.handles them quickly and efficiently as she doesn't have to think about who I am and why is this lady writing her... And Formost it's just common Courtesy... something often lacking in this arena... I don't like surprises (which is why I am here and do my homework) and I;m sure most ladies dont' like them either.... Thanks to all the ladies that have verified and covered me...
There have been more busts since SamPete states he knows Uncle Jethro and Lola Falana. Maybe Uncle Jethro isnt in the hobby anymore and Lola has retired or just got busted.
Screening the normal way is so much less drama, and less trouble than waiting for escorts to email back,in fear of losing their clients, or whatever other insane reasons they have.
One thing that has been happening here in Houston is LE is using gentleman who use their legitimate work info for verification. Once the lady verifies their work info and or calls their work place they think everything is kosher. Then they get snagged. Not to mention, the escort references will also check out and they still get snagged. LE has gotten very creative and found ways around strict screening processes.
It is interesting to read your comments. As a hobbyist, I have seen a number of providers. Most ask a few questions, if any at all, and then they say, "Okay, when do you want to meet?"
Even in dealing with agencies, TVI and PC the screening process was minimal. I am not sure what they really think they accomplish because they are certainly not protecting their provider.
I called a provider last week whose screener asked me for references. I told her I was a VIP member of TER and gave her the name of another provider I had seen. We never ended the phone call before she scheduled an appointment for me.
I read a lot about screening, but it sounds more like what people would like to do than what they in fact really do.
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