1) Negotiations!  
I travel 1 hour and 30 minutes to the area that I work in - I do this for discretion as I have a career outside of the hobby and privacy in my actual hometown. I state this when I am speaking with clients upon booking, so asking me "can we do the incall rate instead of the outcall rate" blows my mind. There are two different rates for a reason! I believe that girls take into consideration not only their "skill" level but their travel time & other expenses when determining these rates. PLEASE do not email a provider asking for anything otherwise what is listed! I am sure if it was possible, her rates would be different. I think my rates are fair and reasonable for the area.  

- Scenario 2, probably should have just walked him to the door and ended the session. With that kind of negative energy, how could either one of you enjoy the time - plus, it's the principle of the whole thing. FWIW, there's a decent chance he was just confused and not trying to screw you (well, not figuratively speaking anyway)...some folks do not have a good head for details.  

There will always be hobbyist like this out there.Nothing we can do about it.we business.they customer.Customers love negotiating

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If I go to a restaurant and the filet mignon is listed as 50, can I ask them "how about we just go with the cheeseburger price?"

Hahahaha, hopefully I tour there soon!

Posted By: douglas858

- Scenario 2, probably should have just walked him to the door and ended the session. With that kind of negative energy, how could either one of you enjoy the time - plus, it's the principle of the whole thing. FWIW, there's a decent chance he was just confused and not trying to screw you (well, not figuratively speaking anyway)...some folks do not have a good head for details.  
   
 - Would you please drive another 39 hours and do Incall in SoCal?

sorry it happened to you

that he probably gets away with this BS over half the time, and so he keeps on trying.

how could he be confused when she confirmed twice before the appt?...maybe he has done this before?...did he have references, that maybe would have stated the same incidence?

I am looking for a wonderful, romantic, erotic time with the ladies I choose to see.
I can not imagine negotiating over the donation.
What a mood Killer!!!!!
Paying anyway so why ruin the atmosphere over $50, $100 or what ever!!
If you can not afford her move on!

Exactly..  
And might I add - it wasn't like I confirmed when he texted for the room number.
I confirmed 1 hour and 15 minutes before the appt. So there was still time to correct the issue (i.e. hit the ATM.....)

some guys pull, and then they are surprised and complain when they don't get what they wanted or ddon't have a stellar time.  

these are the types that do not respect us as people but only as a service to be used

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Determine the gratuity for a rendezvous with me.  I'm now offering something unique and unprecedented, and have done away with a set rate, as you can read on my website.

I have no problem with the OP ventilating about what happened but she's doing what my dear ol' dad used to call "pissing in your blue serge suit.  It gives you a nice warm feeling and nobody knows you did it."  In other words, it's futile.  Because the monger in question is clearly a deeply manipulative sociopath.  Such people cannot be convinced to change their behavior by words alone.  A good tasing might help.

Yah, you're probably right - I'm just saying there's a *chance* it was an honest mistake or mixup. For instance, you may have confirmed 1 hour and 15 minutes before but perhaps all the guy did was scan the subject line while he was driving (and ignored the content of the message).  

I've had numerous positive inquiries, but because I recently had a death in my family, I'm currently on a brief hiatus while I deal with family matters.

You might want to take a look at your screening practices and pre-date communication, to figure out if there is a way to avoid accepting dates with people like that.  

If you've made me life a misery already on arrival by making me argue over the donation up front then with the best will in the world I'm not going to be feeling kind and loving thoughts towards you during the session. You'll get a mattress actress and nothing more.
The lovely gents who make the whole thing easy with some simple screening, sufficient notice, full donation and nice, polite and courteous demeanour will get all they're paying for and more besides.
Isn't that the same in any business?

but I never discuss rates ever.  Not on the phone or in email.  I guess I have been lucky with no discrepancies.  I do feel that you were wronged,  but please be careful discussing those matters!  

Works like a charm. You then have no obligations to continue the conversation. You can then watch him talk to his lonely self in your email until he gets the hint.  

...an all-male school.  Their athletic teams play in the Troglodyte League.

I always carry an emergency fund...  and if I scewed up, I'd dip into it.  But frankly, if the "gent" does not have the correct amount, I'd turn him around & point him to the door.  Even if he cough's it up, he's set a poor atmosphere for his experience